I'm so confused right now, any time i have misunderstand with my husband, he will sleep outside ,and this make me feel bad and depressed. I know he is cheating on me. The worst part of it that even if he is the one that offended me, he will never apologize, rather he wouldn't come home until i call him or beg him to come back home. I'm tired of begging him. Please my Nairalanders, advise me because tired of this marriage and also confused on how to make him understand that he is hurting me. I don't have friends to share my pain with. Please advise me.
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He has a side chick, so when you chase him the side chick welcomes him

Your husband is a bad player.

Awa fierce gan to ba n wa mi

Your husband must be related to king Solomon or his original roots can be traced to king Solomon.. His wisdom can only be compared to Solomon.

Wisdom is profitable to direct.. That your husband na sharp guy, him dey use that opportunity taste other flavours

Everybody shouting he's cheating,how did you know?
You dey cheat with am?

Aboks:
He has a side chick, so when you chase him the side chick welcomes him

I second this beautiful motion

Do you depend on your husband's Money for everything you do?
Do you have something going for yourself?

Damnnn niggarrrr rrrrr

This is what you get when a real niggarr is forced into marriage
Your husband must be a real niggarr

Is like your hubby is cheating on you, because i don't see the reason why a man would sleep outside his home in the name that he has misunderstanding with his wife that absurd, i think you should confort him and ask him some questions.

U sef find one fresh Bobo to dey come house whenever he don go

This life too short abeg

Dear poster,

This advice won’t be easy but I hope that you hearken to it. Your husband already knows your weak spot. Whether he is cheating or not, he has noticed that staying out of his matrimonial home during misunderstanding coerces you into begging him. He won’t stop using this method until you show it doesn’t bother you anymore. Next time he does that, leave him. Let him buy food outside and spend well wherever he is. Don’t call him, don’t bulge no matter what. Go about your daily activities. In fact, visit friends and family or have a nice hangout. When he sees you have not even tried reaching out for like 1 week, he’ll adjust. When he comes back home, don’t ask him where he had been. Just do your normal thing, have a social life. Trust me he’ll start shaking and would want to initiate a discussion. Never sound bitter, cry or beg because that’s what he wants.

In all these, I just pray you make enough money not to even bother talking to him at all. Love and light.

stop begging him and get busy.
you can build with someone that wants your home built. Let him sleep out as long as he can.
We will say 'Agaracha must come back'

It is hard but you gotta try if change must happen.

he knows you will beg thereby transferring the guilt to you.

You already sound guilty when he's the one balling and causing you pain.

You want another Sandra case abi?

You are too soft...fashi him for a week nd see if he won't come back..
Hope u can take care of urself financially sha

So any day he wants to sleep outside, he causes disagreement

Allsingles:
I'm so confused right now, any time i have misunderstand with my husband, he will sleep outside ,and this make me feel bad and depressed. I know he is cheating on me. The worst part of it that even if he is the one that offended me, he will never apologize, rather he wouldn't come home until i call him or beg him to come back home. I'm tired of begging him. Please my Nairalanders, advise me because tired of this marriage and also confused on how to make him understand that he is hurting me. I don't have friends to share my pain with. Please advise me.

He's tired of you that's just it....here's what I'll advise you to do.

1. Dress well...yes you heard me right. Many married women are so dirty and disgusting. They feel, they're married so what's the point taking care of their bodies...this is one of the things that drives their husbands outside in desperate search of fresher girls. Some women wear adieu papa round neck shirt with wrapper from morning till night looking so unkept like a grandmother. Change your wardrobe, buy roll on, you can get cheap ones for as little as #500, brush you teeth and always appear neat. If you've become overweight loos some weight.

He married you because you were the best amongst the numerous girl friends he had so it's time to reclaim back your first position.

2. Avoid nagging...so many women do this a lot. and many men have become so tired that they just leave the house for them and seek comfort elsewhere. Don't argue with him. If he promises to solve a problem involving money for you, don't nag him with reminders he knows, just allow him be. Limit the way you guys quarrel and he'll begin to find the house comfortable once more.

3. Make him Happy...when a man is happy he'll stay. Whenever he comes back dress sexy and prepare him food, reignite his desire for you. Gist with him while he's eating. Gossip about relevant and irrelevant issues. Make him enjoy your company.

4. Buy him gifts...they say gifts melt the heart of even a hardened man. He's. Your husband, go out and do some shopping. With less than 10k you can get him good shirts, perfume and a wrist watch. Give it to him and tell him how much you love him and watch him feel so guilty for treating you badly.

Good luck.

That is not a good sign.
Have you slept outside after a misunderstanding and see his reaction.

They say you should marry for love, but you say na renos nuggets you go do, e never finish

Stephenmoka4:
That is not a good sign.

Have you slept outside after a misunderstanding and see his reaction.

You don't get it, the man doesn't want her, so if she decides to sleep outside, fvck that, the hubby don't give a fvck

Nazgul:

He's tired of you that's just it....here's what I'll advise you to do.

1. Dress well...yes you heard me right. Many married women are so dirty and disgusting. They feel, they're married so what's the point taking care of their bodies...this is one of the things that drives their husbands outside in desperate search of fresher girls. Some women wear adieu papa round neck shirt with wrapper from morning till night looking so unkept like a grandmother. Change your wardrobe, buy roll on, you can get cheap ones for as little as #500, brush you teeth and always appear neat. If you've become overweight loos some weight.

He married you because you were the best amongst the numerous girl friends he had so it's time to reclaim back your first position.

2. Avoid nagging...so many women do this a lot. and many men have become so tired that they just leave the house for them and seek comfort elsewhere. Don't argue with him. If he promises to solve a problem involving money for you, don't nag him with reminders he knows, just allow him be. Limit the way you guys quarrel and he'll begin to find the house comfortable once more.

3. Make him Happy...when a man is happy he'll stay. Whenever he comes back dress sexy and prepare him food, reignite his desire for you. Gist with him while he's eating. Gossip about relevant and irrelevant issues. Make him enjoy your company.

4. Buy him gifts...they say gifts melt the heart of even a hardened man. He's. Your husband, go out and do some shopping. With less than 10k you can get him good shirts, perfume and a wrist watch. Give it to him and tell him how much you love him and watch him feel so guilty for treating you badly.

Good luck.

Wise but you almost broke my ribs with the adieu papa part

Nazgul:

He's tired of you that's just it....here's what I'll advise you to do.

1. Dress well...yes you heard me right. Many married women are so dirty and disgusting. They feel, they're married so what's the point taking care of their bodies...this is one of the things that drives their husbands outside in desperate search of fresher girls. Some women wear adieu papa round neck shirt with wrapper from morning till night looking so unkept like a grandmother. Change your wardrobe, buy roll on, you can get cheap ones for as little as #500, brush you teeth and always appear neat. If you've become overweight loos some weight.

He married you because you were the best amongst the numerous girl friends he had so it's time to reclaim back your first position.

2. Avoid nagging...so many women do this a lot. and many men have become so tired that they just leave the house for them and seek comfort elsewhere. Don't argue with him. If he promises to solve a problem involving money for you, don't nag him with reminders he knows, just allow him be. Limit the way you guys quarrel and he'll begin to find the house comfortable once more.

3. Make him Happy...when a man is happy he'll stay. Whenever he comes back dress sexy and prepare him food, reignite his desire for you. Gist with him while he's eating. Gossip about relevant and irrelevant issues. Make him enjoy your company.

4. Buy him gifts...they say gifts melt the heart of even a hardened man. He's. Your husband, go out and do some shopping. With less than 10k you can get him good shirts, perfume and a wrist watch. Give it to him and tell him how much you love him and watch him feel so guilty for treating you badly.

Good luck.

Even if you do yansh surgery, remove 10 ribs because tiny waist attracts your husband, dress like a stripper, welcome him from work everyday with hot steaming food and lap dance, treat him like a god, buy all the gifts in this world for him.MAN WEY GO CHEAT GO CHEAT.

MhisTahrah:
Even if you do yansh surgery, remove 10 ribs because tiny waist attracts your husband, dress like a stripper, welcome him from work everyday with hot steaming food and lap dance, treat him like a god, buy all the gifts in this world for him.MAN WEY GO CHEAT GO CHEAT.

In such cases, the lady should blame herself for deliberately getting married to a play boy who has refused to grow up rather than a man.

Nazgul:

In such cases, the lady should blame herself for deliberately getting married to a play boy who has refused to grow up rather than a man.

So now the lady is to be blamed, when will some men ever take responsibility for their actions?

Waiting for the exhale

You're married to baby in adult body keep begging him,outside will still make run him back to you

MhisTahrah:
So now the lady is to be blamed, when will some men ever take responsibility for their actions?

If you know that I'm an armed robber, but you marry me anyway for reasons best know to you. And one day you find yourself in jail because of me. Would you blame me for putting you in jail or yourself for knowing that I'm an armed robber but turned a blind eye and continued dating and even married me?

Many girls know that their guys are play boys...I read a thread here on Nairaland where a guy said his fiancee advised him to be using condoms on other girls so he won't infect her cos she knows he's a player.

So would you blame such guy for impregnating her sister when they eventually get married? I wouldn't do that cos the girl knew exactly who he was and still went ahead to marry him.

When a girl makes a choice despite knowing that she's most likely going to end up in pains, trouble or worse she should take full responsibility for her actions.

:He has a side chick, so when you chase him the side chick welcomes himI second this beautiful motion

Nazgul:

If you know that I'm an armed robber, but you marry me anyway for reasons best know to you. And one day you find yourself in jail because of me. Would you blame me for putting you in jail or yourself for knowing that I'm an armed robber but turned a blind eye and continued dating and even married me?

Many girls know that their guys are play boys...I read a thread here on Nairaland where a guy said his fiancee advised him to be using condoms on other girls so he won't infect her cos she knows he's a player.

So would you blame such guy for impregnating her sister when they eventually get married? I wouldn't do that cos the girl knew exactly who he was and still went ahead to marry him.

When a girl makes a choice despite knowing that she's most likely going to end up in pains, trouble or worse she should take full responsibility for her actions.

Okay, you're right.

Sugargul:
Dear poster,

This advice won’t be easy but I hope that you hearken to it. Your husband already knows your weak spot. Whether he is cheating or not, he has noticed that staying out of his matrimonial home during misunderstanding coerces you into begging him. He won’t stop using this method until you show it doesn’t bother you anymore. Next time he does that, leave him. Let him buy food outside and spend well wherever he is. Don’t call him, don’t bulge no matter what. Go about your daily activities. In fact, visit friends and family or have a nice hangout. When he sees you have not even tried reaching out for like 1 week, he’ll adjust. When he comes back home, don’t ask him where he had been. Just do your normal thing, have a social life. Trust me he’ll start shaking and would want to initiate a discussion. Never sound bitter, cry or beg because that’s what he wants.

In all these, I just pray you make enough money not to even bother talking to him at all. Love and light.

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maybe he prefer spending night at his guys place so you would allow him sleep..
all d above comments are saying its side chick forgetting d fact dt not all married men do such n some prefare to jus walk away from a troublesome wife..

Nazgul:

In such cases, the lady should blame herself for deliberately getting married to a play boy who has refused to grow up rather than a man.

So at what point does a man get blamed for cheating?

earlier I read the woman should be blamed for being dirty and unsexy and causing the man to cheat

and now you are saying if she is clean and sexy and the man still cheats she should still be blamed.

So when can a man be blamed for adultery please?

Allsingles:
I'm so confused right now, any time i have misunderstand with my husband, he will sleep outside ,and this make me feel bad and depressed. I know he is cheating on me. The worst part of it that even if he is the one that offended me, he will never apologize, rather he wouldn't come home until i call him or beg him to come back home. I'm tired of begging him. Please my Nairalanders, advise me because tired of this marriage and also confused on how to make him understand that he is hurting me. I don't have friends to share my pain with. Please advise me.
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No ones sees where she asked us to read more relationship article. Do you guys thinks she actually needs help?I think she is just a blogger trying to sell her blog with fake stories.