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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by hashtagged(m): 1:45pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
I told you guys marriage was scam but una nor listen. Every woman that walks the face of this Earth is a either a LovePeddler/cheat or nagging bitch or a devil or will soon become such so it's better to stay single or adopt/get a baby mama if you need kids never marry i repeat never if you want to enjoy life 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nmezor(f): 1:45pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
JONSYN7154:Hmmm, re u married 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by brandnprinting: 1:45pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nope 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Neimar: 1:46pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Yes 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by naijadrivablog: 1:47pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Most men regret married to their wives at some point, and yet happy they chose the right one. It is a pity that these days, marriage has been bastardised by a lot of things. 8 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Kurtis02(m): 1:49pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Why should I tell a single man my Genesis 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by gbami(m): 1:49pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25:True...They are in misery...And misery likes company. That's why they don't like single guys 7 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Plut01: 1:49pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
BigDawsNet:. See you oo Why you no settle for a Nigerian lady make we count scores after 3 years nah . 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by helinues: 1:50pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
That's why one needs to take his time before deciding on whom to marry cos it's a life time thing 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by hashtagged(m): 1:50pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha: There is no right woman, I would advise all men to remain single and adopt a child. 13 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Kobicove(m): 1:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Gwagone: G for Gwagone 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Kuns84(m): 1:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25: I agree with your point except for the baby mama talk. Having a baby mama will bleed your pockets and cost you a lifetime of misery - that's if you're even guaranteed that the kid is yours in the first place. 30 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by GeoAfrikana(m): 1:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25: The first word of this post is a fallacy. 15 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by BusinessCity: 1:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
dominique: No. NaHideMyiP 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by KossyKiss97(f): 1:52pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Broken2020: 1:52pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Yes 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Kuns84(m): 1:52pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
BigDawsNet: Did you know white people generally take a bath or shower only once or twice a week? Forget how pale their skin looks, they are dirty asf. 18 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by squarelead(m): 1:54pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
You could actually regret, but don't be surprised , you could actually regret to regret later if your regret brought about divorce and calamities . No marriage is perfect , you nurture it to be. But it can't be perfect and that's the bitter truth. 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Burgerlomo: 1:54pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Mine is the opposite 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Image123(m): 1:55pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
bouncin04: Lol, it can happen. Marriage is honorable and should be worked on and preserved. Regret can be temporary if you make it so. There are people who regretted joining an organization or a school or a course but it later turned out well because they didn't quit or there was no option. Some people even regretted being pregnant or getting pregnant but it's not so when that child succeeds and is making waves 30years later. Don't remain a boy. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by pharmagba: 1:56pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
If I have to advise single I will say Marriage is a decision and a commitment first to yourself and then to your partner. You made a decision and commitment to stay, care , cherish and love for him/her irrespective of what he/she does. The moment you cannot follow through this decision for whatever reason please its over. Except for assault, emotional and physical torture, emotional and physical oppression For other reasons I have come to find out that both of you can still find a common ground except the above. There are many times I fell regret so also many times I count myself lucky. The grass always look green on the other side. At least this one I know her, we go quarrel , settle and the circle goes on Nothing like a sweet, free and willing partner in crime 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by cooltola(m): 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Marriage is sweet when u marry the right person. Marry a trusted friend Not all marriage will end in divorce. Loving a spouse is more than a feeling. Loving a spouse is an action. When the foundation is not strong, the marriage is not meant to last. Signs of a shaking foundation 1.lack of trust. 2. A cheating spouse 3. Addictions of any kind 4. Money problems 5. Disrespect 6. Lies and secrets 7. An abusive spouse 8. Lack of intimacy 9. Anger problem 10. In laws wahala. 11. Not praying to God 12. Unforgiveness 13. A stingy spouse 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Glink2018(m): 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
bouncin04: Since you have been hallucinating divorce....you will see divorce...because married is the union between two crazy people living together....you have to regulate your craze if your partner is craze and your partner have to regulate her craze if your craze don enter market... And Naija ladies are greedy and self-centered, everything you invested in the marriage is for the woman because it will be directly proportional to the future returns of the woman alone because if the dividend is coming you could have been dead by then.... My bro, live your life the way it comes.. And enjoy your life to the fullest...go to a beer joint and buy Nkwobi, and chilled beer, eat it and come home... After all Nah your money 3 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Mystallon: 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
I will advice you as a Christian to seek God's face before going into marriage...cause God is the only one that can choose for you,infact the person might not meet your criteria but He only knows best. And to be sincere with you challenges will come that might make you to doubt but you can run back to God to fix it for you if only He does the choosing initially. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Kuns84(m): 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Preetti: I keep seeing childish kids like you making comments about 'alpha' males. This is popular shaming tactic used to quench the effects of the redpill philosophy which is spreading like wildfire... Comments like yours makes it obvious that women are starting to panic #justsaying 24 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25:Are you married? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Missssii: 1:57pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
1. Marry a good hearted person. 2. Be a good husband. Don’t do to her what you wouldn’t want her to do to you. 3. Have some savings that can sufficiently take care of a family. Financial issues can ruin the best of people. 4. Do not have children for at least, the first year of marriage. Use that time to understand your partner and form a bond. 5. Do not have relatives or friends live with you for the first year of marriage. Visits shouldn’t be more than 3 days. Nosy family and friends are the number one cause of issues in young marriages. 6. Let God lead in all you do. As the head of the home, it is important you have a direct bond with God because even the Bible says the husband is the head of the home and the blessings flow from the husband to the wife. That’s why he opens his head in prayers while she covers her own. If the head is weak, the body is open to all sorts of attacks. 7. Do not start things you cannot finish. If you’re the type that doesn’t believe in cooking or cleaning, let her know during courtship so you both can plan your responsibilities. You cannot be Tony Umez in courtship then turn into Pete Edochie during marriage. It is a sure way to kill whatever love may exist between the two of you. 8. Avoid unnecessary interference from family, friends and most especially, religious people. Do what works for you both no matter how unconventional it may seem to others. 9. Be patient and honest but do not enable misbehavior in any form. In a calm and firm manner, let your partner know what they did to offend you and sort out all issues to avoid any form of lingering resentment. 10. Enjoy yourselves. Go on dates, knack in the sitting room, kitchen etc. You both are now one before God and should explore your bodies and minds to the fullest. That’s all I know. 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SlurUsername1: 1:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
nwaezeemmanuel: Why e pain you like this madam? Na u get e phone? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by nabiz(m): 1:58pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25:you are a big liar. In my next world I will still love to marry my present wife. This is my 7 years in marriage. 35 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25: I think its better if you are spokesman for single dads rather talking on behalf of married men, since the beginning of our courtship up til this present moment am enjoying it, of course we can't rule out stormy season of few occasions but with God on our side and with compromise we always overcome differences. You guys quickly blame marriage institutions as if its human being. The day couple will start seeing each other as one flesh is the day they will start enjoying their marriages. The reason why people always blame partner alone for marriages failure is still fathom to me, if you are a type who always meet bad bf/gf , check urself and clichés of friends you are moving with properly. So many foolish guys condemning marriages, but endorsing baby mama, they forget that single parenting has very big negative effect on kids, if you put value about having kids, I think you should put more values about their proper upbringings. Also when you grow old, at 60 upward, when it would difficult for you to remarry, how will you be taking care of urself in advanced age? A man of 75 washing, cooking, doing all sorts of house chores with gray hairs, I think its a curse . Think properly b4 you venture in single fatherhood. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by petitejolie(f): 2:00pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emkz:abi Dutch minister is gay |
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