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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by icebird25(m): 2:37pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2: God will bless you my brother 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Oluwaseun2020(m): 2:37pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
humilitypays: I like your assessment but you didn't lay a foundation for you analysis. . if an unvirtous guy marry a virtuous girl..it wont work...he will still go to club and fing pretty laddies. and drink alcohol and come home under influence and beat her..or he could even have a child outside due to infidelity. ..or even beat her when drunk... Both must know jesus..and make God the focus of the marriage. .. the bible support that if one is not a believer the other is free to leave before he or she killed the opposite. . 1 Corinthians 7:15 “But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.” King James Version (KJV So i Learn alot from this book... by faith oyedepo. .making your marriage work. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by letitrainnow(m): 2:37pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Marriage is sweet 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by SenorFax(m): 2:38pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Yamiriflathead:Baba use God swear say you no go marry for this life And leave story |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Alexaonfleek: 2:38pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
FuckThaMod:Who created the topic again? |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by icebird25(m): 2:38pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by humilitypays(m): 2:39pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
banio:especially men. Ladies are only trying to be sexually adventurous to tame men and as a payback not that its in their true nature. The desire to taste new lady is the major challenge married men encounter, which leads to cheating, not that they hate their main partner most times |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by omotola90(m): 2:40pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
dederocs:one thing must attract someone now |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by bcomputer101: 2:41pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25: Your brain is doing overheating |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by onlinestaff2020: 2:41pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Hello Nairalanders, This post is actually coming at the right time. Marriage has really been a pain in the ass for me. My madam has been giving me headache for more than 13 years and even up till now. Can you believe that because of my work and cost of transport which I spend close to N1500, I have decided to stay at my working place for sometime and go back home during the weekends. Last week when I was around, my wife has been brooding and she told me nothing is the matter with her after I tried to prompt her. Fast forward to today, after some days, she called me and started calling me names that I have not changed that I have a wife and daughter outside. This is totally unfounded. Me that have not slept and have been sleeping in the ICT room on bare floor, just because of transport matter, is being accused wrongly. I felt seriously bad. Marriage is indeed a scam. It's better to remain single, have a child/children from a baby mamma and move on freely without a baggage called a wife. A woman is a man's worst nightmare. They can kill joy. 16 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by UniqRight: 2:44pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by ibechris(m): 2:44pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Those saying that marriage is a scam are not in any way helping to solve ur puzzle. These guys know nothing about marriage,many of them are from tattered homes,hence their reason but they can never say this openly and confidently. I was in this same level of thoughts with u some years back,but I can say here categorically,that marriage is fulfilling and worth the stress. Do not allow some guys who have not gone that way to come here and be shouting up and down that marriage is a scam,when many of them can not date one woman and be responsible at the same time. My advice: Marry ur friend, and ensure u need to know everything about the lady before u consummate the marriage. Lay out ur goals with the lady and know if both of u are on this same page. Marry a lady that is working or has handi-work. Get to know her well and her family,it will do u alot of good while being married to her. Avoid fashion crazy ladies else u will live to finance frivolities and u may end up regretting. Finally,u owe her that vow u made to God and everything shall move as planned. Do not be afraid,this is my five years in marriage and I have not regretted one day about my wife and neither has she. Marriage is far better than that nonsense thing they termed as baby mama,take it or leave it. S 12 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by omotola90(m): 2:45pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Bosdem:it's well... |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by lekki1444: 2:46pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
EgunMogaji2:maybe the booty is shaped like a basketball and he wants it all to himself. the nigga dont like to share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Marriage is scary, I won't lie. The thought of having one person around you is tiring. But from what I understand, marriage should be two imperfect people coming under God to create a perfect union 6 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by boyjo: 2:46pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Kuns84:Preetti is actually right. I noticed that too on NL. When it comes to women, these boys suddenly put on their alpha-ego to talk down and disrespect ALL women. But mention "Providing" "Protecting" "Professing", you go find this alpha-ego tire, you no go see! Does alphamaleism mean to disrespect women? I don talk say I go ask the President of the Alpha Male Association of Nairaland but I never get chance. See alpha male association members all over Nairaland looking for Sugar Mummy upandan. Make una give una life to CHRIST JESUS, na the only thing wey go fit give una meaning for life. 5 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25: If you are married and regret being married for all the reasons you have stated above, at least be sincere enough to let the Op know...marriage is a scam to scammers . If you want to have a good marriage it starts by being a good partner, goodness doesnt fly in the air. Pls dont go about generalizing your marital problems as you are misleading people 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by solonubinho(m): 2:47pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Uyi168: Yet over 50% of marriages end up in divorce. Over 90% of which are initiated by women. Or how about we talk about the rate of paternity fraud. Yeah, you heard right. Vagina people will keep quiet because it's their speciality. Generally, it's not a wise investment. However, that does not take away the fact that there are actually women who are blessings in disguise. You get married to them, your life will be sweeter. In those cases, the investment t is worth it. Oh and finally, never marry hungry or unambiguous girls. Never say you want to train one girl with the hopes of marrying her. Try to marry in your social class or above you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by jaxxy(m): 2:47pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
bouncin04: A good gf makes a good wife, a bad or difficult one makes a bad wife and by extension marriage. The key is by being real with urself and ur partner and address all issues during ur dating period. Anything important thing u let slide will come back like a bad rash on ur bum. Deal with them/address them head on to a good degree if not completely resolving them. Have common mindset on life, goals and even on agreeing to disagree amicably. Set the right guiding principles for ur relationship and marriage. Address anything ure not comfortable with in a civil manner don’t assume. Compromise should be on both sides not one side alone. Search her fone and vice versa b4 getting hitched and married if u want lasting peace not temporary peace. This is mandatory. Some People keep ridiculous skeletons. Lol Finally know what u want!!!!!!! if it’s not what u want Or within reasonable degree of what u want discard it. Love doesn’t mean stupidity. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Elxandre(m): 2:48pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Jodha:What is yhu? Grow up. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Judybash93(m): 2:50pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
icebird25:It's not the truth. That's the only issue with all I've that you've written. YOUR OPINION should not be confused with the truth |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Roycemadeit(m): 2:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
I have thought about this subject, marriage, a lot, and I must say I do not understand why we marry. Of course, our society expects us to be getting married around a certain age, but, for many reasons, I don't suppose it is wise that we created this institution. In all honesty, I would say marriage is a social construction created to govern each other's behavior, a contract that guarantees that the feelings you have for each other will never be shared with another. Come to think of it, how do you expect a human, who by nature an embodiment of freedom, to simply sail his life by the dictates of vows. I think the invention of vows highlights the lie in marriage, for if I don't guarantee that what we share now would always be before you, others, and God, it would be, at some point, become something different. Man's desire is unlimited, for a human is an embodiment of love, this is the true nature of man, and love is unlimited. He may make a vow but it would do nothing to change him except if chooses to enjoy this form of love with you alone. Now, you could decide to choose to express your desires with your partner alone, but would they? Can you live with no expectation on your partner's part? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by humilitypays(m): 2:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Oluwaseun2020:a man don't need to be born again to behave well. For instance, I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't club cos the music will give me headache cos I grew up a nerd. All my friends, some super rich already at young age don't drink, some drink socially, most if not all don't club, but if its to womanize, they do with confirm chicks though lol.. And we are all sinners not born again Christians. My father don't drink, don't smoke, don't womanize, treated my mother like a queen while growing up and still treat her like one even now they are old and living alone...but my dad is not a born again Christian, he is just a moralist, my mother is the born again, she doesn't play with Godly things and uprightness. I have one of my friends who happens to be the only bad friend I have who drinks wild, smokes, did drugs back in school days, but today is happily married to more than a virtuous lady for 6 years now. He is rich, handsome and now a wonderful man. But his wife made him the rich guy he is today, yes I can say that. But still the lady is so down to earth and we his friends dare not see him maltreat that wonderful lady he married, he cant even try it anyway. Women hold the key to a great marriage. Women make the marriage. Marrying a virtuous lady who makes great impact in the life of the man is key to a successful marriage. What ladies should look after when picking a partner is to look for a kind hearted man, a man that have conscience and empathy..even if he is an armed robber, the lady is in better hands. So a man doesn't need to be a born again to be a wonderful husband 8 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Samzzy94(m): 2:51pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
hashtagged: Definitely not mine, cos I didn't confirm such.... But you, you confirmed that yours are all bitches and whores. I feel so sorry for you, cos you grew up surrounded with whores and bitches as sisters and mother. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by GeneralPula: 2:52pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
You see for this generation so, marriage nah scam.. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by shadeyinka(m): 2:52pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
bouncin04: 1. If you are the wrong partner then your marriage is in trouble 2. If you choose a wrong mate, then your marriage will certainly be in trouble 3. If your foundation and philosophy is wrong before marriage, your marriage will be in trouble Get these three above right at all cost 2 Likes |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
onlinestaff2020: Permit me to say you are your own worst nightmare, did you sit her down and communicate that you would be away from home or you just took the decision as a man?? If the tables were turned and it was your wife out there , what would your reaction be? 1 Like |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by FuckThaMod: 2:54pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:And this one just proved my point.. Just take a look at them gloating all over the topic. The day i see a single lady against marriage i go buy cow for everyone in my street. |
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Being Married To Your Partner? by Ibrahim3307(m): 2:55pm On Dec 06, 2020 |
emkz:this reminds me of the movie "why did I get married" |
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