Kccheechy:
So many people are here voicing rubbish!! Who are we to blame for the bad marriages being talked about?? Parents train your children in the way of the lord so when they are old they won't depart from it!!! How many women still groom their girls to be respectful and a prospective wife material?? How many women still teach their girl child to dress and cover up properly as a woman? How many men teach their sons how good to treat and respect women and see them as humans instead of sex objects?? How many men teach their sons to stand up and protect women and treat them like princesses starting with their sisters? How many women still teach their female children in this age to preserve their body till they get married?? HOW MANY RESPONSIBLE AND REASONABLE PARENTS ARE OUT THERE SEF?? We live in a world where mothers are encouraging their girl child in the slay queen trend and go after material things instead of instilling core values and virtues into them. We live in a world where fathers Take pride in their sons having girlfriends and start smashing pussy at a very young age, instead of teaching them the realities of life, teach them to be hardworking and to see women as people to be loved, respected and defended!! A child that grows up in a family where he can see display of love is visible between his parents, how his father cherishes and take care of his wife and how his mother respect and adores her husband as the head of the house, will definitely desire to get married and be like them one day. But what do we have today?? You see parents taking their children to the club, even giving their children shisha to smoke just for social media frenzy... Mothers today are sexualizing their girl child, dressing them up as prostitutes in the name of western fashion!!! Bleaching their skin, fixing Brazilian or Peruvian hair on them, applying makeup on girls who are not even up to 10yrs old, introducing them to social media at an age where they should be learning about the values of life. How can such girl grow up to become reasonable and responsible with that kind of mother?? If parent trained their children well, all this problems would be very minimal..

Well said but for the part, "...to see women as people to be loved, respected and defended!!..."

"Defended"? Why? That sounds more feminist.

Martinez39s:
In that post to bouncing04, I recommended Ubunja's miseducations, my meme threads and your thread. I told him to digest the meme threads and your thread first, and I supplied links. Before I could say Jack Robinson, the post was deleted by a moderator.

Shortly before that post, I told the OP to save himself the trouble and forget marriage and that post wasn't deleted. A moderator was trying to hide OP from the red pill, or a female reported to the moderator who simply simped out. Seun Osewa needs to sack some of his moderators. I violated no rule yet that post was deleted.

^{CAPSLOCKED, MJBOLT, Ubunja, Luminouz, JONNYSPUTE}

Reported posts automatically get deleted most of the time. The mods have nothing to do with it.

Gamesmart:


So high quality physical appearance is not part of what the man should find in the "right" woman.

Men are supposed to have erections based on your personality?

And when fine girl walks pass, then he should not even give her a second looking because his wife has a nice personality.



You women and your self-delusions/wishful thinking.

That is one of the major causes of marriage failures.

Working based on delusions, not reality, is a perfect recipe for failure. And most women have a PhD in this.

GLYCOLYSISS:


They were just being mischievous !
Trying to prevent TRP from reaching other men ? Dead on arrival !
Do you really think Mr seun is going to do anything about that ? I appreciate his is open minded, but I'm hugely skeptical on these (him calling his mods to order ,let alone sacking them ).
Things like these, I just wave them off and move on, man, especially when I get that feeling my complains will barely yield anything tangible.

Again, the mods rarely have anything to do with reported posts, they are automatically deleted when reported by another reader.

Jodha:


Unmarried people have no say about marriages ...got it...

Mind yhu... even if I've not gone yhu the spiritual and counseling and whatever yhure talking about...

I have experience...experiences I've witnessed from first hand from married couples... it's only a fool that wouldn't learn from the mistakes of others....

I don't have to be married...to know what marriage is all about..

It's just like saying a virgin you, already knows how it feels to have sex since you've watched other people have sex....

CAPSLOCKED:


I DON'T HAVE TO FINGER MAD44 BECAUSE I'VE FIGURED IT'S NOT THE ONLY MODERATOR ACTING ON THE INFLUENCE OF CHEAP THRILLS.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BREAK ANY RULES TO BE SILENCED. YOU JUST HAVE TO SPEAK THE "TRUTH".
LOOK AT THE FRONTPAGE. RULE BREAKERS AND SPAMMERS LEFT AND RIGHT. BUT IT IS YOUR OWN HONEST AND IMPORTANT OPINION THAT AN ADMIN DOESN'T WANT TO SEE SIMPLY BECAUSE IT MAKES HIM/HER UNCOMFORTABLE.
THE PLAN IS TO KEEP SCREENSHOTS OF EVERY POST. OR SAVE PAGES ON SIMPLE BROWSERS SO WE ALWAYS REPLACE ANYTHING THEY DELETE, INSTANTLY.

Leave the mods out of this, once your fellow readers report your post, it automatically gets deleted.

Gamesmart:


AAAAAHHHH!

Una dey see how women bring unnecessary arguments into ones life?

So it has moved from "anything" to "barely a sentence"?

God dey!

Many are like that.

Gamesmart:


Just give am middle finger, that is the simple favour I asked of you.

He has not done well in your life, he deserves it!

I've been enjoying your comments but these ones?? Please don't go there, respect other people's religious views, just be quiet and let it pass... cheers bro.

Fussion1000:



The way you reason sickened, in fact I salute your wife, she is the one making your marriage workable.


Because I haven't be in UK, does that mean I won't say happenings in UK?

So many great footballers struggle to make impact as coaches, ask of Viera, Nevile, Henry even Maradona etc. While people who never played football or not great during their time as players are making waves...

Going by ur illustration, since Mourhino never played football he won't knw how to coach players and win trophies.


So many singles are giving far better opinions on this post than you do.

You keep emphasising on spiritual, no practical clue on how to succeed on marriages, when marital issue is pure practical.

Agreed @ bold comment.

Time to leave this thread. I read every page and really enjoyed myself here. Thanks y'all for the diversified comments.

Yoighaman:


Well said but for the part, "...to see women as people to be loved, respected and defended!!..."

"Defended"? Why? That sounds more feminist.

women are weaker vessles.

Kccheechy:
women are weaker vessles.

Weaker vessels that are clamouring for equality??

Women of today don't have the mentality of being a weaker vessel, that's why you see them feminist everywhere.

Yoighaman:


It's just like saying a virgin you, already knows how it feels to have sex since you've watched other people have sex....

A virgin can actually know what sex entails by regularly watching porn....

Experience is not always the best teacher.... sometimes yhu learn from others..

Yoighaman:


You are indeed a strong and disciplined man.

My brother thank you. A man has to be strong and we'll disciplined to stay with a woman if not a woman can cut the life of a man short. One don't have to be chicken hearted. And also bear in mind that the gain of marriage for a man is children, as a father you must also bond with your children very well, if you do this then you have defeated the woman

Jodha:


A virgin can actually know what sex entails by regularly watching porn....

Experience is not always the best teacher.... sometimes yhu learn from others..

YES, you can know ALL what it entails by watching porn but can never know how it feels until you experience it.

Yoighaman:


She's not boring, she doesn't find you interesting.

It's a red flag, let her go.

Noted

BigDawsNet:



What kind of game?

Ps5?


I would hav help connect her sis to you... But she won't like the idea of long-distance

Ps5 will b damn good �

I'll give her reasons to believe in long distance as I'm planning on moving out

Yaks02:




Ps5 will b damn good �

I'll give her reasons to believe in long distance as I'm planning on moving out

Thats great..


Then just moveout...

When you land you will hav lots of options

But right now LD is not part of thier plan

Gamesmart:


A typical black person!

https://www.nairaland.com/6267414/married-men-asking-single-guys/7#96628322

Hmm! Bro weting a fit do about my skin? Bleaching it will even make it worse. How are you doing bro? I hope you are enjoying the gift of life sir?

Oluwaseun2020:


I like your assessment but you didn't lay a foundation for you analysis. .
if an unvirtous guy marry a virtuous girl..it wont work...he will still go to club and fing pretty laddies. and drink alcohol and come home under influence and beat her..or he could even have a child outside due to infidelity. ..or even beat her when drunk...
Both must know jesus..and make God the focus of the marriage. ..
the bible support that if one is not a believer the other is free to leave before he or she killed the opposite. .

1 Corinthians 7:15
“But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.”
King James Version (KJV

So i Learn alot from this book... by faith oyedepo. .making your marriage work.

Sir, that Bible passage does not support the fact that one should marry an unbelieving spouse. The position of the two of them were unbelivers before one is converted. If the one who is converted to Christianity disires to stay with unbelieving husband or wife, he/ she should stay in the relationship. Remember Sir, the same book of Corinthians said we should not be unequally yoked together with unbelivers?

yinkbell:


Hmm! Bro weting a fit do about my skin? Bleaching it will even make it worse. How are you doing bro? I hope you are enjoying the gift of life sir?

Don't change your skin. Change the way your brain works.

Actually start using our brain. It is there to be used, it is not just a designer body part.

MrHighSea:

Mine was like that.
But, She wan kill me with gist nowadays.

SHE'S READING THIS.

you need to Teach, endure with, compromise.

EVERYONE should have passion. workout, gym, history, artistry, craft, stories, public speaking, etc.

Mention any aircraft (military or civilian), I've a friend that can tell you details about it.

Make her to build hers. then she can always relate instances with that.

Depends if her other qualities will encourage all these.

Girls can be sweet.

Meet the right ones.

She is lucky to have you.

yinkbell:


Sir, that Bible passage does not support the fact that one should marry an unbelieving spouse. The position of the two of them were unbelivers before one is converted. If the one who is converted to Christianity disires to stay with unbelieving husband or wife, he/ she should stay in the relationship. Remember Sir, the same book of Corinthians said we should not be unequally yoked together with unbelivers?

Im not sure you understand what i wrote...
try to read again and comprehend.

BigDawsNet:



Thats great..


Then just moveout...

When you land you will hav lots of options

But right now LD is not part of thier plan

Damn ��

I'm in a married now I think it's the worst decision of my life.the woman it's just planning to runaway with my child even b4 she's old enough to call me daddy it's really traumatizing.

Yoighaman:


No insults Sir.

From what you just wrote, I can deduce that your wife is not the problem, you actually are.

Why did you get married when you are not financially capable/ready?

You caused whatever you are going through; please leave the innocent woman out of it.

You're a big FOOL!

Kuns84:



I agree with your point except for the baby mama talk. Having a baby mama will bleed your pockets and cost you a lifetime of misery - that's if you're even guaranteed that the kid is yours in the first place.

Nigeria isn't U.S - The laws that ensures child support and alimony isn't enforced in Nigeria.

How many men have you seen being arrested for not taking care of their child and babymama in Nigeria?

CsRockefeller:


You're a big FOOL!

Noted with thanks Sir.

Now you are beginning to reveal your real attitude, I hope you won't blame your wife for this as well.

Have a blessed day.

blinking001:
Most married men feel deep regrets after getting married. It's an Esoteric truth actually. Most women are full of shit.

And vice versa.

kushme:


For how long, please?

Enduring shitz instead of enjoying one another most of the time..

Why would a man subject himself to bullshiiit all in the name of living with a live hole that won't allow him to even fvck her any time he wants to fvck..

Cos, most men marry for sex while most females marry to secure their retirement plan, financially.

I respect married people sha.. As for me, that plantation is scary..

Is that not a healthy symbiotic relationship? Lol

ntyce:
Married for 8 years now...

We've had our issues but no regret.

However, I agree marriage is overrated....

Marriage is essential and has its benefits but not overrated

Bosdem:
Wish I never married, the joy I get comes from my kids, marriage ma scam, after 11 years found out my husband has a 17 years old child, and that's the least of the matter, marriage can be liken to a gift, its full of surprises, some are great, some are bad news.

That's a separate issue in my opinion