Having a babe mama isn't really a viable option to not getting married.. Reason is this, they're many reasons people get married ranging from companionship to having a baby to family/societal expectance..

Now those who choose babe mama option are possibly those that want to have the making baby option which marriage affords too but don't want to really get married.
The bitter truth now is that having babe mama won't save you from the headache those who married to make babes have. Reason is that they will always be conflicts as concerning the well being of the child which non of the parties will run away from. Infact they have been an instance of a black American guy who accosted his babe mama to a bar where he acted a drama due to the babe mama leaving their babe at home, such is just an example of numerous problems from that.

The truth now is that if you don't want women wahala don't actually have anything to do with them and stay single because that's the only way you can avoid any drama totally

Your contribution guys

Cc lalasticlala Mynd44 OAM4J

just fvck eniqurl. strap up and use protection before you fvck eniqurl.


no commitment, no wahala.

Nairaland feminists fighting back... We can see through your deceits and masks
The worst mistake y'all made was thinking you could control and manipulate the male gender with your feminist bullshit.
Men are going their own way not just in Nigeria but around the globe because we can't just deal anymore.
Marriage affords MEN nothing asides dissatisfaction, disappointments and avoidable ppressures.
Men who are getting married or are doing it out of sheer ignorance and wilfull endurance
In my view, marriage is a sucker’s bet: 53% end in divorce and of the 47% that don’t, how many are happy? How many are “mostly ok”? How many are medium sucky to awful? Loads. Lots of guys wind up getting married to their One Special Girl only to wind up paying their demonic ex-wife up to 40% of their gross to bang other guys and teach their kids to hate him. No, thanks

The husband/father should be at the center of the family, around whom the wife and children revolve and upon whom he shines like the sun, and brings warmth and sustenance. There is a reason it's called "Head of Household", and not "Neglected serf who toils thanklessly, gets once-a-month pity sex from his land whale wife and then is divorced-raped.
Having a baby mama on the other hand affords you...
Children
Freedom
Financial buoyancy
Long life span
Peace of mind
Privacy at will
Focus on making more money

A sane man have no business getting married to a Nigerian girl.

Davash222:
A sane man have no business getting married to a Nigerian girl.

Lol, so your dad is insane, wonderful

No reasonable and responsible man would opt for baby mama, call it woke or whatever I call it irresponsibility

Davash222:
A sane man have no business getting married to a Nigerian girl.

All commenting rubbish everywhere

Zzor:
No reasonable and responsible man would opt for baby mama, call it woke or whatever I call it irresponsibility

Nne, go take your medication abeg.

Davash222:
A sane man have no business getting married to a Nigerian girl.

jeeeeeezzzz.....this one hit me

Zzor:
No reasonable and responsible man would opt for baby mama, call it woke or whatever I call it irresponsibility

I pity anyone that will take advice from this eleribuu

Davash222:
A sane man have no business getting married to a Nigerian girl.

Lolz Nigerian girls done use u do Shege but not all are bad though, there are still reasonable ones

Insane children all over nairaland, they all want baby mama thinking it will save them from marriage problems. Stewpid-fvcks

Mind you, they will turn that your so called baby to baby mama too. Karma doesn't negotiate nor discriminate. So don't think you sit on your daughter's wedding day as the father of the bride. Just prepare for naming ceremony of grandchildren born out of wedlock

What you give is what you get.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Lolz Nigerian girls done use u do Shege but not all are bad though, there are still reasonable ones

The reasonable ones died during the civil war.

Davash222:

The reasonable ones died during the civil war.

Were you raised by a single parent or your parents are civil war victims too?

Kenplay:

I pity anyone that will take advice from this eleribuu

Please prove me wrong and convince me on how responsible it is to father a child outside wedlock, I only have pity on ladies who unfortunately fall for such treak because she will be at the receiving end all by herself while the man keeps spreading his seeds all about carelessly

SenorFax:
Insane children all over nairaland, they all want baby mama thinking it will save them from marriage problems. Stewpid-fvcks

Mind you, they will turn that your so called baby to baby mama too. Karma doesn't negotiate nor discriminate.

Good to still have your type who still reason as you do, God bless you abundantly

Davash222:

The reasonable ones died during the civil war.

Dude their are still reasonable ones out there, even though the unreasonable ones are much more than the reasonable ones

N

Zzor:
Please prove me wrong and convince me on how responsible it is to father a child outside wedlock, I only have pity on ladies who unfortunately fall for such treak because she will be at the receiving end all by herself while the man keeps spreading his seeds all about carelessly

Your yesterday comment about guys who goes to market as stingy gave me an utmost distain over you.
If only you know the damage you have done to your reputation

Kenplay:

Your yesterday comment about guys who goes to market as stingy gave me an utmost distain over you.
If only you know the damage you have done to your reputation

Reputation? for Nairaland? lol

Zzor:
Reputation? for Nairaland? lol

Reputation in life generally, your sense of reasoning is too myopic

Kenplay:

Your yesterday comment about guys who goes to market as stingy gave me an utmost distain over you.
If only you know the damage you have done to your reputation

Just ignore that girl, she ain't worth it.

getting married isnt buy force oo

I don't know much about that.
But I know a man in my estate who had a baby mama. He died last year and his grown son (25) just brought back his mother and she's the one enjoying everything the man had.
From the house to the cars, to vacation abroad.

Unless you won't will your properties to your kids, she must enjoy when you die..
You can't escape it bro...

This life no just balance...

PinkPill:
I don't know much about that.
But I know a man in my estate who had a baby mama. He died last year and his grown son (25) just brought back his mother and she's the one enjoying everything the man had.
From the house to the cars, to vacation abroad.

Unless you won't will your properties to your kids, she must enjoy when you die..
You can't escape it bro...

This life no just balance...

The man died a Natural death..
To God be the glory

Yamiriflathead:


The man died a Natural death..
To God be the glory

He slipped and fell in the bathroom.

PinkPill:


He slipped and fell in the bathroom.

Better than dying of frustration from a failed marriage.
It's still a Natural death

SenorFax:
Insane children all over nairaland, they all want baby mama thinking it will save them from marriage problems. Stewpid-fvcks

Mind you, they will turn that your so called baby to baby mama too. Karma doesn't negotiate nor discriminate. So don't think you sit on your daughter's wedding day as the father of the bride. Just prepare for naming ceremony of grandchildren born out of wedlock

What you give is what you get.

nothing special for the wedding,na Africa people over hype it!

Kenplay:

Reputation in life generally, your sense of reasoning is too myopic

you see must ladies saying all this on social media are mostly good babes in nature... some of them can support you with all there life....na disguise Dem de do online!

Only if women will stop agreeing to bcome a baby mama.Only if girls will sit, think and stop opening their legs carelessly.
Instead of me agreeing to become a baby mama for any man, i would rather nt av kids at all....
Pls nobody should quote me nitori Oloun.

Let anyone do whatever the hell they please. At the end they'll bear the consequence.