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Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 7:35am On Sep 05, 2017
cheesy cheesy

so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill. grin grin

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs* grin

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Evaberry(f): 7:40am On Sep 05, 2017
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It is only lazy girls who don't hustle that expect a man to provide all their needs and buy countless human hair that have a problem with this.


35k Alone cannot build a home so why don't you hustle, add your earnings and encourage your man to be business oriented. well you can't blame or hate on someone for their choices

but Even dangote did not start with millions.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by refiner(f): 7:42am On Sep 05, 2017
Evaberry:
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Dont u rest?...always in every thread! angry

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 7:43am On Sep 05, 2017
How much do the ladies themselves earn? undecided


Mind you, Zuckerberg earns $1 salary per year undecided

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by jamalnation(m): 7:43am On Sep 05, 2017
ladies over to you
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 7:43am On Sep 05, 2017
grin
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by falconey(m): 7:45am On Sep 05, 2017

Don't you hoes save? you'd make lot of cash while single hoeing around.

hypothetically,from age 15-24(9years) a typical naija babe starts hoeing, please ladies should learn to save afterall he didn't meet you a flower.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 7:45am On Sep 05, 2017
grin

Nope...I cant..

What is 35k naira na? shocked lets be practical here..what kind of life you will both have and for ur chiildren? shocked

But doesnt mean i will leave him ...I will encourage him to find a better job or venture into business if he has passion on it.. wink

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Temmyladey074(f): 7:45am On Sep 05, 2017
NO I CAN'T NO I CAN'T

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nwaoma198(f): 7:45am On Sep 05, 2017
Yes I can.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by NairalandCS(m): 7:47am On Sep 05, 2017
The question should be: Why should a man earning 35k think of getting married ?

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by 9jayes: 7:47am On Sep 05, 2017
Nwaoma198:
Yes I can.
Please don't, come with me I earn 400k every month

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by refiner(f): 7:49am On Sep 05, 2017
rosalieene:
cheesy cheesy

so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill. grin grin

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs* grin

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

cc Refiner sekxy bibijay123 queencalipso

Yea i will...there are lots of men that has d dreams and passion but hasnt got the opportunity yet...most great men today started were nobody but their passion and dreams paved d way for them.....

A real man will always stick to a woman that stood by him when he had nothing...ladies be wise!

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by 9jayes: 7:50am On Sep 05, 2017
Temmyladey074:
NO I CAN'T NO I CAN'T
My girl
Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by refiner(f): 7:53am On Sep 05, 2017
falconey:

Don't you hoes save? you'd make lot of cash while single hoeing around.

hypothetically,from age 15-24(9years) a typical naija babe starts hoeing, please ladies should learn to save afterall he didn't meet you a flower.
I guess ur sisters must be white!

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by falconey(m): 7:55am On Sep 05, 2017
refiner:
I guess ur sisters must be white!

I don't have any sister.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by WeNoGoDie: 7:58am On Sep 05, 2017
rosalieene:
cheesy cheesy

so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill. grin grin

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs* grin

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

cc Refiner sekxy bibijay123 queencalipso

My question to all those ladies saying No will be, supposing they marry a man earning half a million per month and he per chance goes bankrupt or meets a misfortune that wipes his finances like accident that cripples him, what next?.... . that moment he can't even offer 10k monthly.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Daeyou(m): 8:00am On Sep 05, 2017
rosalieene:
cheesy cheesy

so I saw this post on facebook,
"Ladies can you marry a man who earns 35,000 as salary? "

Lol, ladies gat no chill. grin grin

One said "Can't even buy me a wig let's say the truth here NO"

lady B said "When Human Hair 16inches cost 35k.. abegi!! Double your hustle .."

lady C said "Please you people should stop asking all question..
35k cant even completely pay bride price...
Even self contain house rent...
So why this question"

another said "But oh, 35k, how will he pay my bride price biko, I dont want to marry myself"

Another funny comment: "Would he give his sister to a man earning 35k monthly? Let's be realistic while answering, biko. Leave materialistic talk"

*sighs* grin

my beloved ladies, so am throwing this question to you.

cc Refiner sekxy bibijay123 queencalipso
Am a young guy so i stand to be corrected......
To me it doesn't matter if a man is earning 35K for ladies to marry, What matter most is the love!!

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ashewoboy(m): 8:00am On Sep 05, 2017
i don't know about the question buh i know op is not a virgincheesy. she recently narrated how she was defloweredcheesy.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 8:01am On Sep 05, 2017
WeNoGoDie:


My question to all those ladies saying No will be, supposing they marry a man earning half a million per month and he per chance goes bankrupt or meets a misfortune that wipes his finances like accident that cripples him, what next?.... . that moment he can't even offer 10k monthly.
There are two options

Enduring in the marriage

Or

Leaving the marriage cheesy

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nwaoma198(f): 8:02am On Sep 05, 2017
400k every month okay, Remove ur tithe,house rent,Utility bills, money for ur parents and siblings and tell how much is left before I will come with you grin grin grin grin grin angry
9jayes:

Please don't, come with me I earn 400k every month

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by vivie01(f): 8:03am On Sep 05, 2017
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 8:04am On Sep 05, 2017
falconey:

Don't you hoes save? you'd make lot of cash while single hoeing around.

hypothetically,from age 15-24(9years) a typical naija babe starts hoeing, please ladies should learn to save afterall he didn't meet you a flower.

What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is earning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage. Any woman irrespective of how much she is earning who agrees to marry such a man isn't a wise woman.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 8:04am On Sep 05, 2017
Daeyou:
Am a young guy so i stand to be corrected......
To me it doesn't matter if a man is earning 35K for ladies to marry, What matter most is the love!!

Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 8:04am On Sep 05, 2017
Daeyou:
Am a young guy so i stand to be corrected......
To me it doesn't matter if a man is earning 35K for ladies to marry, What matter most is the love!!

Love is not enough to keep a marriage, if so, why is there a high increase in divorce

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by ShyCypher(m): 8:05am On Sep 05, 2017
This is the Broke Girls Thread.

The ones who have absolutely nothin' 2 offer in a relationship except slacked, overused cunts.

Scroll up, have you seen them?
Yeah, there they are grin

Oloshos.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 8:05am On Sep 05, 2017
smiley smiley
How many guys buy this school of thought

DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is arning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Nobody: 8:09am On Sep 05, 2017
vivie01:
Yes, I can, provided the guy is decent, intelligent, passionate, has prospect and ambitious; I wouldnt mind giving him support till he realises his big dreams since Im not lazy myself, waiting for man to be providing everything for me.

Rubbish. If your man was intelligent, he wouldn't propose to you with such financial state.

We aren't talking about dating, we are talking about marriage. How long would you have to manage his 35,000 salary before he attains his ambitious goals? What kind of house can he afford with such money? Let's face it, you both would be living a penurious and poverty stricken lifestyle. Most of your needs wouldn't be met. How about children? Would you wait till he becomes financially successful before you have children?

Please be honest and realistic and stop trying to sound like you are a "nice" lady.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by falconey(m): 8:11am On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is arning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.



Our gateman and private driver earn less with families and they are living.

secondly, seems you are outdated , the standard has changed a bit, anyone could be a primary provider now.

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by Victornezzar: 8:11am On Sep 05, 2017
DouglasH92:


What does this comment have to do with the question? Must every thread serve as a medium for you to insult the opposite sex?

It's a culturally accepted standard here in Nigeria that the man is the breadwinner of the house and as such should be the primary financial provider. It doesn't matter how much the wife is arning. A man earning 35,000 shouldn't be thinking of marriage any woman, irrespective of how much she is earning, who agrees to marry such man isn't a wise woman.
Boy wats ur real account
Dis is obviously a gal behind d moniker
U ain't a hoe...so y quoting him

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by jrerico1(m): 8:11am On Sep 05, 2017
That means they won't subscribe dstv and won't bother buying fuel for gen.. The woman needs a good job to support or the man find a better business

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Re: Getting Married To A Man Who Earns 35,000 As Salary by rosalieene(f): 8:13am On Sep 05, 2017
ashewoboy:
i don't know about the question buh i know op is not a virgincheesy. she recently narrated how she was defloweredcheesy.
SMH smiley smiley

Is that a narrative or are you vexed about how I exposed ur tricks used in deceiving naive girls undecided

You better repent bcoz I have come to realize that pervs and guys who derive pleasure in sleeping with everything on skirt don't live long.

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