ThreadOwner:
When she no get, na me dey hold house.....but when money show face, she forgets d hand where help her.

Wait for her to finish the contract so she can know the actual amount of profit she made

ThreadOwner:
Lemme go straight to the point....this morning I created a thread praising Allah for answering my prayers (muslim section), this morning I was happy and filled with joy, unknown to me; my wife had other plans.

She got a contract of 10million to do some decoration in a wedding, she had been praying for this contract for weeks and I have paid Alfas money to pray for her, I did a lot - begged the groom to give my wife this contract and now that she has it (all glory to Allah), she is acting strange, she can't lend me 5k! just 5k o and she is putting T&C before she lends me the money. I left her alone, left home and currently with my best friend.

Some women are ungrateful.

If she has been stingy before now then don't be surprise at her

But if she becomes stingy since she got this contract then give her time to execute it and and see if she will do something in the family

If after everything she doesn't then find a way to sort yourself with her when it comes to financial matters

emmaodet:


You know, i don't like this statement that - what belongs to u belongs to ur wife also but what belongs to her belongs to her only! Learn not to ask ur wife for things even if she is richer than u.
In this case, of what use is a relationship/marriage whereby i can't count on my partner despite making sure she becomes somebody and earns.
Nothing is free in life. Life is all about rub my back, i rub your back and if i can't have the back of my mate or crew in bad time, there is no point having a mate in the first place.
Let us not keep encouraging stinginess and selfishness in women please.
Marriage/relationship is a team work and not individual or personal interest game.

It doesn't matter whether u like it or not but it is the reality! That's the way women are wired and there is nothing u or any one can do about it. Only a few women behave differently!

Rhozabeth:

It doesn't matter whether u like it or not but it is the reality! That's the way women are wired and there is nothing u or any one can do about it. Only a few women behave differently!

In that case, i will advice men to shun marriage because it seem it doesn't worth the sacrifice. Afterall, there is nothing we can do about it than to do what we can do in our capacity.

emmaodet:


In that case, i will advice men to shun marriage because it seem it doesn't worth the sacrifice. Afterall, there is nothing we can do about it than to do what we can do in our capacity.

Honestly. marriage doesn't benefit man in anyway at all. just kids.

frozen70:


If she has been stingy before now then don't be surprise at her

But if she becomes stingy since she got this contract then give her time to execute it and and see if she will do something in the family

If after everything she doesn't then find a way to sort yourself with her when it comes to financial matters

look at you. I figured you never rebuked the lady in the discussion, instead you're... Kai! I wish we didn't need females for reproduction. women are just too evil minded.

21cents:


Honestly. marriage doesn't benefit man in anyway at all. just kids.

Am beginning to see that too bro

21cents:
look at you. I figured you never rebuked the lady in the discussion, instead you're... Kai! I wish we didn't need females for reproduction. women are just too evil minded.

Rebuking her will not be the solution

I already what I feel it should be

ThreadOwner:
Lemme go straight to the point....this morning I created a thread praising Allah for answering my prayers (muslim section), this morning I was happy and filled with joy, unknown to me; my wife had other plans.

She got a contract of 10million to do some decoration in a wedding, she had been praying for this contract for weeks and I have paid Alfas money to pray for her, I did a lot - begged the groom to give my wife this contract and now that she has it (all glory to Allah), she is acting strange, she can't lend me 5k! just 5k o and she is putting T&C before she lends me the money. I left her alone, left home and currently with my best friend.

Some women are ungrateful.

are you male or lesbi?

Proffdada:
are you male or lesbi?

use kayan mata on her

use kayan mata on her and make her transfer all her money to you, then subsequent money she will be making make her to transfer it to you

ThreadOwner:

you signed in as female but you said you have a wife

Rhozabeth:
Oga, u nor know say what belongs to u belongs to ur wife also but what belongs to her belongs to her only!
Learn not to ask ur wife for things even if she is richer than u! However u can get help from her only if she offers! This does not make her a bad person or stingy! Get that straight!

So this is what marriage is about, thank God I never got involved in that crap

BigJoe19:
So this is what marriage is about, thank God I never got involved in that crap

That's not what marriage is about but that's the disposition of most women! More that's 90% of them! That's the way they are wired! No offence to them!

When there is an issue don't walk away from home, stay and resolve it.
Check out my YouTube channel guys

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f2Caoely57c

ThreadOwner:
Lemme go straight to the point....this morning I created a thread praising Allah for answering my prayers (muslim section), this morning I was happy and filled with joy, unknown to me; my wife had other plans.

She got a contract of 10million to do some decoration in a wedding, she had been praying for this contract for weeks and I have paid Alfas money to pray for her, I did a lot - begged the groom to give my wife this contract and now that she has it (all glory to Allah), she is acting strange, she can't lend me 5k! just 5k o and she is putting T&C before she lends me the money. I left her alone, left home and currently with my best friend.

Some women are ungrateful.

Why Did U Use A Female Moniker? And U Claimed Ur Wife Did Dis.

Truvel:
Why Did U Use A Female Moniker? And U Claimed Ur Wife Did Dis.

Are you happy now

I don't see anything wrong with sourcing money from your wife if there is a backed up reason, real man or not.

I think the problem is when the man is just feeding off of his wife, overly dependent and doesn't want to do anything about it.

Zzor:
Take your eyes off your wife's money, real men don't do that

sylve11:
Go hustle your own funds, my guy................

Really this is what you comprehend in your brain?

Fvckhypocrite:

Yeye gyal

But the kind story all this so called married men dey bring here is annoying seriously

But all is well

Are you single?

I pray you get a stingy partner so that you will understand what he’s complaining

debbydams:
lol �..I no disguise abeg..

Debbie, where in Ilorin are you?

Martinez39s:
I am going to give you a sound advice but I know you will likely not take it. Divorce your wife!

Commot hand from committed relationships and never ever place your hopes in a woman for the sake of love, friendship or anything. In fact, forget about love. While we men love women, women cannot love us and are only attracted to what they can benefit from you and how you make them feel. Women see us men as expendable utilities, and they are brutal ingrates not worth any sacrifice and investment.

As from today, you must abide by the following:
1) put yourself and your happiness and ambition first. Put them above men, women and children. Never put them before women in the name of love or for any reason. As far as love and relationships are concerned, women are not worth your sacrifices and investment. It will all be for nothing.
2) spend your time developing and enjoying yourself. Knowledge, finances and health. Life is short, and don't waste it on any woman.
3) stay away from committed relationships. If it is sex you want, you can get them without committed relationships.

Start doing these. As you do them, take out time to digest the red pill.

– Meme thread Part 1
– HardMirror's Red-pill topic.
– Meme thread Part 2
– GLYCOLYSISS'S red-pill thread.

After going through these topics, read Ubunja's miseducations.

So hardmirror is a redpiller too? I noticed most Nairaland Atheists are Redpillers

extol1:

Debbie, where in Ilorin are you?

why! M.done with nl guys.. U guys should stay away from me.. Nd I don't want to see any msg of my mail again pls.. How can one fool b saying mofe do e ni do ku do.. Iru arinfin wo niyen

debbydams:
why! M.done with nl guys.. U guys should stay away from me.. Nd I don't want to see any msg of my mail again pls.. How can one fool b saying mofe do e ni do ku do.. Iru arinfin wo niyen

so you have concluded that all nl guys are like that. well, I respect people with their opinion. shallom

I would have loved you to take your eyes off from ur wife money but the truth is that some women are just unfortunate and ungrateful even if you give them the whole world

In everything you are doing just make sure you are spending and taking care of your parents especially your mother cos those are the only people that can never let you down during a difficult period but you see women and wives of nowadays? Them get as them be may God just provide good and the better ones for us

Just take heart bro and henceforth pls for the sake of your respect and credibility pls never ask your wife 1 Kobo again til you die unless she deems it fit to give you willingly.

God will uplift you and protect your marriage sir.

Just take heart bro and God will elevate you

You are correct

If not becos of religion that compulsory marriage trust me many people will boycott marriage cos it more unless like slavery and it does not favour men in anyway

You sacrifice everything you have to keep the marriage and appreciating it is a different things entirely

Both men and women of this generation have alot of problems to solve jawe

emmaodet:


In that case, i will advice men to shun marriage because it seem it doesn't worth the sacrifice. Afterall, there is nothing we can do about it than to do what we can do in our capacity.

ThreadOwner:
Are you happy now

Guy I dey quote you here... Wetin u dey do no good bro. Stop it

ThatKING:
Guy I dey quote you here... Wetin u dey do no good bro. Stop it

Gee, wetin sup?

ThatKING:
Guy I dey quote you here... Wetin u dey do no good bro. Stop it