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Re: Dirty Husband by snowdrops(m): 2:16pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
armyofone: sound advice |
Re: Dirty Husband by armyofone(m): 2:21pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
abi o, anything to keep the nigeria lady quiet snowdrops: debest1:i thot it was the other way round (the guy trying to quicken the divorce) i mean make the woman run four forty without taking anything with her sef |
Re: Dirty Husband by SisiKill1: 3:21pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
@ Topic Two words - MIDLIFE CRISIS |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 3:36pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
i dont think the wife should be discussing all these on a public forum but she's understandably upset at the state of affairs. however she cant distance herself from the man as if they never met before. eg all the he's dirty i'm beautiful talk. far be it from me to start blaming the wife for everything that goes wrong in a marriage, but have you been nagging the man and complaining about him to other people who might have told him what you said. nagging could backfire since it rarely produces the desired effect anyway. Same goes for badmouthing your husband to other people. something is obviously seriously wrong here, since there's no way he could have hidden such behaviour before marriage, not to mention you're ten years running and you said he wasnt like that before. so, sweetie, no vex but move back into the room with him [doesnt mean you cant keep your own room], that way you can do the basic maintenance just like you'd do for your own area. remember, there are many women who would gladly take him off your hands, even if he's worse than that. |
Re: Dirty Husband by SisiKill1: 3:45pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
Tee hee hee Woman Gets Divorce From Dirty Husband Bwahahahahahaha Dirty Husband Gets Woman a Divorce |
Re: Dirty Husband by snowdrops(m): 3:50pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
@ Sisi_Kill where did you dig these stories from? hope you don't have a secret anti-male agenda? what about husband gets divorce from dirty wife stories |
Re: Dirty Husband by SisiKill1: 4:07pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
snowdrops: Huh??!! |
Re: Dirty Husband by afrobaby(f): 4:09pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
The post is kinda funny, but if it's real,then I think there may be a greater problem than what the wife is seeing now, people don't just change, something must have triggered it, u need to talk to ur husband and make him feel u are not irritated by him(though hard now), let him feel at ease and I guess he will open up. I know most men are lazy/dirty, and once they are married, they expect the wife to do the clean up, wetin b d woman job self, lol, let her lean it up and shower for him and brush his teeth, afterall, u be his helpmeet now, lol |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 4:21pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
afrobaby: Very very hard. Her acting like she's not irritated could make him feel it's not as bad as it looks. After how many attempts to make him reason, this is the time to tell him upfront,'Darling you are smelling'. |
Re: Dirty Husband by Outstrip(f): 4:22pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
afrobaby: My dad and husband are the total opposite of this situation. My husband can be messy but everything else is even excessive. He spends so much time flossing that I am sure one day he will floss off his gums. My dad is a neat freak too. Everything has to be a certain way for him. Sometimes the other end of the spectrum can drive you crazy too. |
Re: Dirty Husband by debest1(m): 4:41pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
tpiah!:My point exactly, so what if the guy is unhygenic he is still her husband for goodness sake! show some respect and stop washing your filthy linen in public |
Re: Dirty Husband by Outstrip(f): 4:45pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
debest1: Do you know her husband? Do you know her? It is better than telling your husbands friend to talk to him because his funk is giving you breathing problems. Unless she put her husbands first and last name there and the name of their village I don't see your point |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 4:48pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
if the husband also comes here and starts complaining about his wife, i'm sure we'll all run away. there are countless threads about smelling p****ssy on nl. Believe me, the guys can play this game better than the women. it's too risky oh!!! Never good to start what one cant finish. she can leave and go for another man. There's no guarantee the next man wont be the same way after a while. |
Re: Dirty Husband by Outstrip(f): 4:57pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
I have seen those countless threads and as long as they are not calling their wives nasty names I will refer them to a gynaecologist. This case is different. The man will just not use a toothbrush. I don't think that this is something that you sit down and start talking to a friend of your husband or a pastor about. Everybody is different. She is obviously at her wits end. I really don't see anything wrong with asking anonymously on a public forum. |
Re: Dirty Husband by HighChief4(m): 4:58pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
tpiah!: The bolded part is even worse than atomic bomb |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 5:14pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
Outstrip: true she's at her wit's end but i'm not sure she's not exaggerating a bit about the teeth. if they really were rotten, then he'd have severe toothache and would have no choice but to see a dentist. She should sit down, think and find ways to approach these issues without upsetting him still further. Buy pako if that's what he's comfortable with- as long as you keep these matters private, it's nobody's business. Put mouthwash in plain view. etc etc. Have fruit, mints, etc handy especially the ones that clean the mouth eg lemon. not saying things are easy for her, but someone could know her and the husband even though it's an anonymous forum. just my two cents and i know it's not easy. |
Re: Dirty Husband by chic2pimp(m): 6:45pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
Outstrip:Yep that's me |
Re: Dirty Husband by Outstrip(f): 9:36pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
there is a name for it Obsessive Compulsive Disorder chic2pimp: |
Re: Dirty Husband by dayokanu(m): 9:51pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
Outstrip: In simpler terms Its called "MENTAL problems" |
Re: Dirty Husband by chic2pimp(m): 10:33pm On Mar 25, 2011 |
Outstrip:I'll say to that is that I know you'd rather have me than him(Poster's dayokanu:I'd rather be a Hygiene Freak than a . . . . . . . . . . |
Re: Dirty Husband by otokx(m): 5:13am On Mar 26, 2011 |
spiritual solution is the key. |
Re: Dirty Husband by adamsrib(f): 5:19am On Mar 26, 2011 |
It sounds like depression or extreme fatigue to me. I think you should take him to the Doctor. If it turns out there is nothing medically wrong, then he's just trifling and I'd get the Elders involved. |
Re: Dirty Husband by Blazay(m): 2:06pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
ziddy: Who cannot do without NL? Sorry. I can rant, go and come as I please JUST like YOU ALL if I want to. As soon as I found out my hussy had a handle, then some "hungry" women were perching here and there . . . .I made sure I got that password. Yes, I can do without NL fine fine. As you can see I have not stopped "ranting". Never will. |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
my hussy had a handle, then some "hungry" women were perching here and there who were the hungry women? hope tpiah no dey among sha, cos everybody likes linking my name to every male here. seriously though, funny post. so you came back to warn all these hungry women [and your husband], abi. what about fstranger who practically carried you to his bedroom the other day. |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
and @ blazay what you mean by one drop of yoruba blood. almondjoy, ngbo? |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 3:53pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
Heheheehe, a friend of mine had a bobo like that, thank God she was able to waka jeje, even though at that time she was feeling the " I must marry, I don old bug". To the outsider, he was a correct man, great job, fine guy, and decent but hmmm first of all the guy dey smell, she will buy him body sprays and perfume this guy no go gree wear. His shoes stank to high heavens, she will buy him socks but the guy will prefer to wear one for 3 weeks till she takes the socks and throw away, bathing, hmmm, after work the guy no go gree bath, she will beg , cajole, pet for where, if they are going somewhere she will beg him to change from work clothes, he no go gree, Snooring, hmmm, then he will eat and leave the plates in his house on the table for weeks till she comes and cleans up. All over his car, food particles, juice cover. The guy is over 36 and still unmarried, my friend tried oh, she really wanted this to work but she could not manage. All the while we were hailing here, ah see correct man when be wedding date, till one day she burst into tears and opened up to me, i didnt believe till she invited me over to the guys place, mean see smell, the plates in the sink had grown fungus, after seeing the kitchen i did not have liver to enter the toilet Kai, i could not hold down food for days. When he came back from work and removed his shoes i almost died, to complicate matters, the guy can argue, when she tries talking to him na so he go argue argue oh. Hmmm, sorry for your friend oh, I can just imagine |
Re: Dirty Husband by Odunnu: 4:18pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
May God continually remove such pigs in human form from my path IJN |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 5:23pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
Amen oh my sister. Amen |
Re: Dirty Husband by SisiKill1: 6:18pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
aisha2:Nasty! |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 7:00pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
Well, someone like that needs to marry a woman who enjoys cleaning and taking care of a man. Problem solved. |
Re: Dirty Husband by jkpretty(f): 7:02pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
so sad. . . men are naturally lazy when it comes 2 domestic chores. An advice 2 mothers, don't leave out ur male children when trainning ur daughters @making a home, its boys like dat, that turn out men that cannot just figure out hw 2 do things for themselves except go out and make money and fill its d only obligation they've got. |
Re: Dirty Husband by Nobody: 7:03pm On Mar 26, 2011 |
Not saying the guy shouldnt shape up, but should he remain single all his life because he doesnt do housecleaning and is rather lazy with personal hygiene? |
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