Pardon the typos.



Ever wondered why our parents always frowned at the words
"mom,dad I want to work in a bar"

Then you get the "Do you know you're a lady" question.

I decided to find out exactly why they feel so insecure about their female children working in a bar. Either as a waitress,bartender or what have you.

Guess what,I got an offer from a friend to work as a waitress.

Then came my advisers ----- Babe forget that,that sort of work is not for you. Just one comment from a customer and you'll quit.

Me: A comment won't be that bad.

Advisers:: Not just any comment. Some customers go to the extent of smacking a worker's ass.

Me: One smack to the ass,two smackdown to his cheeks and a cup of larger beer poured on his face to wash down his ego.


Next day I set out for work,being my very first side work anyway.

Met the owner of the place and luck smiled my way. He told me not to serve, just walk up to the customers and have a talk with them.
Smile and gist with them,that wasn't normal anyway but,I decided to go along with the flow.



First day was phone number collection day,many drank to stupor and just made their way out slowly like tortoise.

Noticed how the girls were just being treated like call girls,being touched inappropriately.

They drank to their heart desire while still attending to customers,ate as much as they wanted.

Though I got a whole large part of the eating,I just found the light in which the enjoyment offer came very unpleasant.


Second day was touching and demanding day.



It was just my second day at the work place and you were already beginning to get too familiar. Trying to touch a lady in places where you know will most likely make her furious.
Then again,orders from the CEO was to go along with the flow. It can only help attract more customers to the already flourishing bar.

Like seriously??

Then again,our parents claims might just be right.
Girls working in bars might just be used as baits for more male customers.



Shits always happen,got into a heated argument with a customer. Why?
He is a politician and exercised a very big role to the growth of the place. That actually in another sense gives him the right to any girl he wanted at the bar.



That was it,second day I QUIT.


Could our elders actually be right??
Are ladies who work in bars exposed to immoralities, abuse of different forms and early sexual life.













Men in the house;
What form of label do you attach to ladies that work in bars??
And why do you think so?




Ladies; Do you think working in a bar is right for any sane thinking lady??

Let me start by playing you this song... Listen and be bless.

It goes like this...


If you ask me,
Na who I go ask,
The matter when you see so,
E don tay e start,
No be me go talk am,
E heavy for mouth,
If u ask me,
The matter for ground,
Nah who I go ask.


Thanks for listening and with this response of mine, I hope I have been able to convince and not confuse you.
God bless you.

StacyO:
Pardon the typos.



Ever wondered why our parents always frowned at the words
"mom,dad I want to work in a bar"

Then you get the "Do you know you're a lady" question.

I decided to find out exactly why they feel so insecure about their female children working in a bar. Either as a waitress,bartender or what have you.

Guess what,I got an offer from a friend to work as a waitress.

Then came my advisers ----- Babe forget that,that sort of work is not for you. Just one comment from a customer and you'll quit.

Me: A comment won't be that bad.

Advisers:: Not just any comment. Some customers go to the extent of smacking a worker's ass.

Me: One smack to the ass,two smackdown to his cheeks and a cup of larger beer poured on his face to wash down his ego.


Next day I set out for work,being my very first side work anyway.

Met the owner of the place and luck smiled my way. He told me not to serve, just walk up to the customers and have a talk with them.
Smile and gist with them,that wasn't normal anyway but,I decided to go along with the flow.



First day was phone number collection day,many drank to stupor and just made their way out slowly like tortoise.

Noticed how the girls were just being treated like call girls,being touched inappropriately.

They drank to their heart desire while still attending to customers,ate as much as they wanted.

Though I got a whole large part of the eating,I just found the light in which the enjoyment offer came very unpleasant.


Second day was touching and demanding day.



It was just my second day at the work place and you were already beginning to get too familiar. Trying to touch a lady in places where you know will most likely make her furious.
Then again,orders from the CEO was to go along with the flow. It can only help attract more customers to the already flourishing bar.

Like seriously??

Then again,our parents claims might just be right.
Girls working in bars might just be used as baits for more male customers.



Shits always happen,got into a heated argument with a customer. Why?
He is a politician and exercised a very big role to the growth of the place. That actually in another sense gives him the right to any girl he wanted at the bar.



That was it,second day I QUIT.


Could our elders actually be right??
Are ladies who work in bars exposed to immoralities, abuse of different forms and early sexual life.













Men in the house;
What form of label do you attach to ladies that work in bars??
And why do you think so?




Ladies; Do you think working in a bar is right for any sane thinking lady??

There's no girl that works in a bar that is not a call girl. Even if you don't want to be, you will be forced to be. Once I see a waitress, I just smile to her and drink my beer. Can't have anything serious to do with any of them. I have worked in a bar before and I have seen it all.

Bars, hotels, hang out centres! Forget her. She's a collector of random dicks. Most times, it is not intentional but they can't just help it. It's the hazard of the job

This whole post is just sad

so what should we do now?

Just like say u wan touch fire & u no want make the fire burn u. Girls wey dey work for hotels, bars, joints...99.9% na olosho them be. Na brothels be the headquarters.

Wahala for who no like trouble...

In Nigeria, working as a waitress is too demanding, you have to satisfy the customers pleasure in all ramifications, reason they don't just employ any girl they see, first they will look at you to know if you can flow with the train.

The insults they receive from customers no be here

Stacyo......i can relate to all you said cos am also a bar owner.....


The only tin dia be say mk u no date any of ur customer and mk any of ur customer no nack u else u become a topic of public discussion.....


Your manners too matters alot.......


Gv me ur number,am sorry sir i dont ve phone.....


Sit down mk we talk nah,Am sorry sir my boss will sanction me.....


What would u like to take,thank you sir but am ok wit a fake smile(asin u ve to be xtra smart).....

Read d customers mind bfr dey even start dia bla bla bla......



You need to know why u re there(highly focused) if not men go share u like biscuit.......


To work in a bar,my dear u need tolerance bt always use ur head......


But if ur boss na wats up niggar he go gv u OT nah cos bar na anoda world on its own.....

Are you a new learner?
Welcome to real world.

Open your own bar and be the CEO. For the owner of the bar to be tell you (the workers) to go with the flow, speaks volume about some of these bar owners. Most of them are hoe-oloshos in disguise. To your question, I can not marry a bar owner, bar attendant or a retired bar attendant.

Are you a new learner? Welcome to real world.

Na hoelosho dey work for bar. Are you a learner? Even if she's a decent girl with good moral standards, it's only a matter of time before she starts sleeping around with different "drunkards" who are ready to spend anything to get in her pants, even her employer sef go later chop him own. A decent lady who is intelligent should know she has no business working in a bar, unless she wants to end up getting corrupted

Most girls for bar dey do runs codedly, some even offer you their numbers willingly without you asking once dem see say ur pocket fat.

No be rocket science we know many of dem there na coded olosho.

Any lady that works in a bar is a very big NO for me both for friendship or marriage

Pele. Bar is not a place for sermon or moral trope.
It's a place people relax, cool off and catch whatever fun away from the stress of life..

There are girls who wouldn't mind, who are in tune with the demand of bar jobs. And it's not big deal what goes down over there. If you can't cope no one is forcing you...
Let people enjoy themselves in peace. Some of the bar girls are not complaining. They get tips, fun and even opportunity from it if they are smart. It's their life and stop acting holier than thou.

Sounds like a hard nut to crack. You can accept innocent touches but overboard you can Hala.

But then it all depends on the girl abi is it that bad. Well it gotta be that bad considering how every girl looks finer with each bottle of beer cancelled

Donspicey:
Stacyo......i can relate to all you said cos am also a bar owner.....


The only tin dia be say mk u no date any of ur customer and mk any of ur customer no nack u else u become a topic of public discussion.....


Your manners too matters alot.......


Gv me ur number,am sorry sir i dont ve phone.....


Sit down mk we talk nah,Am sorry sir my boss will sanction me.....


What would u like to take,thank you sir but am ok wit a fake smile(asin u ve to be xtra smart).....

Read d customers mind bfr dey even start dia bla bla bla......



You need to know why u re there(highly focused) if not men go share u like biscuit.......


To work in a bar,my dear u need tolerance bt always use ur head......


But if ur boss na wats up niggar he go gv u OT nah cos bar na anoda world on its own.....

Real niggar

I really saw things with my eyes. Lol

Anyway,my intentions were not to work in a bar but,see things for myself.

Not judging anyway,just wanted to confirm my suspicions.

StacyO:
azy

Real niggar

I really saw things with my eyes. Lol

Anyway,my intentions were not to work in a bar but,see things for myself.

Not judging anyway,just wanted to confirm my suspicions.

You're crazier than I thought

The bar is where you meet all kinds of the good, the bad, the ugly

A male working as a barman or waiter nko?

Samakus:


There's no girl that works in a bar that is not a call girl. Even if you don't want to be, you will be forced to be. Once I see a waitress, I just smile to her and drink my beer. Can't have anything serious to do with any of them. I have worked in a bar before and I have seen it all.

Bars, hotels, hang out centres! Forget her. She's a collector of random dicks. Most times, it is not intentional but they can't just help it. It's the hazard of the job

bro, can u pls share some of your experience with me, I am looking for job in a bar

omoolababs:
A male working as a barman or waiter nko?

You will be pimping hoes and moving in drugs for the customers nd get loads of cash n favours

dairykidd:

You will be pimping hoes and moving in drugs for the customers nd get loads of cash n favours

what does this mean bro?

omoolababs:
bro, can u pls share some of your experience with me, I am looking for job in a bar

I was a supervisor. Sometimes I help out to serve customers too. If you wanna work in a bar, you need to be extra smart. If not, you will run into deficit. A lot of people come and drink and try to go without paying. Sometimes you may even forget to collect money and that will be debited from your salary.

If you're very friendly, you will be getting tips especially from big boys and yahoo boys. Because I know how to hail boys dem, sometimes I get 5k in a day as tips, though not always.

In all, you should aspire higher. Bar life will expose you to a lot of bad things sha. You will hate women if you're not careful cos you will see it all. The cheating, the immorality, every damn thing. My hotel had club. Oboy, you will see where Gboys go dey blow another guy girlfriend in the open just for money. Few months later, you will see the main guy come with that babe to hangout.

As in, I no fit exhaust wetin I see. I ran to protect my sanity, moral life and of course, I always knew I was made for bigger things. Now I'm a better place.

Samakus:


I was a supervisor. Sometimes I help out to serve customers too. If you wanna work in a bar, you need to be extra smart. If not, you will run into deficit. A lot of people come and drink and try to go without paying. Sometimes you may even forget to collect money and that will be debited from your salary.

If you're very friendly, you will be getting tips especially from big boys and yahoo boys. Because I know how to hail boys dem, sometimes I get 5k in a day as tips, though not always.

In all, you should aspire higher. Bar life will expose you to a lot of bad things sha. You will hate women if you're not careful cos you will see it all. The cheating, the immorality, every damn thing. My hotel had club. Oboy, you will see where Gboys go dey blow another guy girlfriend in the open just for money. Few months later, you will see the main guy come with that babe to hangout.

As in, I no fit exhaust wetin I see. I ran to protect my sanity, moral life and of course, I always knew I was made for bigger things. Now I'm a better place.

Thanks so much bro! I am also aiming higher but presently the so called big jobs aren't forthcoming that is why I just want to put in for bartender and maybe I may find my helper there.

omoolababs:
Thanks so much bro! I am also aiming higher but presently the so called big jobs aren't forthcoming that is why I just want to put in for bartender and maybe I may find my helper there.

All the very best bro. May God's plan for you work

Personally, I don't take them serious.

For me any girl that works in a bar,hotel and some restaurants is not suitable for anything serious.

JustCruise:
For me any girl that works in a bar,hotel and some restaurants is not suitable for anything serious.

That's stereotype

StacyO:


That's stereotype

Call it anything you want but it doesn't change the fact.