tobechi74:


I totally, completely, vehemently, strongly, wholeheartedly, seriously agree with you.

He who pays the Piper determine the tune.
See,women are items purchased by men at a fee called dowry and bride-price determined during negotiation between the sellers ( bride family ) and buyers(groom)

Since he owns her and can use her however he likes the same way one may decide to use a handkerchief to clean sweat in the morning and blow his nose in the night, He is in the only position to decide how the wedding will be.
Her inputs are unnecessary.

If he decides he doesn't need bridesmaids, she must comply. The handkerchief has no opinion in determining how it will be used.
If he insists she must wear a black gown on her wedding day, she must obey. Whoever pays for the wedding gown determines the type and colour.
He can command you to stay at home and manage the little he brings and you must comply. You are his property



If men had their way, there would be no wedding. Money spent is better invested in many buissness.wedding ceremony is for the glorification of the woman . You want men to spend on your wedding. This kind of women will tell you his money is our money while my money is my money.

They want gender equality when it favors them but not willing to share the responsibility equally.

tobechi74:


I totally, completely, vehemently, strongly, wholeheartedly, seriously agree with you.

He who pays the Piper determine the tune.
See,women are items purchased by men at a fee called dowry and bride-price determined during negotiation between the sellers ( bride family ) and buyers(groom)

Since he owns her and can use her however he likes the same way one may decide to use a handkerchief to clean sweat in the morning and blow his nose in the night, He is in the only position to decide how the wedding will be.
Her inputs are unnecessary.

If he decides he doesn't need bridesmaids, she must comply. The handkerchief has no opinion in determining how it will be used.
If he insists she must wear a black gown on her wedding day, she must obey. Whoever pays for the wedding gown determines the type and colour.
He can command you to stay at home and manage the little he brings and you must comply. You are his property



If men had their way, there would be no wedding. Money spent is better invested in many buissness.wedding ceremony is for the glorification of the woman . You want men to spend on your wedding. This kind of women will tell you his money is our money while my money is my money.

They want gender equality when it favors them but not willing to share the responsibility equally.

mysticwarrior:
na wa o see talk, so tomorrow if you husband start using you like handkachief like you described here hope you won't complain?

Zzor:
Setting a wedding budget is one of the most important parts of planning in order to know how much you can afford to pay for your big day. I heard the bride is only solely responsible for payment of the wedding gifts for her bridesmaid, but however you see ladies spending huge amount of money on their wedding these days and I think it's not right. I'm of the opinion that a man should bear all the financial implications in a wedding and sharing the financial responsibility with his wife makes him less of a man, it's somehow untraditional. What do you think?

fati2001:
yes ,I you have the money you can assist..

Mide3367:
your self esteem is the lowest I ever seen. You hate men but changed your sex status to M. Be your self

Descortes:
you sure say your brain dey work so?

RedPanthar:
Shouldn't you all be at Shiloh

Zzor:
Yes,but I left because correct big boys didn't show up,after all the shopping I did,it was some assistant pastors that were hovering around and some small small boys. Have I spoken your mind?

Truvel:
hmmm, Zzor, Zzor, Zzor. Na How Many Times I Call U?

Zzor:
Yes,but I left because correct big boys didn't show up,after all the shopping I did,it was some assistant pastors that were hovering around and some small small boys. Have I spoken your mind?

Zzor:
Exactly but do you also know it's against African tradition for a lady to share in such fin/res with her husband to be? Ask your elders and you will be shocked

Zzor:
Setting a wedding budget is one of the most important parts of planning in order to know how much you can afford to pay for your big day. I heard the bride is only solely responsible for payment of the wedding gifts for her bridesmaid, but however you see ladies spending huge amount of money on their wedding these days and I think it's not right. I'm of the opinion that a man should bear all the financial implications in a wedding and sharing the financial responsibility with his wife makes him less of a man, it's somehow untraditional. What do you think?

RisenPhoenix1:


She should not share in the 'financial implications', but she also has no right to demand anything more than the bridegroom is willing to pay for. If he says 'only family', it's only family. If he says 'no cake', it's no cake. If he says no bridal gown, no bridal gown. If he says no reception, no reception. No argument, no acrimony, no dispute.

crackhaus:

For someone like Zzor, this marriage will end before it even begins.

Zzor:
True ,when it comes to marriage celebrations men should give ladies some slack and allow them call the shot.Haaa I don't like men that drag petty things with ladies,even if you know its petty just allow us have our way

crackhaus:

If you want to have your way, contribute at least half of the money for expenses.

Zzor:
You are wicked already so I'm not surprised

crackhaus:

Look at this girl, you think just having big yansh and yellow skin is what will make a man let you have your way abi?

Better goan start saving money for your wedding gown and shoes, my friend...

Zzor:
where have you been

crackhaus:

Travelling baby, seeing new countries and places...

Zzor:
Honey moon I guess,stop hiding your marital status, my regards to your wife

crackhaus:

Your wahala be like bicycle, kai...