baralatie:

there is nothing called alpha women.
it is either independent,co alition or coorperative

There is. There's a difference between being an Alpha female and being an independent woman

LadyTianna:
Only few men can handle Alpha women. The ones who can, can only do it for a short time. In the long run, they start feeling emasculated and less manly cos the woman doesn't really need their help with anything. She won't even have much time to have sex with them either cos she'll be busy with work a lot.

I'm not saying women shouldn't have careers tho.

Well, a woman should have a lot of sex with her husband, and if that criteria is not met, then the continuity of that relationship should be questioned. A woman's first responsibility is her home, pleasing her husband and sex is part of it. Afterall, the man is meeting her own responsibilities as well, so why not she?

And no, I don't know what you mean by "alpha "woman" but a true alpha woman is not a woman that photocopies a man's masculinity and doesnt reign in her femininity. RisenPhoenix1 has given a good explanation of what an alpha woman is. Anything apart from that is nothing but an example of a corrupt woman. A feminine man is not alpha, and a masculine woman is not alpha either.

LadyTianna:


There is. There's a difference between being an Alpha female and being an independent woman

as it concerns human beings.it is either you are in a co alition, cooperative or independent.
there is no alpha female.
for you to be an alpha female there will be an alpha male.
and in a situation where in a social community which uses the alpha males and alpha females construct every other mature male and female that come of age become domicile and every other male/female become "workers" that sustain the relationship of the alpha male and female.this social misnorm does not exist in human beings except you are talking about masters/slave relationship where the male and female are made domicile(usually impossible)

but there exists coalition where two or more person's (wether one man and one woman or one man and many women) come together to form a union in which every member of the coalition contributes to the sustainance of that co alition.the man in that coalition will have to prove his "strength" to be part of that coalition and usually leadership can be short lived because of competition from other male folks.

independent involves a single individual who does not need the other to survive .only mating is what joins parties.and that comes with its own rules

Zzor:
I can't respect a man I'm richer than in a relationship so I can't date a man I'm richer than

If I say I do not get redpill nuggets from some of your comments, then I'm a liar.

pansophist:


Well, a woman should have a lot of sex with her husband, and if that criteria is not met, then the continuity of that relationship should be questioned. A woman's first responsibility is her home, pleasing her husband and sex is part of it. Afterall, the man is meeting her own responsibilities as well, so why not she?

And no, I don't know what you mean by "alpha "woman" but a true alpha woman is not a woman that photocopies a man's masculinity and doesnt reign in her femininity. RisenPhoenix1 has given a good explanation of what an alpha woman is. Anything apart from that is nothing but an example of a corrupt woman. A feminine man is not alpha, and a masculine woman is not alpha either.

I agree with your first paragraph, but not the second.

An Alpha female is a leader. A very confident woman and highly motivated individual. She competes with both men and women. She possesses some femininity but not a lot. She possesses masculinity as well because she needs it to get ahead in the economic and political world. She leads, others follow.

An example of an Alpha female is Kamala Harris, the new VP elect of USA

Cc: baralatie

Abeg , go and get pregnant and have children, stop disturbing us here

Zzor:
I can't respect a man I'm richer than in a relationship so I can't date a man I'm richer than

shut up.

WantsandMore:
shut up.

lol

LadyTianna:


I agree with your first paragraph, but not the second.

An Alpha female is a leader. A very confident woman and highly motivated individual. She competes with both men and women. She possesses some femininity but not a lot. She possesses masculinity as well because she needs it to get ahead in the economic and political world. She leads, others follow.

An example of an Alpha female is Kamala Harris, the new VP elect of USA

Cc: baralatie

Kamala got to where she is because a man allowed her to. Hope u are not forgetting that important part of the “ Alpha female “ stuff you are pushing

tnerro1:


Kamala got to where she is because a man allowed her to. Hope u are not forgetting that important part of the “ Alpha female “ stuff you are pushing

Like I said, an Alpha female possesses a bit of femininity which she uses in conjunction with her masculine traits to get ahead. Kamala did just that

LadyTianna:


Like I said, an Alpha female possesses a bit of femininity which she uses in conjunction with her masculine traits to get ahead. Kamala did just that

She got no “masculine “ traits, and no “bit of femininity “. All she’s got is a huge dose of femininity, that she uses at every opportunity she can find to get ahead . If a lady says I got where I am because I am good, ok no problem. But if she says I got where I am because am an Alpha female, story

tnerro1:


She got no “masculine “ traits, and no “bit of femininity “. All she’s got is a huge dose of femininity, that she uses at every opportunity she can find to get ahead

Lol okay

LadyTianna:


Lol okay

If a lady says I worked hard to get to where I am, ok no problem but when she says I got where I am because am an Alpha female, ehen, wat is dat? Story

tnerro1:


If a lady says I worked hard to get to where I am, ok no problem but when she says I got where I am because am an Alpha female, ehen, wat is dat? Story

Lmao. Sir, a true Alpha male or female does not announce this status. It is something that is observed by their followers and mentees. Their status is marked by their distinct characters/personalities/attitudes

Obviously they would never brag that they lead while others follow.

Zzor:
I can't respect a man I'm richer than in a relationship so I can't date a man I'm richer than

Mehn...some people shallow for this life sha.

LadyTianna:


I agree with your first paragraph, but not the second.

An Alpha female is a leader. A very confident woman and highly motivated individual. She competes with both men and women. She possesses some femininity but not a lot. She possesses masculinity as well because she needs it to get ahead in the economic and political world. She leads, others follow.

An example of an Alpha female is Kamala Harris, the new VP elect of USA

Cc: baralatie

kamala is not an alpha at all.
her case is an example of a co alition.
people get together to form a union whereby all members of that union contribute to survival of that union!
without coalition she is useless!

for her ass to be considered an alpha there must in existent other mature females who are members of her social community who became docile and ineffective because of her.this is not her case.
her case is the coalition consisting of other members of the group who are push her as an agenda to sustain the group.a group where she cannot push anybody around(coalition)

pansophist:


Well, a woman should have a lot of sex with her husband, and if that criteria is not met, then the continuity of that relationship should be questioned. A woman's first responsibility is her home, pleasing her husband and sex is part of it. Afterall, the man is meeting her own responsibilities as well, so why not she?

And no, I don't know what you mean by "alpha "woman" but a true alpha woman is not a woman that photocopies a man's masculinity and doesnt reign in her femininity. RisenPhoenix1 has given a good explanation of what an alpha woman is. Anything apart from that is nothing but an example of a corrupt woman. A feminine man is not alpha, and a masculine woman is not alpha either.

They don't understand bro. Feminists do not know that the only way a woman can successfully compete in a man's world is by using her feminity. No woman can 'outmasculinize' a man without ending up as a freak of nature. They desperately want to believe that the standards which work for men also work for women.

This is easy to discern.

baralatie:

kamala is not an alpha at all.
her case is an example of a co alition.
people get together to form a union whereby all members of that union contribute to survival of that union!
without coalition she is useless!

for her ass to be considered an alpha there must in existent other mature females who are members of her social community who became docile and ineffective because of her.this is not her case.
her case is the coalition consisting of other members of the group who are push her as an agenda to sustain the group.a group where she cannot push anybody around(coalition)

Who is the Leader of the group? Who did the union members choose to represent them? An Alpha is a leader. Kamala is a leader, which makes her an Alpha

LadyTianna:


Who is the Leader of the group? Who did the union members choose to represent them? An Alpha is a leader. Kamala is a leader, which makes her an Alpha

you asked a good question?
so kamala is the leader of the group?
biden is escort to the banner or is the gov of michigan her escort.or paulosi is her escort?then we have hilary,Michelle Obama
hian!
she is not even worth it sef!
she is in a coalition!
and that is what it is

I Can Handle Dem.

LadyTianna:


Who is the Leader of the group? Who did the union members choose to represent them? An Alpha is a leader. Kamala is a leader, which makes her an Alpha

Kamala ain't no alpha at all

Someone that's slept her way to power

She's not competent and she's very unpopular in the democrat Party

pansophist:
The idea that men cannot handle independent women is wrong, a failed attempt to encourage bad behaviours in women by calling it standards, and the ridiculous demands she have because she is earning some money. Only wild animals should be handled, not a human being. No man with a healthy sense of worth will be intimidated by a woman who is earning money. It is a lie.

Now show me a woman who earns lots of money, is feminine, respectful, submissive (not surbodinate), does not look down on her man regardless of earnings, and is beautiful, and I'll show you a woman that most men is dying to have. Such women does not stay in the market for long. Na men de rush them. My woman is who you would describe as an independent lady, with her own business and money, but her homely duties are met, no question asked. She doesn't put her earning to my face, or question my authority because she earns money. I'll also admit that I do not look at her money, and still perform my duties as if she is not rich herself.

So women, men are not shy of independent women, or whatever that shi.t means, but if a woman is rude, look down on men because she earns higher, can't marry down because of her hypergamy, disrespectful , old and just plain distasteful, then its not because you're "independent", but because you're not desirable. Weyrey de disguise

Too much sense in one post. Exactly my point. It is usually an attitude issue and not an independence issue..

I feel like sending you my December salary... Lol

RisenPhoenix1:


They don't understand bro. Feminists do not know that the only way a woman can successfully compete in a man's world is by using her feminity. No woman can 'outmasculinize' a man without ending up as a freak of nature. They desperately want to believe that the standards which work for men also work for women.

This is easy to discern.

I support gender equality, I don't really care about gender roles, but you know what, I know and accept that there are gender differences and it would be ill advised to ignore them in whatever guise.

I just dislike irrational fanaticism. It makes such people totally blind to nuances involved in advancing their opinions.

Yes, having dated one, the feeling is refreshingly thrilling!

Real independent and well mannered women who are goal getters(career driven with both insights and foresights) are very meek to their hubby or bf.

I dated the only girl in my uni during my time, faculty of Engineering.

She never went below 4.6gpa each semester during our 5years study.

During the dating period, i was always like mehn, see the way this well respected girl by all my Prof's, course mates and lecturers is very humble to me.

Funny thing is, we where in the same department.

Well, the love didn't lead to marriage cause she was older than me and wanted marriage badly, we communicate a lot and one of her heart desire was to be in a relationship that will lead to marriage in her final year so I just had to let her go in our final year but we where still close and surprising to me this girl that was never in any relationship with a guy all through our dating period got married within a year we graduated from school to the only son of a nice family.

She is catholic and was the nfcs assistant president back then and never short of suitors(everyone admired her).

cooooooks:
There is no choice but to be with independent, 'alpha' women.

In the developed world (urban cities), on average, women outearn men up until ~ age 28 when more women start trying to get children. A number of studies have proven this.

As long as there is mutual respect, there will be no problem.

Some of us completely believe in equity, at all levels. From asking out, to dating to marriage.

Not in naija o. Many of these men shouting independent can't handle an independent woman. Jealousy go wound them tire

Chii59:

Not in naija o. Many of these men shouting independent can't handle an independent woman. Jealousy go wound them tire

Are you independent? Can you carry a baby for me? Just that.

weyreypey:


Are you independent? Can you carry a baby for me? Just that.

Yawns. Next question.

Chii59:

Yawns. Next question.

None.

Those men have little choice lol

Reminds me of the story where a man in PH earning ~N300k was trying to control his fiancée in Lag earning ~N1 m.

Chii59:

Not in naija o. Many of these men shouting independent can't handle an independent woman. Jealousy go wound them tire

Lightangel65:
Yes sure I would enjoy breaking her and putting her into submission. I love when dreams of hard working ladies die off

Wow

StacyO:


Wow

Must you guys torture your space bar