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Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by AfroKnight: 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2020
First of all, if you are going to preach celibacy until marriage, you’re welcome, however try not to derail. Thank you. grin

Back to the Topic. angry

False rape allegations everywhere in 2020.

And when the truth would come out, it’s a girl who felt “used” by the guy she accused. She wanted something more and the guy wasn’t ready/willing to give her.

But madam, Why? Why do you feel used if it’s sex? Did you lose something in the process?

Why must it end in a relationship or marriage? Why must we label everything? Why must guys ONLY have sex with their girlfriends or pay for it (transactional sex)? Why?


Why must you resort to blackmail and outright false accusations as punishment because he wasn’t ready to take it any further. A lady once said it’s because it hurts when guys ghost them after sex. Yes, that’s true. It definitely hurts but it doesn’t justify ruining his life and career.

Many of you say you’d appreciate it if a guy would give you a heads up, stating clearly that he desires only sex and no further commitment. But when guys do that, they receive insults or embarrassment online. You say you hate it when guys hide their intentions run away after hitting it a couple of times. So why do you turn up your noses at proper FWB requests? Some of you think the benefits should be monetary for the girl too. This is inequality but that is a topic for another day.

Stop weaponising rape allegations.

You’re not the first person to be heartbroken. Pick up the pieces and move on.

Only today, on twitter, an artiste just debunked the allegations against him with an alibi that shows he wasn’t even in the country and therefore not at the party where his accuser alleged he raped her.

Now, the accuser has closed up shop. Tweets are being deleted.

A rape accusation is not a punishment for a break up.
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by thebosstrevor1: 6:46pm On Dec 29, 2020
Stop complaining.

Stop dealing with Instagram oloshos, so they wont use your head to shine.

Everything is now about clout chasing.

Men need to know how to tuck their penis into their trousers, if most of these men haven't written them or contacted them, there won't be any scandal

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Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by AfroKnight: 6:52pm On Dec 29, 2020
thebosstrevor1:
Stop complaining.

Stop dealing with Instagram oloshos, so they wont use your head to shine.

Everything is now about clout chasing.

Men need to know how to tuck their penis in their trousers, if most of these men haven't written them or contacted them, there won't be any scandal

Like I said, you’re welcome.

Also, it is naive to assume such accusers are Instagram oloshos or whatever. Wickedness is not the preserve of so-called loose women.
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by thebosstrevor1: 6:59pm On Dec 29, 2020
AfroKnight:


Like I said, you’re welcome.

Also, it is naive to assume such accusers are Instagram oloshos or whatever. Wickedness is not the preserve of so-called loose women.

It is not naive, not all girls will do that, a woman that also has her reputation to protect wont do that.

Most of these women that spread all these false accusations, go and check their profile, many are oloshos while some are psychos looking for cheap fame.

The fact is simple, no contact, no scandal
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by AfroKnight: 7:06pm On Dec 29, 2020
thebosstrevor1:


It is not naive, not all girls will do that, a woman that also has her reputation to protect wont do that.

Most of these women that spread all these false accusations, go and check their profile, many are oloshos while some are psychos looking for cheap fame.

The fact is simple, no contact, no scandal

Many are oloshos? Okay. The rest are what? grin Your conclusion is interesting. No contact, no scandal. Even if she’s your babe. Don’t touch her. Nice.
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by thebosstrevor1: 7:13pm On Dec 29, 2020
AfroKnight:


Many are oloshos? Okay. The rest are what? grin Your conclusion is interesting. No contact, no scandal. Even if she’s your babe. Don’t touch her. Nice.

I don't have time to hate on women but when i see an olosho and a clout chaser, i know, i avoid them.

What i meant by no contact no scandal is simple.

If you don't contact or write them, you wont be any scandal when things go wrong
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by AfroKnight: 7:18pm On Dec 29, 2020
thebosstrevor1:


I don't have time to hate on woman but when i see an olosho and a clout chaser, i know, i avoid

What i meant by no contact no scandal is simple.

If you don't contact or write them, you wont be any scandal.

Simple? No. Ambiguous? Yes.

But it is definitely simplistic either way.

There will always be sexual relationships in society. And false accusers can be those “decent” babes you admire, only with hidden mean streaks.
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by thebosstrevor1: 7:24pm On Dec 29, 2020
AfroKnight:


Simple? No. Ambiguous? Yes.

But it is definitely simplistic either way.

There will always be sexual relationships in society. And false accusers can be those “decent” babes you admire, only with hidden mean streaks.

I wasn't even talking about sex and i don't admire any girl i see on social media.

I date women only from my circle.
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by AfroKnight: 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2020
thebosstrevor1:


I wasn't even talking about sex and i don't admire any girl i see on social media.

I date women only from my circle.

Women you deem decent. Excellent choice
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by Lightangel65: 7:31pm On Dec 29, 2020
Well if we start beating false accusers to death no one would try it
Re: Ladies, Why Are You People Like This? by Epositive(m): 4:01pm On Jan 03
Lightangel65:
Well if we start beating false accusers to death no one would try it
How has this stop petty thieves in aba, Lagos and computer villages?

Modern solutions are required here.

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