IN 2010 when soulful singer, Joy Eseoghene Odiete simply known as Jodie, released her monster hit debut single, ‘Kuchi Kuchi’ (Oh! Baby). She never knew how far her song would go. It went as far as becoming an anthem in many households in Africa and beyond.

Many did not even remember that she participated in the West African Idols competition and came top 10 alongside Nigerian musicians such as Timi Dakolo and Omawunmi in 2007.

After Kuchi Kuchi (Oh! Baby), Jodie, released an album, ‘African Woman in 2012 and few singles. Thereafter things took a different turn in her life. However, she is back and in this chat with SAM ANOKAM, Jodie displayed her strength of character as she bares her mind about her career, her private life, challenges and future.



WHAT took you this long after ‘Kuchi Kuchi’ (Oh! Baby) love’ to release another album?

It took a while, I know, but it wasn’t after ‘Kuchi Kuchi.’ I released an album, titled “African Woman” in 2012 then, a couple of singles in between. Well, you would be right to ask “What took you so long?” – Many people asked the same.

Truth is, life happens. It’s been a roller-coaster for me. I had my distractions. I got pregnant. I got married. I gave birth to a sweet boy with special needs – and you know what that means in Nigeria. I got divorced. I got depressed. I got back up again!

How have you been coping ever since you got divorced?

After crying my eyes out, I tried to numb the pain, so I got a job far away from home, so that I would commute to work very early in the morning and commute back late at night – plus the Lagos traffic – exhausted. It gave me some false comfort, so that I’d be too tired to think and continue the cycle the next day.

I didn’t know I was depressed after a while. I even shaved my hair at some point – I thought it was a fashion statement (I really like hair) – that’s after I had gone blonde. Sometimes, I would put on very heavy make-up, just to add some ‘colour’ in my life. I was restless. I was that way until, one day, still on the job – I had gone to Abuja for an assignment. I was walking back to the hotel I was lodged in, then I found myself praying this so-called prayer. It was full of bitterness and anger – asking God to punish those I believed had hurt me. Then, it was like someone spoke to me in my heart, saying, “but, is that what you really want?” I paused. I then started walking slowly, I was now speaking out, softly, I said, ‘Actually, that’s not what I want, I just want them to see things through my perspective.’ After which, I continued the rest of the prayer, still walking, asking for peace of mind and help to forgive and move on.” I believe that is where healing began.

I started afresh, like a child – I went back to my church choir. I continued with my hobbies – crafting and all. I even learnt a new skill (product formulation from Eudokas Beauty Institute) and opened a natural hair care brand called Kuchi Kuchi – of course, I grew my nappy hair back, and by the way, it is long again. I decided to sing some songs I’ve always wanted to sing, hence my new EP, ‘Songs of Truth’ I decided to live again and by the help of God and with gratitude in my heart, I am living again.

With all what you went through, would you give love another chance?

God is love – nothing but love lives here. I know you are talking about marriage though. If God sends me my Boaz, why not? I will gladly, as I’m still young and ‘everything’ is in very good shape. On the flip side, I’m willing to stay single and celibate if God writes my script that way. Whichever way, I’ll do it with joy!

So, your new EP is gospel of gratitude to God?

‘Songs of Truth’ is made up of four songs I had written long before now – the youngest of the songs should be about 10 years old, while the oldest may be almost 30 years old. I had always wanted to sing gospel music straight up after Idols West Africa, but I was not confident in my choice – I felt I wasn’t “good” enough. Now, I know better – we can never be “good” enough. Also, I listened to others instead of what was in my heart. People advised I sang inspirational songs without adding “God” to it, so that it would sell. Since I wasn’t confident in the first place, I went along with the advice.

When I was having my son in 2016 – there was an emergency CS and I had an epiphany. In that epiphany, I remembered the gospel songs I had written, yet put away till “later” and I had a strong desire to sing them.

Finally, I have sung them and I’d like to use this opportunity to thank Spane5 Mixline, Jide Otutu of DC Akademy Filmz, Innocent Essien (Essino), Kemi Owa of B305 Media, Veentage Band Studio and everyone who helped me put together ‘Songs of Truth’ audios and music videos together. Producing songs, videos, etc cost money – I didn’t have the budget for ‘Songs of Truth,’ as I had other pressing responsibilities at hand, but God used these people to make ‘Songs of Truth’ a reality. I will say that “Songs of Truth” EP is a collection I’ve owed God and my generation for a long time – it becoming a reality is a show of mercy from God.

In specific, what are the titles of the songs?

Songs of Truth is made of “Seasons” (Don’t Give Up), “Goodness of the LORD”, “Psalm 27” and “All of My Days.” Of course, I didn’t write the lyrics to Psalm 27 – I simply added melody to the entire chapter in the Holy Bible. That is the one that should be about 30 years old – I remember singing to Psalm 27 using my little blue Gideons Bible.

Are you now a gospel or inspirational singer?

Sincerely, I’m not particular about how I’m referred to. I just hope I leave a godly impression in the hearts of anyone I (or my materials) come across.

Could you describe yourself in a few words?

I would like to borrow the popular Super Story quote “We are nothing but pencils in the hands of the Creator”. Ok… That just came to mind and it made me giggle.

On a serious note, I am a woman learning that everything I need is in the Holy Bible, so I am a helpless child, clinging to the laws of God. My life has become simpler because the blueprint has been spelled out plainly for me right from the beginning. I’m a God-dependent lady.

What other professions would you have practiced if you are not a musician?

A Visual Artist. I might still get back to it in the near future. For now, I’d like to stabilize my new natural hair care company.
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The Lord is your strength

These days one just have to put depression underneath the feet. Doubling nairas is the main thing.

Life battle is not for the weak but the courageous. We thank God you didn't commit suicide since it has become a chill pill for depressed Nigerians.

Welcome back madame.

People no longer want to walk through the difficult times of marriage, everyone now wants out when shit hits d fan.

The pure truth is there are loads of men going through similar situations. But for some reasons, they hardly come out to voice it. They rather keep it to themselves or share it among a couple of friends and that's it.

One thing we must learn to do is to know when it's time to cut that person loose and walk away. The signs are always there. But even after seeing there is nothing left to do and no where else to hide, some people still choose to hang on.


My point: Learn to put yourself first in everything.

BigBellyBurst:
The pure truth is there are loads of men going through similar situations. But for some reasons, they hardly come out to voice it. They rather keep it to themselves or share it among a couple of friends and that's it.

One thing we must learn to do is to know when it's time to cut that person loose and walk away. The signs are always there. But even after seeing there is nothing left to do and no where else to hide, some people still choose to hang on.


My point: Learn to put yourself first in everything.

that is self-fishness.


the world does not revolve around one person.

It will always end in tears...
mgtow guys mgtow

XXXXTENTACION:
that is self-fishness.


the world does not revolve around one person.

Bro, if u ain't selfish to an extent, to live in this world will be extremely difficult.

The song made me feel you had a perfect life.

Men, this world is shifted.

BigBellyBurst:

Bro, if u ain't selfish to an extent, to live in this world will be extremely difficult.

Totally wrong men


this type of mentality is mostly carried by poor, hate filled and broke people.

its certain you can't please everybody but at least you have to do your best to help people at times. The world does'nt revolve around you alone. Abobi learn to help and love people self-fishness ain't good. Imagine how the world would be if everybody decides to be selfish

Thank God she's pulling through,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement tho

What a Life.....

Baby kuchi kuchi was a bomb.....

Bigger than all Wizkid love songs till date...

XXXXTENTACION:
Totally wrong men


this type of mentality is mostly carried by poor, hate filled and broke people.

its certain you can't please everybody but at least you have to do your best to help people at times. The world does'nt revolve around you alone. Abobi learn to help and love people self-fishness ain't good. Imagine how the world would be if everybody decides to be selfish

Lol, let us just say I decided to try something new.

I have been laughed at, jeered at, and all sorts of hateful thing have been done to me because, I was too good to people. So I decided to be a little more selfish and it's paying off.

The Lord will straighten you

BigBellyBurst:


Lol, let us just say I decided to try something new.

I have been laughed at, jeered at, and all sorts of hateful thing have been done to me because, I was too good to people. So I decided to be a little more selfish and it's paying off.

That is a case of insecurities it's not whether you are good or bad life ain't fair to anybody. Am not saying you should not take care of yourself or love yourself.



like self-fishness is when you just focus too much on yourself, you become obsessed with yourself you don't even care about what happens to people around you. Its just me, me, me and me. You take, take, take, take and take you don't give at all.


think of all the great people you know and hear their name today do you think they would have achieved such greatness if all they did was to be selfish and spent 24hours thinking the world revolves around their piss and shit

XXXXTENTACION:
That is a case of insecurities. Am not saying you should not take care of yourself or love yourself.


like self-fishness is when you just focus too much on yourself, you become obsessed with yourself you don't even care about what happens to peopld around you. Its just me, me, me and me. You take, take, take you don't give at all.

No bro, not self obsession. It's about drawing a line.Of course I do care about people, but see ehn, it shouldn't be too much.

BigBellyBurst:


No bro, not self obsession. It's about drawing a line.Of course I do care about people, but see ehn, it shouldn't be too much.

Well too much of everything is bad.

in as much as you will love yourself you should also learn to love others too. Just try give it a balance

but becoming so obsessed with yourself that you don't even think or care about others thats the shit am talking about.

you just see yourself as the center of the world.

JustMichael:

Having self love doesn't mean you're bad, it means you regard yourself before anything else and that is very crucial. It is the favour any man can give himself. The guy is right. Let him be

Self love

what about selflessness

XXXXTENTACION:
Well too much of everything is bad.

in as much as you will love yourself you should also learn to love others too. Just try give it a balance

but becoming so obsessed with yourself that you don't even think or care about others thats the shit am talking about.

you just see yourself as the center of the world.

No brah...

But I pray it won't get to that.

Donspicey:
What a Life.....


Baby kuchi kuchi was a bomb.....


[s]Bigger than all Wizkid love songs till date...[/s]

BigBellyBurst:


No brah...

But I pray it won't get to that.

Na small small e dey take start.


i have a friend like that who was extremely selfish. He was very stingy. Even if this guy has 10 million he will not you give 1 naira. And at the end people don't like getting close to him and people don't like helping him at all due to his selfishness.


am not saying you should give out all your properties but at least you should learn to love and care for people at times. Sometimes people will not appreciate you but at least do you your best.



imagine how the world will look like if everybody decides to be selfish

Marriage is expensive

JustMichael:

Everything should be done in moderation. you teach people how to treat you or they treat you like trash. Self love is not giving yourself too much to people who don't deserve you. I'm sure that's one of the biggest lesson you've learnt last year - not being available to people every time

Well that whats differentiates you from a puppy

talking of moderation when do you draw the line

take note: not everybody will love and appreciate you even if you like give them the whole world.
but if you plan to love people because you want them to love you back my blooda you have a long journey.

JaneYave:
These days one just have to put depression underneath the feet. Doubling nairas is the main thing.

easy for u to say

Meet me later
Under the mango tree
Don’t keep me waiting
Under the mango tree

Jodie dey sing abeg.

Note: She didn’t say who divorced who. Or who broke who’s heart. Make feminists not come scatter this thread for us. This is new year.

XXXXTENTACION:
Well that whats differentiates you from a puppy

talking of moderation when do you draw the line

take note: not everybody will love and appreciate you even if you like give them the whole world.
but if you plan to love people because you want them to love you back my blooda you have a long journey.

There dey give you advice, you no wan hear word. Na your type people like to take advantage of well well.
Deputy Jesus

tarantino1:



There dey give you advice, you no wan hear world. Na your type people like to take advantage of well well.
Deputy Jesus

thanks brother solomon the wisest....