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Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 9:29am On Jan 03, 2021
For 25years I've never had sex with any girl. I can't say I'm a virgin because I do masturbate. This year I decided to change things. I hooked my guys up with the matter and they promise to arrange one for me.
She is a prostitute, ugly for me. Not romantic but my prick still manage to stand strong. I just decide to manage her because I have decided to do it no matter what.
Before we proceed to have sex I told her but she didn't believe me until I started. I don't even know how to start but she help with everything.
Almost 10mins I still can't ejaculate. My hips are now paining me.
She became angry and order me to stopped.
I feel ashamed and she noticed. She then started masturbating me with her hand still I refused to ejaculate. I begged her but she said her hand is already paining her. I felt for her.
I decided to help myself then. 1,2,3 boom I shoot out in less than a minute. I don't know if it's the condom that's blocking it.


Is it normal or will I get better at it if I keep doing it.
I don't want this to be an issue when I marry.

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by TaminaliaCatapa: 9:44am On Jan 03, 2021
Na too much masturbation cause am... don’t masturbate for a month and Bleep that lady again....she’ll get pregnant that same day

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by DropsMic(m): 9:47am On Jan 03, 2021
TaminaliaCatapa:
Na too much masturbation cause am... don’t masturbate for a month and Bleep that lady again....she’ll get pregnant that same day

Ignorance

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by DropsMic(m): 9:48am On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:

She is a prostitute, ugly for me.

This is your answer.. You don't have any problem

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by EzegeNdiigbo: 9:50am On Jan 03, 2021
G you're lucky oh Having dreaming of reaching to 5 minute and ya here making noise
My advice for u,, go get yourself Soulmate not sexworker then thank me later!!
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by TaminaliaCatapa: 9:52am On Jan 03, 2021
DropsMic:


Ignorance

An ignoramus tagging me as ignorant.. nawa o

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 9:58am On Jan 03, 2021
DropsMic:


This is your answer.. You don't have any problem
So it won't happen again if I see someone I really like
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 10:00am On Jan 03, 2021
EzegeNdiigbo:
G you're lucky oh
Having dreaming of reaching to 5 minute and ya here making noise

My advice for u,, go get yourself Soulmate not sexworker
then thank me later!!
At 5mins my hip is already worn out.. So painful.. sad..lucky I didn't faint

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by DropsMic(m): 10:06am On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:
So it won't happen again if I see someone I really like

It won't...
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by EzegeNdiigbo: 10:06am On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:
At 5mins my hip is already worn out.. So painful.. sad..lucky I didn't faint
The most reason why your hip is paining you is cuz na your time ok
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Dliquidmetal(m): 10:28am On Jan 03, 2021
Mastrubation makes sex boring to me,I just dey look people wey dey say them no dey last pass 5mins(hows that even possible) if I never Bleep reach 30mins I never even know am. No girl fit use me do shakara cause sex is overhyped and a waste of time and in most cases resources.

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by fati2001(m): 10:39am On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:
For 25years I've never had sex with any girl. I can't say I'm a virgin because I do masturbate. This year I decided to change things. I hooked my guys up with the matter and they promise to arrange one for me.
She is a prostitute, ugly for me. Not romantic but my prick still manage to stand strong. I just decide to manage her because I have decided to do it no matter what.
Before we proceed to have sex I told her but she didn't believe me until I started. I don't even know how to start but she help with everything.
Almost 10mins I still can't ejaculate. My hips are now paining me.
She became angry and order me to stopped.
I feel ashamed and she noticed. She then started masturbating me with her hand still I refused to ejaculate. I begged her but she said her hand is already paining her. I felt for her.
I decided to help myself then. 1,2,3 boom I shoot out in less than a minute. I don't know if it's the condom that's blocking it.


Is it normal or will I get better at it if I keep doing it.
I don't want this to be an issue when I marry.


lemme Jos lafu.

Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 10:40am On Jan 03, 2021
fati2001:



lemme Jos lafu.
This is a serious matter o..
At first I thought I have developed a serious medical condition
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by mosdii(m): 10:43am On Jan 03, 2021
congratulations
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by fati2001(m): 10:44am On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:
This is a serious matter o.. At first I thought I have developed a serious medical condition
Hmmm sorry..

HAPPY SUNDAY

if I may ask, why did you to so?
why not wait till marriage

Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 11:03am On Jan 03, 2021
fati2001:


Hmmm sorry..


HAPPY SUNDAY


if I may ask, why did you to so?

why not wait till marriage
Peer pressure, shame and I want to feel like other men.
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by mrdharkchild(m): 11:13am On Jan 03, 2021
5mins and your waist is already paining u.
U r just naive n curious.
U try to Sha phuvk ashawo, how do guys do that?
Bodies differ, understand your sex self. Masturbation and sex r 2 different things.

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by fati2001(m): 11:14am On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:
Peer pressure, shame and I want to feel like other men boys.



YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE LISTEN TO THOSE THINGS ESPECIALLY PEER PRESSURE..




SO NOW DO YOU WANT TO CONTINUE OR STOP?
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Brytesp(m): 12:26pm On Jan 03, 2021
I can relate with your pain bro... condoms gives you less sensation making it hard for you to reach orgasm
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by useIess2020: 2:24pm On Jan 03, 2021
TaminaliaCatapa:
Na too much masturbation cause am... don’t masturbate for a month and Bleep that lady again....she’ll get pregnant that same day
you're so right.
I also experienced it.
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by cooooooks(m): 2:30pm On Jan 03, 2021
You need to:
- break or change your masturbation
- a few experiences with a mutual interest over 2 days. You may not ejaculate on the first night.
- focus on the person you're with and not ejaculating.
- not use a cd, get tested first.
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 03, 2021
fati2001:




YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE LISTEN TO THOSE THINGS ESPECIALLY PEER PRESSURE..




SO NOW DO YOU WANT TO CONTINUE OR STOP?
I want to continue

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 03, 2021
useIess2020:
you're so right.
I also experienced it.
Is it still happening to you?
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jan 03, 2021
cooooooks:
You need to:
- break or change your masturbation
- a few experiences with a mutual interest over 2 days. You may not ejaculate on the first night.
- focus on the person you're with and not ejaculating.
- not use a cd, get tested first.
Nice advice.. Thanks man
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by useIess2020: 4:41pm On Jan 03, 2021
Venom2021:
Is it still happening to you?
it's even getting worse because I was still masturbating.
This mostly happens if you first ejaculated through masturbation and not through sex.
My first sex was through masturbation in 2007 and I never had any sexual encounter with any lady till 2016 and that's when I knew that masturbation has literally finished my life.
Last year I had a girlfriend and throughout all the five times I had sex with her I never for once ejaculated, she was even feeling bad cos it felt like she wasn't attractive enough.
For over 3 hours of non stop sex I'd still be thrusting but yet still I won't orgasm till she got frustrated.
The thing is that the palms that we use to pleasure our dick is tough and different from the vaginal wall that is so soft and our dick has been accustomed to the palms hence the vaginal wall becomes too soft and unpleasurable to the penis. Porn isn't even helping matters.
But this year I've turn a new leaf, quit masturbation and broke up all ungodly relationships, so I guess everything will fall back to it's proper place

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Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by drezzyx(m): 4:54pm On Jan 03, 2021
I can relate,If I use condom one hour plus we go still dey there before I shoot.
Infact d thing will just tire me.
That is y sex is no longer a priority for me.
Bro goan marry so u can be doing it raw.

My own opinion.
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jan 03, 2021
this is my prob...o
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by CandyOps(m): 6:35pm On Jan 03, 2021
useIess2020:
it'

till 2016 and that's when I knew that masturbation has literally finished my life.

The thing is that the palms that we use to pleasure our dick is tough and different from the vaginal wall that is so soft and our dick has been accustomed to the palms hence the vaginal wall becomes too soft and unpleasurable to the penis. Porn isn't even helping matters.
But this year I've turn a new leaf, quit masturbation and broke up all ungodly relationships, so I guess everything will fall back to it's proper place

You've said it all bro. What he has is called the Death Grip Syndrome. na that semen retention shit help me break away from logging into adult sites every night and jerking off. Before I no fit sleep without checking out some x videos. I been dey even pay for premium contents with dem.

but I just calm down go for like 3 weeks sabbatical leave. After that period my whole system reboot. na so I drop the habit

Xvideo na live sex oh but it's also very scripted and edited to the extent u won't believe.
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by falcon01: 8:00pm On Jan 03, 2021
fati2001:

Hmmm sorry..

HAPPY SUNDAY

if I may ask, why did you to so?
why not wait till marriage
wetin do you? why not now?
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by hmabdool(m): 10:08pm On Jan 03, 2021
Pls I have this experience even after marriage I find it difficult to ejaculate...I use to masturbate alot before I had my first sex What is the way out?
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Jeremani: 10:39pm On Jan 03, 2021
I thought to not ejaculate easily is an advantage.
Although I masturbate also, I nack okpo only once I ejaculated within 15minute. For complete two years have not x
Re: Help :I Can't Ejaculate During Sex by Nobody: 10:43pm On Jan 03, 2021
If you can’t ejaculate then meatculate angry

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