Katy86:


I respect his family, sure but I do not love everything what comes from Nigeria because I am together with one.

You can insert somebody else wie sagt man so schön, dass ist absolut unter meinem Niveau. 

PS I do not cook for him because of love, I cook for the children and he loves the food what I make and eat with us.
Cooking has nothing to do with love.

tpiah!:

Katy86 i'm sure you and your boyfriend can handle whatever issues you're bringing up here. If he likes let him go home if he likes let him not go home.  If you like cook for him, if you like dont cook for him. Why cant he eat german food anyway or doesnt he know he's in germany.

MzDarkSkin:

Although I do not support her views, Katy is just doing her job which is allowing Karma to work through her. No disrespect to you Naijangel or GenBuhari but there are SOME people on this thread and forum who disrespect foreigners and they must know what it feels like to be told 'you and your culture ain't squat!".  sorry!

tpiah!:

^^no, dont take my word for it.

as per your comment about somebody abusing nigerian women because they heard their nigerian booty calls doing that, you'd have a lot to learn from that movie.

however, of course you dont have to listen to anybody- just continue living your life in any manner you see fit.

Mrs.Chima:

It doesn't matter where she is dissing her baby daddy she is still expressing her dislikes about Nigerian culture regardless if she has children with him or not.  There are Nigerians who disses their own people with foreigners they are married to or dating.  For example, the guy that Katy is dating or have dated dissed Nigerian women and the country itself and he is Nigerian according to Katy. 

This is no different.  What goes around comes around. 

naijangel7:

Yeah it's all about being classy and basic self-respect 101, aint it? I can't imagine going online to bash my baby daddy and his family then logging off to go feed his kids and probably share a bed with him. Kinda really sick. It's a low self-esteem thing, like take it out on the computer but not be strong enough to take charge of your own life and all the while say "it's for the kids".

You may act like u support her but i doubt very much that u'd be doing the same thing if u were in her shoes. The funniest ish is she's whining but don't wanna let go of the dude. Freaking hilarious. There must be some truth to the Naija charisma/enigma afterall

tpiah!:

the point is she's disrespecting both her husband and her children.

her boyfriend's opinion of nigerians or anybody else has nothing to do with this.

Mrs.Chima:

I see you still mad at the German chick and not one time I said I support her.  I said it doesn't matter WHERE she is dissing her baby daddy she is STILL DISSING him.  And the Nigerian guy she had babies with dissed Nigeria/Nigerian women  so where do you think she is getting her information from? 

Exactly. 

naijangel7:

Mad? Not mad at her at all! why would i be? I don't even care if she disses Nigerian women. If she does so what? doesn't touch us. My point is the whining and bashing vs. the hold-tight-and-not-let-go. Anything as bad as the man she describes should be dropped like a bad habit. she didn't think he might give her AIDS when he came straight from Naija, instead she dropped him 2 kids in a wink. Now years later the love is sour and he's the stuff her nightmares are made of . Next thing she's here registering her disgust for the "lost country" and the family that birthed him. smh.

tpiah!:

it doesnt matter if he is disrespecting himself and his children.

she's the non-nigerian and she must have known nigeria was a third world country before she started sleeping with him and getting pregnant.

if his nigerianness didnt bother her enough to refuse his advances and his wetincall, then there's no justification now either.

Mrs.Chima:

So what do you want her to do?  

Mrs.Chima:

It doesn't matter if he is disrespecting himself or his children? Wow.

naijangel7:

I've already said what i think she should do but as part of it was in German you probably didn't understand it. I suggested she either stfu and stay on like she seems to be doing already and assume a measure of dignity, or take herself and more importantly, her kids out of all that negativity. Running to some obscure forum to vent your contempt and carrying on business as usual with such a bad man is, in my opinion, one of the worst lies anybody could live. I mean what exactly is her point on this thread now? She's not looking for solutions like didara86 and she's not proffering any either!

Mrs.Chima:

If you are going to tell her that she is wrong for her actions then you should be able to tell others that they are wrong as well.

IF we are going to judge one, we need to judge all. Regardless where they are from.

By: Katy86
No. I like Arab and Turkey food. I like to cook it too ( I try it   ) But Nigerian food 
Sorry but I can not taste it. I try it but I can not make the food inside my mouth. It will come out again 
The food what my boyfriend is cooking is,   fish with eyes, meat with big bones, soup like glue and 2 kg pepper, NO

Quoted by: Ms. Potato
As a woman, you must always try to find a way to yopur bf/husband's heart and one way to it is by food.

Replied by: Katy86
I do not think so

By: Katy86
I listen to the first three now.
Not my kind of music   Boring.
You can hear it but it do not touch me.

By: Katy86
They are a lot of Niogerians here! But the question is what kind of Nigerians?!
Most of them are drugdealers and real bitches. Should I force him to have contact with that people?
He do not want that again.  The one Nigerian friend of him was so helpful that he stole his phone and sell it.   That is why the contact broke up.

By: Katy86
My boyfriend is Edo. He himself always says that his language is not important. His children should speak englisch and thats enough to speak with his parents. All the other things arround let me think that i do not need to put effort in that issue. What I have to do with his parents?
I will never meet them and may be they are praying day and night that they son come back and live with them and bring Nigerian children to this world (i have a friend this happened to her. The parents show what they think about her).

By: Katy86
Oh you do not knwo my family 
My parents will never take money from their children even if they are totally down. We have had that problem before

By: Katy86
When I am in the situation I would not take a man from the US and have children there.

By: Katy86
I see the country as a lost country.
May be  I see everything to negative, but the whole world is lost.