Good day ma.
I have a friend who I met through my sister,
As time progressed,we became family friends and tend to flow along quite well.
We became very close friends due to the fact that our families tag along.
As time progressed, my long time platonic family friend began developing feelings for me.
He never really told me until the very day I went to their house without knowing no one was at home except him.
On getting there,he tried having carnal knowledge of me but,luck wasn't on his side anyway.
I suffered the heartbreak of nursing a betrayal from a friend alone and never told my family so as to maintain the already smooth inter family relationship. Lol
He apologized and told me he was on some form of drug which made him act that way and equally confessed that he truly have feelings for me.
Apology accepted but,I told him blatantly that I had no feelings for him.

The major problem now is that my ex friend is very much obsessed with me.
Once I cut him off from calling me with a particular number,he makes use of another line.
He is literally obsessed and vows that nothing can take me away from him.
I cried and begged him publicly with passers by all staring at me,just to pass the message of him staying away but,all to no avail.
I can't tell my family cause I'll look like a betrayer in the family and all the blames will surely be put on me.
I feel he's a threat to me cause he's seriously obsessed at this point.
Please,what should I do to make him stay away?


https://www.nairaland.com/6356327/how-avoid-him#97932210


Nairalanders,if you were in my shoes, how will you advice this young lady??

Ok

Please who knows the price of gold circle?
Today is my first time buying it and is like this woman cheat me.

Hmmmm

I cried and begged him publicly with passers by all staring at me,just to pass the message of him staying away but,all to no avail.

If only Adam knew..

StacyO:
Good day ma.
I have a friend who I met through my sister,
As time progressed,we became family friends and tend to flow along quite well.
We became very close friends due to the fact that our families tag along.
As time progressed, my long time platonic family friend began developing feelings for me.
He never really told me until the very day I went to their house without knowing no one was at home except him.
On getting there,he tried having carnal knowledge of me but,luck wasn't on his side anyway.
I suffered the heartbreak of nursing a betrayal from a friend alone and never told my family so as to maintain the already smooth inter family relationship. Lol
He apologized and told me he was on some form of drug which made him act that way and equally confessed that he truly have feelings for me.
Apology accepted but,I told him blatantly that I had no feelings for him.

The major problem now is that my ex friend is very much obsessed with me.
Once I cut him off from calling me with a particular number,he makes use of another line.
He is literally obsessed and vows that nothing can take me away from him.
I cried and begged him publicly with passers by all staring at me,just to pass the message of him staying away but,all to no avail.
I can't tell my family cause I'll look like a betrayer in the family and all the blames will surely be put on me.
I feel he's a threat to me cause he's seriously obsessed at this point.
Please,what should I do to make him stay away?


https://www.nairaland.com/6356327/how-avoid-him#97932210


Nairalanders,if you were in my shoes, how will you advice this young lady??

Block all his numbers
Then explain to your family that he is now obsessed.
They have to understand you

Harmony?

i dont think its obsession but mostly probably he wants to use u to count another score.its like he has betted with his friends that he can easily get u back into his bed and he"s counting to win that betting money by getting u into his bed one more time.
just be wary he doesnt rape u sha

A woman that lets a man very close should be ready to deal with this kind of issue. It's abnormal and unnatural for cat and mouse to be close pals.

Yea I know it's normal to keep friends across gender but there has to be limits and boundaries.

For attempting to have carnal knowledge of you as you put it means he is a potential rapist or that you never did set clear boundaries.

You used your hands to gather ant infested firewood so learn to deal with the lizards.

StacyO:



Nairalanders,if you were in my shoes, how will you advice this young lady??

I hope your friend prays? This what's done when you can't control outcomes, life responds to people based on what they carry I.e what is on you attracts what's around you. Its a difficult situation though.

Additionally find some nuggets here esp point number 2 so that she does not fall for such again
https://www.nairaland.com/6356078/balanced-living-system-making-life

I can't be in your shoe because am wearing canvas.

Stacy Dash with another banger.

Oi! Joachim...you see my weed wey I drop ontop shelf!

hmmmm, the situation wey you dey is very dangerous should I give you my address i wanna give you special advise because I advise people a lot ,



huh, he knacked you dat day , so sadden and hurtin' , i will advise you don't worry

JONSYN7154:
I can't be in your shoe because am wearing canvas.

CuteMike01:
You can try any of these

- Always demand for money
- Tell him you're pregnant for your boyfriend who is a soilder

Demand 4 money, hahahahaha. O b'oro je. Lol

Attention seeking

Mandela27:
Please who knows the price of gold circle?
Today is my first time buying it and is like this woman cheat me.

11.20 a.m this monday

baralatie:

11.20 a.m this monday

Gerrarayeh men

My Comment May Not Sound Pleasant To U. D Truth Is Dat He Doesn't Love U. D Guy U Are Dealing With Is Deadly Smart & Dangerous. It's Obvious Dat U Are Somehow Emotionally Attached To Him. U Are Not Sure Weda To Show Interest In Him Or Not. However, If U Want To Separate 4rm Him, Just Ignore Him Or Just Make Urself Unavailable.

lefulefu:
i dont think its obsession but mostly probably he wants to use u to count another score.its like he has betted with his friends that he can easily get u back into his bed and he"s counting to win that betting money by getting u into his bed one more time.
just be wary he doesnt rape u sha

Exactly how I explained it.

Block his number na, why is this hard?

How else can he see you except you go to his house?

By the way, how old are you? And him?

Truvel:
D My Comment May Not Sound Pleasant To U. D Truth Is Dat He Doesn't Love U. D Guy U Are Dealing With Is Deadly Smart & Dangerous. It's Obvious Dat U Are Somehow Emotionally Attached To Him. U Not Sure Weda To Show Interest In Him Or Not. However, If U Want To Separate 4rm Him, Just Ignore Him Or Just Make Urself Unavailable.

Exactly.

DIE

coming2america:
Block his number na, why is this hard?

How else can he see you except you go to his house?

By the way, how old are you? And him?

The problem is,if he is blocked from calling,he calls her with another line.

They should be in their late teens by now.

SILENTandSMART2:
hmmmm, the situation wey you dey is very dangerous should I give you my address i wanna give you special advise because I advise people a lot ,



huh, he knacked you dat day , so sadden and hurtin' , i will advise you don't worry

Silent and smart guy indeed.


Change that moniker.

I like some of your words though. Sometimes

StacyO:

Silent and smart guy indeed.


Change that moniker.

I like some of your words though. Sometimes

Nawa ooo , wetin i talk to deserve all this things bayii shey nah crime to advice you as human being ,


What i know is dat i am what my moniker says

Karamon nobe everytime we need to be making sense

All is well

SILENTandSMART2:




Nawa ooo , wetin i talk to deserve all this things bayii shey nah crime to advice you as human being ,


What i know is dat i am what my moniker says

Karamon nobe everytime we need to be making sense

All is well

Observing








The person who needs the advice has gotten it.

A BIG THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT GAVE THEIR HUMBLE OPINION.

StacyO:


Observing








The person who needs the advice has gotten it.

A BIG THANK YOU TO EVERYONE THAT GAVE THEIR HUMBLE OPINION.

Haaa, you dis girl you never sleep , you dey bomb or you dey club ?

Nawa oo

Moreover why are you tryin' to do as if you're not the person ? Are you okay sha ? You better thank god say him no use men power for you , you wey skinny

Hmmmm all is well

Lemme get a seat first.



Give your family a reason you can't be with him & I'm sure your family wouldn't want you get married to a drug lord.

And, be mindful of your visits ooo,,, we are still on Akwa Ibom Corper's case oo

SILENTandSMART2:



Haaa, you dis girl you never sleep , you dey bomb or you dey club ?

Nawa oo

Moreover why are you tryin' to do as if you're not the person ? Are you okay sha ? You better thank god say him no use men power for you , you wey skinny

Hmmmm all is well

Hmmmm

Why I typed that you're only silent,nothing smart going on there at all





It is well.