Op,
u are such a silly guy. Do u want to see his rod inside her b4 u knw dat something is going on? This is what happens when a dull boy dates a smart girl.
Instead of u investigating this your 'smart' babe,you should get another babe.
Imo it is impossible 4 a man and a woman to spend d night on d same bed and nothing happens. Unless d guy is díckless.

mrs chima,wht are u doing on nl by dis time of d night?

d bigrod:

Op,
u are such a silly guy. Do u want to see his rod inside her b4 u knw dat something is going on? This is what happens when a dull boy dates a smart girl.
Instead of u investigating this your 'smart' babe,you should get another babe.
Imo it is impossible 4 a man and a woman to spend d night on d same bed and nothing happens. Unless d guy is díckless.

mrs chima,wht are u doing on nl by dis time of d night?

Boo boo, it is 3 pm. I suggest you get a World Clock.

emmatok:

Who made you Mother of NL to start making threats. All your threats amounts to noting.

Just stay behind your keyboard jejely.

OK?

I suggest you do the same. I don't need to make cyber threats but I will handle my business if I have to.  Got it?  Good.

Now you gon sit down like a good boy who just been schooled and play in your league.

Mrs.Chima:

IF she is sleeping on another guy's bed doesn't mean she is bleeping him. That just like saying my woman bleeped another man because they were sharing some Tacos.

Maybe, not yet. But she will.
How can two naija adults of the opposite sex(not related) sleep in one bed?
Akwara adighi ama nwanne.

If that how YOU roll then that on you. Not everybody sleeps around.

Mrs.Chima:

If that how YOU roll then that on you. Not everybody sleeps around.

Yeah! Thats right. It's completely on me.
**mimics her crappy voice** ''Not everybody sleeps around''

Ah this is not fair guys. U've all pronounced her GUILTY. She may be telling the truth. Its possible to share a bed without doing it.

cantell:

Yeah! Thats right. It's completely on me.
**mimics her crappy voice** ''Not everybody sleeps around''

You will need to have good hearing to be able to know what my voice sound like deafie.

Glad that we can agree that it is completely on you. Now go burn some candles and pray for a quick way to kiss my ENTIRE arse.

Mrs.Chima:

You will need to have good hearing to be able to know what my voice sound like deafie.

Glad that we can agree that it is completely on you. Now go burn some candles and pray for a quick way to kiss my ENTIRE arse.

Wtf. . .Kiss your entire arse? Which arse are talkin u abt? The one you're praying desperately to have or an imaginary one?
Lets stick to reality here. Lepas are the same thing to monkeys when it comes to arse.

There's nothing wrong with 2 friends of the opposite s.ex sharing a bed. The only problem with the OP's story is the fact that she knows he has feelings for her and she seems to be leading him on. That being said if the you have a problem with your girlfriend doing that you have a right to let her know as you've already done. There's probably nothing else going on between them.

Mrs.Chima:

You will need to have good hearing to be able to know what my voice sound like deafie.

Glad that we can agree that it is completely on you. Now go burn some candles and pray for a quick way to kiss my ENTIRE arse.

I need to stay away from this girl!
She is gonna be di death of me from laughter!

cantell:

Wtf. . .Kiss your entire arse? Which arse are talkin u abt? The one you're praying desperately to have or an imaginary one?
Lets stick to reality here. Lepas are the same thing to monkeys when it comes to arse.

You are as wack as the blackberry babes. Take your lame arse to the SSI office and tell them I sent you. They will understand.

Op shine your eyes wella

Mrs.Chima:

You are as wack as the blackberry babes. Take your lame arse to the SSI office and tell them I sent you. They will understand.

If only chase were still alive, he would have whooped your crazy arse for stealing quotes from his book.

Mrs.Chima:

Here is another one.

cantell:

If only chase were still alive, he would have whooped your crazy arse for stealing quotes from his book.

If you EVER decided that you want to attempt the comedic business I will PAY you not to even consider it under no given circumstance even if you are hungry.

Some people just do not have it in them to be comedic.

Even a drug will not help you.

Mrs.Chima:

If you EVER decided that you want to attempt the comedic business I will PAY you not to even consider it under no given circumstance even if you are hungry.

Some people just do not have it in them to be comedic.

Even a drug will not help you.

If you think i was joking with you, sorry. You need it.
If i wanted to be comedic as you put it, i'll look for real people not some silly girl on Nl.
So long.

andromida:

I had a male friend like that. He would get into all sorts of scraps abt 12pm he would call his car dead and no kobo in his pocket.so he would sleep over in my place till day break.this happened severally we never had sex or even kissed or smooched.
I knew he had feelings for me but couldn't tell me so I tolerated him when I got into a rship I put a stop to his hanging around me.
Trust your gal and make sure dat guy never sleeps in her place again cos he wants her and she is being naïve.

How can i make sure dat d guy doesnt sleep there again? I have conveyed my feelings to her and she has assured me to work on it. But how can i be sure dat she wuld do the rite thing. I stil very much trust her and believe what she tells me. But dont see why she doesnt see it as being wrong havin a friend ((of d opposite sex) share d same bed wit her on 5 different occasions.

Untentable:

How can i make sure dat d guy doesnt sleep there again? I have conveyed my feelings to her and she has assured me to work on it. But how can i be sure dat she wuld do the rite thing. I stil very much trust her and believe what she tells me. But dont see why she doesnt see it as being wrong havin a friend ((of d opposite sex) share d same bed wit her on 5 different occasions.

You don't have to do anything.You have let your position known. If she does it again after all this, it either means she is an unrepentant cheat or she doesn't care about what you say or feel. Either ways she gets the boot.

That could be a signal
be wise!!!!!

ephsiba:

That could be a signal
be wise!!!!!

Ok

My brother. What is wrong with you? You are making me sad here. Can you please, for the love of God, break up with this woman?

You will only have unnecessary heartache and pain, the path you are going.

ekt_bear:

My brother. What is wrong with you? You are making me sad here. Can you please, for the love of God, break up with this woman?

You will only have unnecessary heartache and pain, the path you are going.

She has promised to change,

Let me start by telling you that I am happily married. In my journey from teenage to maraige i dated more than 500 girls and slept with at leat 350 of them before I quit. So, I am experience enough to advice on this subject.

This lady is taking you for a fool. She has been sleeping with the guy and if you are not careful, she give get pregnant for the guy if she is not already pregnant and force the pregnancy on you, that means you have a bastard as first born (God forbids). What is happening is the NYSC sexcapades. That is why I will forever say that NYSC should continue forever despite the killings so ladies and guys can continue having the one-year no-string attached intimacy.

My guy, I am sorry to say that you are a MUMU. Your girlfriend is cheating and informing you, then she is not sinning because she is letting you know that she is s.e.xing another dude.

smh

simpleseyi:

Let me start by telling you that I am happily married. In my journey from teenage to maraige i dated more than 500 girls and slept with at leat 350 of them before I quit. So, I am experience enough to advice on this subject.

This lady is taking you for a fool. She has been sleeping with the guy and if you are not careful, she give get pregnant for the guy if she is not already pregnant and force the pregnancy on you, that means you have a naughty person as first born (God forbids). What is happening is the NYSC sexcapades. That is why I will forever say that NYSC should continue forever despite the killings so ladies and guys can continue having the one-year no-string attached intimacy.

My guy, I am sorry to say that you are a MUMU. Your girlfriend is cheating and informing you, then she is not sinning because she is letting you know that she is s.e.xing another dude.

At the bold sentence.

OP don't break up with your girl. If you've talked to her and she has promised to stay away from the guy, so be it. But let her know you won't take such behaviour in the future. Cheers

Why are u guys tryin to revive this thread? Seems like the matter has long been taken care of.

tell her to make up her mind d guy has no girl either so u see is nt d guy fualt is ur girl problem anyway am nt saying it has happend but weda or nt just ask ur self wat u want

I'm sorry but that just sounds ridiculous.

Anyone that has half a brain knows that it is wrong and utterly disrespectful to sleep in a bed with anyone other than family and/or your significant other. What makes it worse is that her "friend" knows she's in a relationship yet still continues to sleep with her, and she continues to let him. I don't need a mountain of evidence to tell me anything, the act alone is enough to break up with her, or at least considering.