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What Exactly Does She Seek? by MetalJigsaw(m): 1:15am On Jan 23, 2021
I started running a barbing salon in her residence and we became casual friends. We either have short chat about a random topic or greet each other and continue with our business.


But few weeks later I started getting food items from her almost every day (bringing it to my shop each time she comes home to rest), as she works in her sister's canteen nearby. She actually started this with a sweet. And cash at one point.

She would reject anything I offer her in reciprocation. And this gets me impressed, perplexed and confused at the same time.

She started disclosing her personal experiences to me. Like downplaying a Yoruba guy she once dated in our street (before i started my salon in that area and how she regretted it- he constantly extorted money from her with one excuse or another)

This girl has been so kind and generous to me. And I doubt if I've met such a girl before.

I'm beginning to admire her even more than my girlfriend. This girl is fair in complexion and beautiful too. And she'd from my tribe too.
I tried wooing her on two occasions but she's either smile and walk away quickly or tell me I'm being funny. (Taking it as a joke)

I do see qualities in this girl that are non-existent in my current girlfriend, whom I find hardly trust. she's never even done a quarter of something similar to what this my 'friend' offers me so consistently for the past 3 weeks.

What do you think guys
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by uthlaw(m): 1:16am On Jan 23, 2021
she de look for husband!

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Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by Oluromantic: 1:24am On Jan 23, 2021
Not necessarily husband, but she needs a date. She already told you about a Yoruba guy and there'll be more, so remove your mind from marriage. But it's your time, food is set, Eat!

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Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by Sundrus: 1:45am On Jan 23, 2021
She need serious commitment... Na greenlight she dey pour u so. Just try to dey open to her & let her know say u get girlfriend, since una be casual friends.
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by MetalJigsaw(m): 6:03am On Jan 23, 2021
Sundrus:
She need serious commitment... Na greenlight she dey pour u so. Just try to dey open to her & let her know say u get girlfriend, since una be casual friends.
Thanks man. But I wouldn't mind dumping my current gf as this girl trumps her in almost everything.

She's almost like a,liability to me as she's almost always broke with no job for a long time now.
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by skliz: 6:08am On Jan 23, 2021
Date the new girl and compare. Sometimes ticking to one girl is something you regret.

Get closer to the new girl. She just might be better than your current GF. by the way let me tell you.
The act of not taking new girls out on date is stupid has a guy. Do you konw why ? Many of our girls friends still go out on date with new guys that ask for their number.
I bet if I woowed your current GF at your back she would give me her number.

So if a new girl shows up please take her out on a date and get to know her. I dont consider this cheating.

In my dictionary it is called finding the right woman. Cause the ladies always do this at our back. Even the so called good onces.

The bible says he who finds a wife has found a good thing. You can only find when you take multiple ladies out on date and make your selection.

Best Regards,
Friend.

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Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by emperorAY(m): 6:20am On Jan 23, 2021
you might want to give her a chance
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by Sundrus: 6:44am On Jan 23, 2021
MetalJigsaw:
Thanks man. But I wouldn't mind dumping my current gf as this girl trumps her in almost everything.

She's almost like a,liability to me as she's almost always broke with no job for a long time now.
the bolded na ur fault. Na how u take start ur relationship with woman na so e go take end. If u start ur relationship as guy wey go always provide everything for ur woman...until the relationship end u go always dey provide everything for her oh or else she go think say u no love her again or u don dey yansh another lady. But if u start in a way wey e be say she no need to depend on u for every little thing, nobody go tell her make she go look for work. Most times our actions na e dey define the kind of lady wey go end up with us.

Just dey careful sha & run ur matter well.

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Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by Mikester(m): 6:49am On Jan 23, 2021
Message for all - there's nothing like "just friends" with the opposite sex. A man or lady cannot remain just friends with the opposite sex. One will always want to take the relationship further.

So if your girlfriend has a "bestie", your wife/fiance have several male friends, your boyfriend/husband has "lady friends", then I've news for you...

Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by MetalJigsaw(m): 7:25pm On Jan 23, 2021
Sundrus:
the bolded na ur fault. Na how u take start ur relationship with woman na so e go take end. If u start ur relationship as guy wey go always provide everything for ur woman...until the relationship end u go always dey provide everything for her oh or else she go think say u no love her again or u don dey yansh another lady. But if u start in a way wey e be say she no need to depend on u for every little thing, nobody go tell her make she go look for work. Most times our actions na e dey define the kind of lady wey go end up with us.

Just dey careful sha & run ur matter well.
I appreciate man. Good speech
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by MetalJigsaw(m): 7:32pm On Jan 23, 2021
skliz:
Date the new girl and compare. Sometimes ticking to one girl is something you regret.

Get closer to the new girl. She just might be better than your current GF. by the way let me tell you.
The act of not taking new girls out on date is stupid has a guy. Do you konw why ? Many of our girls friends still go out on date with new guys that ask for their number.
I bet if I woowed your current GF at your back she would give me her number.

So if a new girl shows up please take her out on a date and get to know her. I dont consider this cheating.

In my dictionary it is called finding the right woman. Cause the ladies always do this at our back. Even the so called good onces.

The bible says he who finds a wife has found a good thing. You can only find when you take multiple ladies out on date and make your selection.

Best Regards,
Friend.
Thanks man
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by tobechi74: 8:04pm On Jan 23, 2021
She may want emotional support and short flings and not commitment
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by Ashirawealthy1(f): 8:31pm On Jan 23, 2021
U want to put your relationship to a halt coz you want free gifts and food, cash inclusive.
Yr life remain 2%, na trap you de enter small small.
You think something good and lasting comes so easy and free on a platter of gold abi, "the devil u know is better than the angel u dont know".
Ode
Oniranu
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by baralatie(m): 8:33pm On Jan 23, 2021
Face your shop o
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by MetalJigsaw(m): 10:32pm On Jan 23, 2021
Ashirawealthy1:
U want to put your relationship to a halt coz you want free gifts and food, cash inclusive.
Yr life remain 2%, na trap you de enter small small.
You think something good and lasting comes so easy and free on a platter of gold abi, "the devil u know is better than the angel u dont know".
Ode
Oniranu
you didnt have to insult me
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by Cholls(m): 12:03am On Jan 24, 2021
My brother your story reminds me of this song...'Don't it always seem to go,
that you don't know what you've got
'till it's gone...'

Jonie Mitchell
Re: What Exactly Does She Seek? by MetalJigsaw(m): 12:10am On Jan 24, 2021
Cholls:
My brother your story reminds me of this song...'Don't it always seem to go,
that you don't know what you've got
'till it's gone...'

Jonie Mitchell
what do you mean man

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