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Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by twilightsparkle: 8:28pm On Jan 31
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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:29pm On Jan 31
Too early pls. kiss

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by chatinent(m): 8:29pm On Jan 31
You may have to wait till you leave teenage years.


Statistics show people who marry below 20 are likely to divorce before five years.


And that's because they haven't discovered themselves.


Let's make marriage honourable before God.

We have to be physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially ready.


I can share you a book for free to guide you if you are truly ready for marriage.

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Henix(m): 8:31pm On Jan 31
18yrs can get married

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by merieam16(f): 8:32pm On Jan 31
She an adult so d answer is NO she is nt early


Go ask our mothers,dey got married very early
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Cholls(m): 8:34pm On Jan 31
My brother physically no, economically yes.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by illicit(m): 8:34pm On Jan 31
If the conditions are right....

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by chris259(m): 8:40pm On Jan 31
merieam16:
She an adult so d answer is NO she is nt early


Go ask our mothers,dey got married very early
Abi my sister!!.. i know a lot of people who married at the age of 19 even omotola jalade married at dat age... @Op its not too early at all as far as the girl is matured mentally and emotionally. Its perfectly okay.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jan 31
It depends on the lady. If she's ready and understands the duties and responsibilities expected of her, then no it's not.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by ojun50(m): 8:49pm On Jan 31
My dear age is Notting but if you want to enjoy marriage don't rush into it.....

At age 19, to 25 na to DE y give birth, train children, no time for connection between you and ur husband....love go reduce.....

In fact don't marry at 19
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by ojun50(m): 8:51pm On Jan 31
chris259:
Abi my sister!!.. i know a lot of people who married at the age of 19 even omotola jalade married at dat age... @Op its not too early at all as far as the girl is matured mentally and emotionally. Its perfectly okay.
If you know wetin omotola jalade face, she self no fit wish her daughters to marry at that age...
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Wyry: 8:52pm On Jan 31
Nigerian girls are useless.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Jesse6(m): 8:53pm On Jan 31
Except if the person is ready for emotional trauma
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by etrange: 8:54pm On Jan 31
merieam16:
She an adult so d answer is NO she is nt early


Go ask our mothers,dey got married very early



True... but this isn't then. Things are hard now and couples now pull resources together to sustain each. Asides from the fact that marrying such a kid puts the whole responsibility on the man (including physiological responsibilities), it is also not a secret that women tend to be less ambitious after marriage due to family responsibilities and societal expectations; a girl of that age hasn't even achieved anything for her ambitions to be cut short so abruptly. Again, teens are full of youthful exuberances due to hormonal factors, this is why we usually laugh at the things we considered important as teenagers. Now imagine making such a life changing decision at that phase of one's life. Chances of leaving the marriage years later are high.

Just my opinion though.

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Beastus(m): 9:10pm On Jan 31
The poster above me has forgotten that 19 is no longer a kid but now a woman capable of procreation and womanhood.

"Women tend to be less ambitious after marriage due to family responsibilities and societal expectations"


etrange:


...women tend to be less ambitious after marriage due to family responsibilities and societal expectations; ....

What a flatulent statement angry

This guy has just singlehandedly butt slapped the whole idea of feminism

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Weneda(m): 9:22pm On Jan 31
My mom married at the age of 18/19 while my dad was 26 then, though the only son in the family. My dear, generation of this days is something else. If she's mature to handle marital issues no prob

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 31
HRHQueenPhil:
Too early pls. kiss
No.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by SmellySperm(m): 9:40pm On Jan 31
HRHQueenPhil:
Too early pls. kiss
if she don dey collect preeqk at 19, then why too early?

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by TheVictim01(m): 9:42pm On Jan 31
Whoever you are, please wait till you're 30+
twilightsparkle:
Is nineteen yr old too early to marry??
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by BLOODYSPERM: 9:44pm On Jan 31
HRHQueenPhil:
Too early pls. kiss

Why
That's when she's at her peak beauty and fertility
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by sty1es: 9:44pm On Jan 31
chatinent:
You may have to wait till you leave teenage years.


Statistics show people who marry below 20 are likely to divorce before five years.


And that's because they haven't discovered themselves.


Let's make marriage honourable before God.

We have to be physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially ready.


I can share you a book for free to guide you if you are truly ready for marriage.
Send this book to giftemmanuel12@gmail.com thanks.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jan 31
twilightsparkle:
Is nineteen yr old too early to marry??

No she is not too early.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Jeon(m): 9:54pm On Jan 31
twilightsparkle:
Is nineteen yr old too early to marry??


YES,

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Sonnobax15(m): 9:56pm On Jan 31
shocked


The only advice I'd like to give to her if she were my sister is that--"Go to any newspaper vendor office and ask the vendor what's the value of a fresh newspaper compared to that of an old newspaper"..

That'll be her assignment..

But on a personal stand,na which kind experience 19years old girl don wey go make her reason marriage ?

At that age, she's supposed to be a ward under an older guardian whom she should be learning from....
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Draslo(m): 10:02pm On Jan 31
You guys are funny. A 19 year old can marry but in what circumstances? Let me explain.

If you head out to Europe for example, a 19 year old has the mentality of a 29 year old Nigerian female. They are very sexually active, they are gainfully employed even if they're schooling and they mostly are living alone away from their parents. Same in North America. You'd see a 19 year old entrepreneur worth hundreds of thousands of dollars with a business she started in high school or from acting or singing or even sports. These teens can marry but there's no saying how long the marriage will last because Oyinbo people are not exactly the most faithful bunch.
Here in Nigeria, marrying a 19 year old is marrying a huge liability. If her parents are comfortable enough to send her to the university and let's assume she finished high school at 16, she would still be in the university and no such parent will give out their daughter unless she got pregnant. In the case that her parents are part of the more than 150 million people living in poverty, they will give her out especially to someone who as a result of the marriage will lift the entire family out of poverty. The education of the siblings of the said teen would be the responsibility of the newly wedded husband as well as the well being of his new in-laws not mentioning the very many other baggage attached.
Marrying a 19 year old in 2021 anywhere in the world is legal and will mostly end in premium tears.

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Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Meedon: 10:04pm On Jan 31
Nigerian girls are awesome...
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by baralatie(m): 10:08pm On Jan 31
Henix:
18yrs can get married
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by twilightsparkle: 10:29pm On Jan 31
Draslo:
You guys are funny. A 19 year old can marry but in what circumstances? Let me explain.

If you head out to Europe for example, a 19 year old has the mentality of a 29 year old Nigerian female. They are very sexually active, they are gainfully employed even if they're schooling and they mostly are living alone away from their parents. Same in North America. You'd see a 19 year old entrepreneur worth hundreds of thousands of dollars with a business she started in high school or from acting or singing or even sports. These teens can marry but there's no saying how long the marriage will last because Oyinbo people are not exactly the most faithful bunch.
Here in Nigeria, marrying a 19 year old is marrying a huge liability. If her parents are comfortable enough to send her to the university and let's assume she finished high school at 16, she would still be in the university and no such parent will give out their daughter unless she got pregnant. In the case that her parents are part of the more than 150 million people living in poverty, they will give her out especially to someone who as a result of the marriage will lift the entire family out of poverty. The education of the siblings of the said teen would be the responsibility of the newly wedded husband as well as the well being of his new in-laws not mentioning the very many other baggage attached.
Marrying a 19 year old in 2021 anywhere in the world is legal and will mostly end in premium tears.
she's actually schooling n working
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by susy6999: 10:31pm On Jan 31
Wait till 24
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Aina1874: 10:41pm On Jan 31
If a girl says she wants to get married at 19 and she has a man capable of taking care of her why not. After all she becomes an adult at 18. It is better for her to marry than claim I am too small for marriage but will be neck deep into what married people should be doing.
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by Jodha(f): 10:43pm On Jan 31
If yhu rush in....yhu rush out...
Re: Is 19yr Old Lady Too Early To Marry by justosee: 10:58pm On Jan 31
chatinent:
You may have to wait till you leave teenage years.


Statistics show people who marry below 20 are likely to divorce before five years.


And that's because they haven't discovered themselves.


Let's make marriage honourable before God.

We have to be physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially ready.


I can share you a book for free to guide you if you are truly ready for marriage.
most of our parents who got married below the age of 20 are still married today.

those who got married late after exploring the world are more likely to run out of marriage.

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