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Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Nobody: 6:22pm On Feb 03, 2021
Patriarchy (rule by fathers) is a social system in which the male is the primary authority figure central to social organization and the central roles of political leadership, moral authority, and control of property, and where fathers hold authority over women and children. It implies the institutions of male rule and privilege, and entails female subordination.

Male privilege refers to the social theory which argues that men have unearned social, economic, and political advantages or rights that are granted to them solely on the basis of their sex, and which are usually denied to women.


Patriarchy is probably one of the biggest contention points of feminism today. Let me start by saying the difference between patriarchy and male privileges is that one(male privilege) is simply as a result of the other(patriarchy).

Here are some of the benefits of being born in a patriarchal society (some written by Peggy McIntosh):

1. Odds of being hired for a job, when competing against female applicants, are probably skewed in the man's favor. The more prestigious the job, the larger the odds are skewed.
2. He can be confident that his co-workers won’t think he got the job because of his sex – even though that might be true.
3. He is far less likely to face sexual harassment at work than his female co-workers are.
4. If he does the same task as a woman, and if the measurement is at all subjective, chances are people will think he did a better job.
5. The odds of being raped are relatively low.
6. If he chooses not to have children, his masculinity will not be called into question.
7. If he has children and provide primary care for them, he’ll be praised for extraordinary parenting if I’m even marginally competent.
8. If he has children and a career, no one will think he is selfish for not staying at home.
9. Chances are the male child was encouraged to be more active and outgoing than his sisters.
10. As a child, he could choose from an almost infinite variety of children’s media featuring positive, active, non-stereotyped heroes of his own sex. He never had to look for it; male protagonists were (and are) the default.
11. If he is careless with my driving it won’t be attributed to his sex.
12. Even if he sleeps with a lot of women, there is no chance that he would be seriously labeled a “slut,” nor is there any male counterpart to “slut-bashing.”
13. He does not have to worry about the message his wardrobe sends about his sexual availability.
14. If he’m not conventionally attractive, the disadvantages are relatively small and easy to ignore.
15. He can be loud with no fear of being called a shrew. He can be aggressive with no fear of being called a bitch.
16. His ability to make important decisions and his capability in general will never be questioned depending on what time of the month it is.
17. He will never be expected to change his name upon marriage or questioned if he doesn't change his name.
"My husband keeps his name and I keep mine – this is held as a statement of superiority on my part".
“Keeping my last name is emasculating” to a man, but the society never bothers to question how a woman might feel being asked to give up something that has been part of her since her birth". This is an example of a culture of male privilege — where a man’s position and feelings are placed above that of the woman’s in a way that is seen as normal, natural, and traditional.
18. Every major religion in the world is led primarily by people of the opposite sex(males). Even God, in most major religions, is pictured as male.
19. Most major religions argue that he should be the head of my household, while his wife and children should be subservient to me.
20. If he has children with his wife or girlfriend, and it turns out that one of them needs to make career sacrifices to raise the kids, chances are it will be assumed that the career sacrificed should be hers.
21. Complete strangers generally do not walk up to him on the street and tell him to “smile.”


What are your thoughts on the male privilege?? What are your thoughts on male vs female privileges?? What are your counter arguments
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Nobody: 6:33pm On Feb 03, 2021
Male have privilege in society ,so do females also, they are not drafted into war, they have paternity leaves,
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by kalu61(m): 6:57pm On Feb 03, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:
Male have privilege in society ,so do females also, they are not drafted into war, they have paternity leaves,
Very complex l must say because there are somethings l will not allow any f**king man subject my daughter to. Even though l believe the creator of the universe from his wisdom bestowed man that power over all creatures, gave him muscularity features, higher reasoning, boldness, leadership etc and there is rarely any religion, tribe or race that disagrees with that. l believe with the increasing awareness, the female gender shouldn't be treated as second class humans. Women should be encouraged to aspire to any height in the society but this privilege must not be abused or seen as power tussle which l detest some feminist like Sapphire ( who believes the future is female; one day women will take over the world).

With such mentality, it becomes difficult to argue for or against. lt now seems men are now under threat. But one thing l am very such of is this, history told me *The man will always determine the cause of the world at the war front. War is inevitable in man existence and woman has little chance to lead or survive such onslaught.

Even though l don't believe in the account of creation is Genesis, God created woman as a result of after thought and placed her under the man. The woman completes and compliments the man and will never be other wise.
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Nobody: 7:06pm On Feb 03, 2021
kalu61:
Very complex l must say because there are somethings l will not allow any f**king man subject my daughter to. Even though l believe the creator of the universe from his wisdom bestowed man that power over all creatures, gave him muscularity features, higher reasoning, boldness, leadership etc and there is rarely any religion, tribe or race that disagrees with that. l believe with the increasing awareness, the female gender shouldn't be treated as second class humans. Women should be encouraged to aspire to any height in the society but this privilege must not be abused or seen as power tussle which l detest some feminist like Sapphire ( who believes the future is female; one day women will take over the world).

With such mentality, it becomes difficult to argue for or against. lt now seems men are now under threat. But one thing l am very such of is this, history told me *The man will always determine the cause of the world at the war front. War is inevitable in man existence and woman has little chance to lead or survive such onslaught.


I agree with your points but I believe women should be second class citizens based on analysis from Progressivive societies like Norway, Denmark, Iceland where women have been elevated to high political,social positions via affirmative actions and quota policies, and women in these societies no longer marry, are single mothers , and no fathers in home affects the children, even great philosophers of old didn't believe in gender equality because it will lead to female supremacy

Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by kalu61(m): 7:20pm On Feb 03, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:



I agree with your points but I believe women should be second class citizens based on analysis from Progressivive societies like Norway, Denmark, Iceland where women have been elevated to high political,social positions via affirmative actions and quota policies, and women in these societies no longer marry, are single mothers , and no fathers in home affects the children, even great philosophers of old didn't believe in gender equality because it will lead to female supremacy
The world is big enough for experimenting. Underline affirmative action and quota polices!! Men gave them those privileges to aspire and l see nothing wrong with that. Of course any woman can decide to live her life as she likes, answer her midden name in marriage etc. A time comes when such society grows weaker and gets invaded, and taken over. Those counties you mentioned are very week that Shakau and boko haram can over run them in a month or any other patriarch.

A woman can be a queen and command armies doesn't mean that women in that society will be superior to their men.

So, l disagree with those philosophers.
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Nobody: 7:30pm On Feb 03, 2021
kalu61:
The world is big enough for experimenting. Underline affirmative action and quota polices!! Men gave them those privilege to aspire and l see nothing wrong with that. Of course any woman can decide to live her live as she likes. Answer her midden name in marriage etc. A times comes when such society grows weaker and gets invaded, and taken over. Those counties you mention are very week that Shakau and boko haram can over run them in a month or any other patriarch.

A woman can be a queen and command armies doesn't mean that women in that society will be superior to their men.

So, l disagree with those philosophers.

Egalitarianistic-Equalism is the new religion in such societies which idealistically believe women are fundamentally equal to men via social constructivism disregarding biological differences and using social conventions to optimize gynocentrism and Femcentrism in their culture

Women might lead men to war, but it's men that are the casualties of the war not the women as we have no female combat armies

Quota policies is favoritism over a particular sex , race, group over another because they held minority positions in a particular field , for effectiveness and efficiency, any gender Male or female must be employed into any position including position of power based on meritocracy and competency
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by AkuOlisa: 7:48pm On Feb 03, 2021
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kalu61:
The world is big enough for experimenting. Underline affirmative action and quota polices!! Men gave them those privilege to aspire and l see nothing wrong with that. Of course any woman can decide to live her live as she likes. Answer her midden name in marriage etc. A times comes when such society grows weaker and gets invaded, and taken over. Those counties you mention are very week that Shakau and boko haram can over run them in a month or any other patriarch.

A woman can be a queen and command armies doesn't mean that women in that society will be superior to their men.

So, l disagree with those philosophers.

In all honestly I personally think women will destroy this world.

Feminist are not fighting to be equal with men They Want to Dominate men both at home and at work place..

Feminist are fighting everything and everybody that God put in place for balance that is why most of them are frustrated and depressed.

Feminism is fighting God because They believe God made a mistake by making a woman a help mate to a man.

Feminism is fighting nature because they believe nature is wrong for making them the weaker sex.

Feminism is fighting MEN because they believe women are more sophisticated and Men should worship women....

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Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Sonnobax15(m): 7:51pm On Feb 03, 2021
shocked


"What a man go do,a woman can do better'--

That used to be the saying of women,not until redpill became free and available even to the reach of the most loyal SIMPS......

Though these points highlighted by the op are valids, but that doesn't mean men are more highly favored than a woman in the world of men..

Abi you no know say woman wey get fine face be like who dey do government work ?

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Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Liposure: 8:01pm On Feb 03, 2021
Women are the greatest beneficiary of patriachy imo. Since time immemorial men have been saddled with the responsibility of fending for his family while women assist at home. It was only recently (via the the advent of feminism and all that) that things started to change. Women started sharing responsibilities with their husbands in their respective homes. By getting empowered, women became competitive despite the limitations of patriachy

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Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Nobody: 8:08pm On Feb 03, 2021
Sonnobax15:
shocked


"What a man go do,a woman go better'--

That used to be the saying of women,not until redpill became free and available even to the reach of the most loyal SIMPS......

Though these points highlighted by the op are valids, but that doesn't mean men are more highly favored than a woman in the world of men..

Abi you no know say woman wey get fine face be like who dey do government work ?

They have beauty privilege
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by kalu61(m): 8:29pm On Feb 03, 2021
BLOODYSPERM:


Egalitarianistic-Equalism is the new religion in such societies which idealistically believe women are fundamentally equal to men via social constructivism disregarding biological differences and using social conventions to optimize gynocentrism and Femcentrism in their culture

Women might lead men to war, but it's men that are the casualties of the war not the women as we have no female combat armies

Quota policies is favoritism over a particular sex , race, group over another because they held minority positions in a particular field , for effectiveness and efficiency, any gender Male or female must be employed into any position including position of power based on meritocracy and competency
My advice to you is that, no amount of civilization or education will erase the place of man on Earth and his right as God and nature has made it. All those termed up there are not my concern. Even if a time comes when women become superior, there will be one man that will lead armies and conquer his territories and wipe put all SIMPS on his way and expand. Those Countries you mentioned earlier are at the mercy of US because Russia will come back to claim their territories. Only men fight war. A woman cannot handle the pyschology, courage of preparing and leading a war. Men are always rational and of higher reasoning. So, men will plot and execute the war while she maintain her stool.

I will not border myself because they will never be such time. You know why, you can't cheat nature.
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by kalu61(m): 8:39pm On Feb 03, 2021
AkuOlisa:
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In all honestly I personally think women will destroy this world.

Feminist are not fighting to be equal with men They Want to Dominate men both at home and at work place..

Feminist are fighting everything and everybody that God put in place for balance that is why most of them are frustrated and depressed.

Feminism is fighting God because They believe God made a mistake by making a woman a help mate to a man.

Feminism is fighting nature because they believe nature is wrong for making them the weaker sex.

Feminism is fighting MEN because they believe women are more sophisticated and Men should worship women....
Is the bitter feminist not the responsible ones that spills such trash.
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by Kiddogarcia(m): 8:43pm On Feb 03, 2021
The same patriarchy that seems to have favoured women since time immemorial, kept themselves safe and guarded during the time of war,same patriarchy that made them had easy landing during their childhood,same patraichy that gave the favourite tag among compatriots going up. These unsatisfied lot are now here to complain against it.as a person I would have really love a equal society, where men and woman are both subjected to the same treatment, same chores, same orientation and we will see who patriarchy has really favoured

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Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by AkuOlisa: 8:57pm On Feb 03, 2021
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kalu61:
Is the bitter feminist not the responsible ones that spills such trash.

Oga all feminist are the same.
As long as you are a feminist, you are against God Plan for humanity. You are also against Nature And against Man.

It is impossible to believe in God and the Natural way of human existence and still be a feminist. It's impossible.
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by AkuOlisa: 9:02pm On Feb 03, 2021
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Kiddogarcia:
The same patriarchy that seems to have favoured women since time immemorial, kept themselves safe and guarded during the time of war,same patriarchy that made them had easy landing during their childhood,same patraichy that gave the favourite tag among compatriots going up. These unsatisfied lot are now here to complain against it.as a person I would have really love a equal society, where men and woman are both subjected to the same treatment, same chores, same orientation and we will see who patriarchy has really favoured

Feminism is women plying the victim card while trying to eat their cake and still have it
Re: Analysis From A Feminist, Redpiller Let's Judge by anozie33146: 11:18pm On Feb 03, 2021
Male have privilege in society ,so do females also, they are not drafted into war, they have paternity leaves,

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