RisenPhoenix1:
Men possess the capacity to love but are not loved, because those around them do not possess that capacity. Even a man who has money is not loved...it's all pretence (if it was real love, he won't lose it when he loses his money).

Don't love anyone; especially women; just as they don't love you. Use them as they use you. You derive exclusive sex and children from them, they derive physical and financial protection from you. I think it's a fair enough trade as long as you negotiate the terms well.

You can make an exception for your kids. Kids can love their daddies; especially sons; but you have to start early before their mothers turn them against you and start the process of indoctrinating them into becoming their personal financial tools for the future period after you have become obsolete.

So you wife does not love you, and you don't love her, but you married her so you can bear kids, now that you have kids, you're making sure you nurture them to yourself early so your wife won't turn them against you by indoctrinating them to be her financial tool for the future period after you've become obsolete, right?

SmellySperm:

shey na secondary School gals u dey talk of

Na you know

JovialJune:



So you wife does not love you, and you don't love her, but you married her so you can bear kids, now that you have kids, you're making sure you nurture them to yourself early so your wife won't turn them against you by indoctrinating them to be her financial tool for the future period after you've become obsolete, right?

You are more or less correct. I have no illusions about life.

RisenPhoenix1:


You are more or less correct. I have no illusions about life.

Can you answer my questions truthfully?

Do you have any emotions left in you? Even if it's a little?

Why did you choose your wife out of all others if you don't love her?

Why do you want to marry another wife if you are very much aware of the nature of women?

JovialJune:



Can you answer my questions truthfully?

Do you have any emotions left in you? Even if it's a little?

Why did you choose your wife out of all others if you don't love her?

Why do you want to marry another wife if you are very much aware of the nature of women?

Ok. Just for you. And I see no reason to be untruthful. Lying comes from fear or from wanting some benefit. Neither is applicable on NL discussions.

I don't know what you mean by emotions. I feel disappointed, for example when I lose a business deal. I feel apprehensive/fearful when I see a commotion ahead on the highway while travelling. I feel angry when I'm disappointed or disobeyed. I love my kids and desire the best for them; even if it is to my disadvantage. I have friends and I like their company. I sometimes crave a certain food/drink or going off solo somewhere without distractions. All these are emotions, so I guess I'm not emotionless. I just don't love romantically anymore; not since I was a foolish teenager and started understanding what a big scam love was. Currently, I see any involvement with a woman as a purely business contract.

She has the basic criteria that I needed. No exes, willing to get an education (important to raise bright children), smart (good genes to hand down), well travelled when she was still with her parents (so open minded), sensible (she still doesn't waste money excessively on her looks or other frivolities), not religious (of course) and good looking. I knew she would be a good mother and had the basic blocks to make a better than average wife with the right training.

Marrying multiple wives actually should be only for those who understand the nature of women. Anyone else doing it is only importing problems into his home.

But I'm not marrying more women for love if that's what you think. Marrying more than one wife keeps all of them in line and makes the husband's life easier and longer (scientifically proven). Sex becomes better and comes more often as they compete for the man's attention. Also not to be overlooked, the lady I'm proposing to marry is the widow of a deceased close friend of mine. I feel that it would be an act of charity on my part and an honour to my deceased friend's memory to marry his widow and take care of his daughter. I don't know if she's interested in having more kids, but it's immaterial. I wouldn't mind either way.

RisenPhoenix1:


Ok. Just for you. And I see no reason to be untruthful. Lying comes from fear or from wanting some benefit. Neither is applicable on NL discussions.

I don't know what you mean by emotions. I feel disappointed, for example when I lose a business deal. I feel apprehensive/fearful when I see a commotion ahead on the highway while travelling. I feel angry when I'm disappointed or disobeyed. I love my kids and desire the best for them; even if it is to my disadvantage. I have friends and I like their company. I sometimes crave a certain food/drink or going off solo somewhere without distractions. All these are emotions, so I guess I'm not emotionless. I just don't love romantically anymore; not since I was a foolish teenager and started understanding what a big scam love was. Currently, I see any involvement with a woman as a purely business contract.

She has the basic criteria that I needed. No exes, willing to get an education (important to raise bright children), smart (good genes to hand down), well travelled when she was still with her parents (so open minded), sensible (she still doesn't waste money excessively on her looks or other frivolities), not religious (of course) and good looking. I knew she would be a good mother and had the basic blocks to make a better than average wife with the right training.

Marrying multiple wives actually should be only for those who understand the nature of women. Anyone else doing it is only importing problems into his home.

But I'm not marrying more women for love if that's what you think. Marrying more than one wife keeps all of them in line and makes the husband's life easier and longer (scientifically proven). Sex becomes better and comes more often as they compete for the man's attention. Also not to be overlooked, the lady I'm proposing to marry is the widow of a deceased close friend of mine. I feel that it would be an act of charity on my part and an honour to my deceased friend's memory to marry his widow and take care of his daughter. I don't know if she's interested in having more kids, but it's immaterial. I wouldn't mind either way.

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Two questions

Are you from a Muslim background?

Are you in your 40s?

JovialJune:



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Two questions

Are you from a Muslim background?

Are you in your 40s?

No. Well, I don't know beyond my grandfathers to be honest. How far back do you mean?

Not yet.

@risenphoenix1 so it's all basically for sex? Marrying more wives is basically just for sex? To what end? How many more wives will you marry before you're satisfied?

RisenPhoenix1:


No. Well, I don't know beyond my grandfathers to be honest. How far back do you mean?

Not yet.

Your immediate family/relatives/parents but okay.

You're not yet 40 and you reason like this? Good luck to you.

JovialJune:
@risenpheonix1 so it's all basically for sex? Marrying more wives is basically just for sex? To what end? How many more wives will you marry before you're satisfied?

Sex and children. What else is there?

I'm satisfied now, but who doesn't want more? Besides, scientifically speaking; polygamists live longer and more fulfilled lives. I can afford it. Why not?

JovialJune:



Your immediate family/relatives/parents but okay.

You're not yet 40 and you reason like this? Good luck to you.

Thank you.

Lucrativress:

Okay so the scenario you just wrote here is somehow
What were her intentions?
To marry him?
Or to just help him?
If you think the second doesn't happen,that is totally up to you.Good people seldom let their good deeds fly abroad
And yes that happens like once in a Blue Moon
There are still good girls loving genuinely out there, just like the men,some are not getting it back in return
The best is for the good guys to start locating the good girls and vice versa

It can't happen unless in nollywood movies

lefulefu:
Weda u broke or rich I guess ur mom has unconditional love for u
I guess ur dad also has unconditional love for u even wen broke
If this two ppl can love u irregardless of ur status then why fret over the love other ppl have for u

I will only agree with you,on the mothers part.

Not all fathers love unconditionally.

Arsenate:
Men shouldn't also freely give out their love to women. Treat them how they treat us. They love us conditionally for our resources, fine, we should also only love them conditionally for their beauty and youth. Once they lose those, men should unapologetically discard them and move to next young beauty because women would do the same when men lose their resources.

When you think deep, you will find women can't handle a quarter of what they do to men.

You dey spit Bars Bro..
Totally on point..

oluwaseyi0:


How does it apply to cats and dogs? What money does cat and dog makes that they are loved, even more than men

Replying a fool makes you one