the pros and cons of match making.usually if any of the two has the mindset that it is not worth it.it replicates in the other that he/she should not invest into it but create chaos at any given time.
therefore the aim of matchmaking is fruitless

Hello. Bad thinking. I think if you have such relationship problems, you should quit them. There are a lot of possibilities nowadays hot to find new partner for dating. For example I prefer to use dating sites for seniors to search mature women. It really works, just try!

Two people I don't advice. A man or woman in love.

it's a waste of time, because they'll certainly do the exact opposite of everything you advised them against.

I think you still love that guy, all these relationship thing no really make sense to me.