what's with the cat and mice game

just tell the girl how you feel or something

so you think setting a trap makes you a bigger person

>@OP, Trap or no trap what will be will be, women are like camelion, chanqin and chanqin, i will advice u just be yourself and stop talk abt dis "cheatinq thinq" & "trap thinq" pls lets give dis "cheat" a break mind u, dat ur rat trap can't catch "cheat" lol.
> Make i ask u, dat place wey u dey u no dey cheat ur babe? Uhmm.
>> action:"suckin orange & walkin away 4rm thread with slow motion"

You dont need to set a trap for her, Its a waste of time and very immature.

Its obvious you dont trust your girl at all, Why dont you see into that first (probably what could have caused the lack of trust and IF you can get over your insecurities)

I remember your thread on the weave too, I think you girl is still young and is not as serious-minded as you are with the relationship

@topic

Ppl still think lyk ds? Settin traps?
Wateva happened to communication and honesty
And u supposed to be getting married to ds person?

Lmao, Badddttt Guys

Lmao, Badddttt Guys

@190, , You don dey MADDTT abi, you first post on this thread was OMG Hilarious, My Sec. ran into my office when she heard my squeal in laughter,

> @Natty, u hvn't see anytin yet, dis is Nairaland 4u, fun, fun, all the way, As 4 190guy dat dude is xtremely crazy! Weneva i read his post, i'm like LWKMD,

I had a bf who thought i was cheating and confronted him about it when i wanst it. But i eventually ended up cheating because I knew that as there was no trust, the relationship was over anyways.

I hated being on my tiptoe and having to account for every thing to convince him i was cheating, so please be careful what you do o!

@OP, better to go home to an empty apartment everyday than to marry wit no trust/live with a companion regretfully. Marriage is not a do/die affair. It is one institution u must never go into with any pressures/walk on egg shells. If u're not sure u can trust her/that she is for u, then for sanity sake, don't go there. Remember: u're gonna live wit whoever u marry ALL THE DAYS OF UR LIFE. So if u marry poo, u gotta have to deal wit it and swallow it without complaining,cos no one forced u. So be wise & careful. Marry a woman ur heart will be at peace with & u'll have no reason to focus ur energies on 'tests'/'traps'. No other person can decide 4 u. Cos u WILL LIVE WITH either UR HEADACHE/BLESSING ALONE. U choose.

Besides, a woman that can blow up 80k brazillian whatever, dat is not even her sweat, & insists on having it? *lips sealed*. To be considered 4 a wife? <> , Ok, sometimes u men make mistakes in RELATIONSHIP when ur eyes re blinded, but when MARRIAGE is in de bargain? I don't think 9ja men have lost dia values, so u might be oyinbo. Lol. Mr man, u better not be one of those men that refuse to see clearly cos of 'investments' they think they have made. Anyways, enough said,

@Poster

I think you should focus on making your life better (and planning for your old age when you won't be able to work too hard anymore) rather than setting "traps" for a lady who's probably sleeping with my next door neighbor as i'm typing this. Be real with yourself. She is here, you are THERE! Do you think you're the only one who finds her attractive? Do you think she can continue to fight off every admirer that asks her out? Get real with yourself man. You're just causing yourself unnecessary heart ache. Focus on your life man. No woman on earth is worth all the nonsense you're putting yourself into.

Nuff said.

<> Thump up! U spoken well.

Is dat big guy picture 4 real?

tnx dudes and babes in da house. All noted.

u need not to set trap so u dont get traped or get the worse out of it. some trust issues cud be related to d distance relationship, u know not everyone can hand it especiall when one is not strong and mature enough to resist temptations.
BTW, hav u really dicovere urself if ur girl want u with or without ur money

poster

rather than setting a trap for your girl why dont you channel your time and resource into developping you life

yes you are right and i am the bastard dating her,now that you know what are you gonna do?pour me acid or shoot me? you beta dont try it.

>@Beync, so u just abadon me like dat, lonq time no post wetin happen abi admin ban u? Or ur bf set trap 4u, lol.

Quote form the Op: "had to travel out and set some of my guys to watch her. Now, am hearin that she has been behavin inapprioprately".

Thirst4Lif:

Doesn't sound like a trap is necessary. Sounds as though she's already been caught.

Exaclty man, you spoke my mind!

OP, dump her and move on. No need of wasting your energy in setting whatever trap since you where the one that made the Ist quote above!

Bros see, I go help you set this trap, free-of-charge. My uncle na original babalawo. He doesn't charge too much too - just N20 for kolanut and
lizard. . .plus your left testicle.

I swear to you, once him finish with you, you fit leave your babe go potokiri dey 1000 years and pesin no go touch your babe. Infact, every morning just go buy Sun Newspaper, na so-so "Randy Man Dies on-top Heavy g girlfrien" you go dey see so.

This one na guaranteed! Call my number if you're interested: 08031234567.

3RNEST:

>@Beync, so u just abadon me like dat, lonq time no post wetin happen abi admin ban u? Or your bf set trap 4u, lol.

how u dey?
dey no ban me, i'v been busy
Lol as for u, i don set trap for u already

> @Beync, trap 4me ke, see trap no dey catch eagle, i'm so fly "grin" BTW, u don see dat "7070" thread 4 sex section, dat thread na wa, LWKMD.
> (change 7 to T).

I rarely go there, but let me see wat u r talking about nw

> Ok myB, u sabi facebook? just try send blank mail to next2design(at)gmail.com, i go send u friend request.

@heavy g so you still f*******k up go give her that 80k? If ur woman spends 80k on her hair now i wonder how much she will spend on hairs when u finally marry her.

Dats y my own woman wants me so dearly, i don't give a damn. 2k hair or u 4get about it.

bros is ur GF a rat ?

Any luck with the catching, yet.