If sex was the prerequisite for a good relationship, then there wont be breakups or divorces

No matter, the sex and orgasm you give someone, at the end of the day, the relationship might end.

Most people spend all their time pleasing their partners sexual needs, trying to impress but at the end the relationships never works. This shows the fatal flaw of using sex to keep a relationship.

Why do couples divorce and why do relationships fall apart even after having mind blowing sex? this shows that to keep a relationship sex isn't the key to keep a relationship. Sex is not a guarantee that a relationship or a marriage will last, maybe there is something else that makes a relationship last but i know it is not sex.

Take a look at your life and try to reflect about the sex you gave to your ex gf and bf, the impression you tried to make when having sex, if sex was everything then why did the relationship crashed? Only you can answer.

Something powerful and greater than sex makes a relationship or marriage last, i know it is not God but something most people ignore, i think it is PERSONALITY, who knows but i believe relationship and marriage works well when 2 people with the same personality and goal work together to achieve a common goal.

Only slowpoke.s still think sex keeps or makes relationships work. People are wiser now and are kicking seriously against premarital sex though, many are still being deceived to believe in that crap.

#celibacyisbae

I am of the same opinion wit you the writer...it goes beyond it, tolerance and compactibility is key...u cnt keep a relationship wen u both ar on d same page in life

thebosstrevor1:
If sex was the prerequisite for a good relationship, then there wont be breakups or divorces

No matter, the sex and orgasm you give someone, at the end of the day, the relationship might end.

Most people spend all their time pleasing their partners sexual needs, trying to impress but at the end the relationships never works. This shows the fatal flaw of using sex to keep a relationship.

Why do couples divorce and why do relationships fall apart even after having mind blowing sex? this shows that to keep a relationship sex isn't the key to keep a relationship. Sex is not a guarantee that a relationship or a marriage will last, maybe there is something else that makes a relationship last but i know it is not sex.

Take a look at your life and try to reflect about the sex you gave to your ex gf and bf, the impression you tried to make when having sex, if sex was everything then why did the relationship crashed? Only you can answer.

Something powerful and greater than sex makes a relationship or marriage last, i know it is not God but something most people ignore, i think it is PERSONALITY, who knows but i believe relationship and marriage works well when 2 people with the same personality and goal work together to achieve a common goal.

great write up

True.

Also it takes more than empty pocket to keep a relationship

I agree

What most people (females especially) fail to realise is that sex actually destroys relationships. Cos once a guy is tired of a girl's body, he'll begining hunting for the next coochie. And vice versa.

Nazgul:
What most people (females especially) fail to realise is that sex actually destroys relationships. Cos once a guy is tired of a girl's body, he'll begining hunting for the next coochie. And vice versa.

Not all guys

Any relationship built on sex would die out because of sex. There is a fact that does not need to be proven.

It all depends on what they actually want. I have seen a relationship that is strictly just for the sex.

I'm not a fan of pre-marrital sex, if the foundation of the relationship is not of God's standards whether sex or no sex it is most likely to fail.Thank u