| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Nobody: 5:07pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
tinaprincess773:
I am a 25 year old girl and in a dilemma which has made me open an account on this platform to seek advice.
I started dating a 38 year old married man 3 years ago.
When we met I knew he was married and his wife and two kids live in Canada and really didn't want to be serious with the affair but as time went by this guy a gentleman that he is became so nice to me and showed me so much care and love and has been so committed to me as if I am his wife.
There is nothing I ask for in cash and material that he does not not give me just to see me happy as he also never ignored his family abroad.
He was always in touch with his wife and kids and obvious that he also loves them.
In summary,I fell in love with this guy and I am still in love with him that his relocation to his family to Canada has been so depressing for me that I cannot even feel anything for another man.
Even while we he was still in Nigeria,I did what I could to kill d feeling I have for him by dating another guy I was also intimate with and even when he found out,he was very broken and he overlooked it and still continued with me as he said he had no right to judge me as a married man and we still continued the affair.
Even after his relocation,he still keeps in touch with me regularly and even sends me money as he has always done and still shows concern for my welfare.
He told me some days ago that while he won't leave his marriage,he is very willing to marry me and sincerely that is my wish too but I feel so guilty and confused at d moment b'cos this is another woman"s husband but I just can't stop loving him.
He is such a rare guy to find.
Not the money he gives me but that love and care is unique.
I have read books and articles on how to forget an ex but I just can't stop loving him or forget him.
Please,I need advice in this regard. It's D Money. |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by JustCruise(m): 6:15pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
If you can be a second wife and know your position, then you have my blessing. |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:44pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
adexpa:
This is a deep reality. Majority of married men they date are just catching fun with them and because most of them are stable financially, they give the ladies unnecessary attention coupled with money, married men will not complain on their bad sides cus they don't need them for a wife, married men acts fake, they act like a perfect gentleman since they do not need the girls for a wife, and the girls will be carried away thinking that is how life is in the real Sense. It will be tough for them to date a guy that's still hustling cus the guy can never act like the married men michaelpop50:
OP, I've seen so many ladies who are in their 30s now but dated a married man when they were in the 20s just like you.
They all agreed that the married men ruined their love life. They are not able to love anyone again because the married men gave them too many unrealistic treatment and expectations.
You are doomed already. You will never be able to function properly again. Just find a way to leave this country.
These are very deep  But I think change is possible at any level, I think she should disconnect with the man and work on herself. |
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| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by frozen70(f): 7:36pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
tinaprincess773:
I am a 25 year old girl and in a dilemma which has made me open an account on this platform to seek advice.
I started dating a 38 year old married man 3 years ago.
When we met I knew he was married and his wife and two kids live in Canada and really didn't want to be serious with the affair but as time went by this guy a gentleman that he is became so nice to me and showed me so much care and love and has been so committed to me as if I am his wife.
There is nothing I ask for in cash and material that he does not not give me just to see me happy as he also never ignored his family abroad.
He was always in touch with his wife and kids and obvious that he also loves them.
In summary,I fell in love with this guy and I am still in love with him that his relocation to his family to Canada has been so depressing for me that I cannot even feel anything for another man.
Even while we he was still in Nigeria,I did what I could to kill d feeling I have for him by dating another guy I was also intimate with and even when he found out,he was very broken and he overlooked it and still continued with me as he said he had no right to judge me as a married man and we still continued the affair.
Even after his relocation,he still keeps in touch with me regularly and even sends me money as he has always done and still shows concern for my welfare.
He told me some days ago that while he won't leave his marriage,he is very willing to marry me and sincerely that is my wish too but I feel so guilty and confused at d moment b'cos this is another woman"s husband but I just can't stop loving him.
He is such a rare guy to find.
Not the money he gives me but that love and care is unique.
I have read books and articles on how to forget an ex but I just can't stop loving him or forget him.
Please,I need advice in this regard. It's a pity that you found True love in a married man's life its up to you to accept his proposal and move on with him Your happiness is your priority It's true that he us married, dating him was the first error, falling deeply in love was the second error. The only way out is to marry him, if that will guarantee you permanent happiness |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by adexpa(m): 7:47pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
michaelpop50:
They won't even be able to date a financially stable guy that is not married because the guy won't tolerate all the trash the married man tolerated. And they will be expecting the guy to lavish money on them which he won't do foolishly like the married man. You see those girls dating married men, they can hardly settle in life.
This OP own done baje You cracked my ribs with that your last word..(this op own done baje) Sincerely, I wouldn't Love to advice anyone who is actually dating a married man especially the type of op who knew that the man is married from day one, there's no doubt she went in for the money, care and attention. The man knows what he wants and by the time he is done he will leave her stranded. |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by adexpa(m): 7:59pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:
These are very deep
But I think change is possible at any level, I think she should disconnect with the man and work on herself. I can only say it's well cus we can not eat our cake and still want to have it, it's not possible. Her next relationship is going to be hell for the guy especially if the guy is not financially free, she will nag on everything. I will only advice girls to be careful and know what they want for themselves in life, women needs a lot of self discovery, self development, and value identification inorder to decipher what they should look for in a man. |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Nazgul: 8:08pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
frozen70:
It's a pity that you found True love in a married man's life its up to you to accept his proposal and move on with him
Your happiness is your priority
It's true that he us married, dating him was the first error, falling deeply in love was the second error.
The only way out is to marry him, if that will guarantee you permanent happiness Did you just type this, like seriously....her happiness is her priority? What happiness do you think she can derive from marrying another woman's husband? You girls won't cease to amaze me. Also, you probably didn't read and understand her post, she's the one in love not the man, the man is obviously using her to pass time cos he's family is abroad and he can afford to spend some money in order to access her coochie. She needed his money while he needed her body, it's was a beneficial friendship and has nothing to do with marriage. And to both you and the op, just know that krama is real, desiring your fellow woman's husband is so cool when he's showering you with love, care and gifts, but know that one day you'll eventually get married, and other younger and prettier girls will desire your husband as well when he starts showering them with love, care and gifts. When that day comes, don't complain. 2 Likes |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Diamond23(f): 8:10pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
tinaprincess773:
I am a 25 year old girl and in a dilemma which has made me open an account on this platform to seek advice.
I started dating a 38 year old married man 3 years ago.
When we met I knew he was married and his wife and two kids live in Canada and really didn't want to be serious with the affair but as time went by this guy a gentleman that he is became so nice to me and showed me so much care and love and has been so committed to me as if I am his wife.
There is nothing I ask for in cash and material that he does not not give me just to see me happy as he also never ignored his family abroad.
He was always in touch with his wife and kids and obvious that he also loves them.
In summary,I fell in love with this guy and I am still in love with him that his relocation to his family to Canada has been so depressing for me that I cannot even feel anything for another man.
Even while we he was still in Nigeria,I did what I could to kill d feeling I have for him by dating another guy I was also intimate with and even when he found out,he was very broken and he overlooked it and still continued with me as he said he had no right to judge me as a married man and we still continued the affair.
Even after his relocation,he still keeps in touch with me regularly and even sends me money as he has always done and still shows concern for my welfare.
He told me some days ago that while he won't leave his marriage,he is very willing to marry me and sincerely that is my wish too but I feel so guilty and confused at d moment b'cos this is another woman"s husband but I just can't stop loving him.
He is such a rare guy to find.
Not the money he gives me but that love and care is unique.
I have read books and articles on how to forget an ex but I just can't stop loving him or forget him.
Please,I need advice in this regard. Just a simple question..... If the money stop coming will u still luv him?
I think both of u r infatuated |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Innobee99(m): 8:13pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
SmellySperm:
op use part of the money he sends to you and do giveaway na..
if not,na like this ur case go be soon I dey ur back on top this mata |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by luminouz(m): 8:16pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
I stopped reading at 'not the money he gives me but the love and care bla bla bla'
Money's the sole reason for you being with him.
How do I know? You mentioned it yourself like 3 times.
You won't ever give a fuq about him if not for the money.
*Walks outta thread* |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:19pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
adexpa:
I can only say it's well cus we can not eat our cake and still want to have it, it's not possible. Her next relationship is going to be hell for the guy especially if the guy is not financially free, she will nag on everything.
I will only advice girls to be careful and know what they want for themselves in life, women needs a lot of self discovery, self development, and value identification inorder to decipher what they should look for in a man. Brilliantly said. |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by yinkaOdutuyo: 8:22pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless... All Of Them |
| Re: Dating A Married Man I Love And Need Advice by Nobody: 9:17pm On Feb 16, 2021 |
Innobee99:
I dey ur back on top this mata
lol no dey my back bros, follow come front jare |
