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Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by OnyeOlokoro(m): 3:49pm On Apr 08
Have u in any time during long distance relationship cheat and still remain with ur partner and possibly not revealing it to him or her.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by YoungLionken(m): 3:51pm On Apr 08
Yes I have,but didn't cheat...

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by SanctifiedSista(f): 3:53pm On Apr 08
Just ended things recently
I hate long distance relationship
The mistrust and lack of communication is so annoying

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:54pm On Apr 08
Won't try LDR. Will never feel like a relationship to me. It feels like being committed to an idea.

My number 1 love language is spending quality time together. A LDR makes that unattainable.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by ogashman(m): 3:54pm On Apr 08
long distance relationship is for those with low sexual libido.

if u have high sexual urge, pls don't try long distance relationship, because u must always be tempted to pour something somewhere when presented with the opportunity.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Drsnives(m): 3:54pm On Apr 08
I foresee ladies coming here to lie.
I foresee SIMPs coming to spill trash


This I have seen

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by GboyegaD(m): 3:55pm On Apr 08
No. My relationships were long distance. One ended because we grew apart and the other ended in marriage. I no dey do long distance marriage sha ooo.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Muhylonaire007: 3:55pm On Apr 08
Hmmmm
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by abolem369(m): 3:55pm On Apr 08
Long distance relationship is a no no for me
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by OnyeOlokoro(m): 3:55pm On Apr 08
SanctifiedSista:
Just ended things recently
I hate long distance relationship
The mistrust and communication is so annoying
I must say this is a huge problem to long distance relationship

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 3:55pm On Apr 08
Drsnives:
I foresee ladies coming here to lie.
I foresee SIMPs coming to spill trash


This I have seen
And to be honest, ma NIGGGA..

You're damn right, LDR is just another name for mistrust

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by SimplyFacts: 3:55pm On Apr 08
SanctifiedSista:
Just ended things recently
I hate long distance relationship
The mistrust and communication is so annoying

I hope this sister would tell us why she really had to end it. If we look into it well, POWER must have changed hands.

YoungLionken:
Yes I have,but didn't cheat...

Do you need help with the question

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Amarisco(f): 3:56pm On Apr 08
Been in two and never cheated.

Wont recommend it though unless it’s temporary or you were together before the distance.

Asides cheating, it puts a lot of strain.

And cheating can happen even if you’re in zero distance relationship let me just tell you now.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by olanreyman(m): 3:56pm On Apr 08
Long distance relationship often make your mind tells you your partner is probably somewhere fvcking and enjoying his or her life while you are here acting faithful. 90% long distance relationship na scam

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Munzy14(m): 3:57pm On Apr 08
Drsnives:
I foresee ladies coming here to lie. I foresee SIMPs coming to spill trash

This I have seen
fake falseprophet....grin

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by blesskewe(f): 3:57pm On Apr 08
Na patience be the deal

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by iamyemiakins(m): 3:57pm On Apr 08
So you want them to reveal the secrets here abi
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by toluleke(m): 3:57pm On Apr 08
Long distance is rubbish. I do it anyways but really just a waste of fund, then both parties are free to do things and hide them perfectly

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Agbo2(m): 3:57pm On Apr 08
See why you should keep some secrets here

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rBgmckwkHYU

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Durentt(m): 3:57pm On Apr 08
This is not FP worthy

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Holuwahphemy(m): 3:58pm On Apr 08
SanctifiedSista:
Just ended things recently
I hate long distance relationship
The mistrust and communication is so annoying

Lack of communication you meant?


Well, me and my baby reside in different states, we met during my undergrad days. I finished and moved back to Lagos, she stayed behind with her family. We remained friends for years, and started dating just a year ago. Infact, today is our first anniversary. Communication has been strong and we reconcile almost as immediately as we have our differences. The relationship is very healthy too. I trust her, because I feel it's the right thing to do and I believe she trusts me too.
No relationship is perfect, be it long distance or "short distance" relationship, understanding matters the most, and "love conquers all" kiss

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by b3llo(m): 3:58pm On Apr 08
People doing Long distance relationship are decieving themselves. Reason being that one of them is going to be cheating while the other will be sheepishly behaving.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by seunny4lif(m): 3:58pm On Apr 08
Long distance relationship worked for me
Now married with kids cool

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by blackarcher: 3:59pm On Apr 08
NOPE
Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Komu1048(m): 3:59pm On Apr 08
SanctifiedSista:
Just ended things recently
I hate long distance relationship
The mistrust and communication is so annoying


Mistrust from your part? The lady I'm getting married to soon, we've been dating for 5yrs now n only see each others once in a year. She's in abj while I'm in lagos. Distance relationship have been my thing right from time anyway. U Av time to focus on yourself and anytime you meet it's a if it shouldn't end

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by jericco1(m): 3:59pm On Apr 08
Will never do that shite again

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by humurphia(m): 4:00pm On Apr 08
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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by paulsibility(m): 4:00pm On Apr 08
In long distance relationship you need more of airtime & data than love..

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by SanctifiedSista(f): 4:02pm On Apr 08
Holuwahphemy:


Lack of communication you meant?
yes sir. Lack of communication

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Michelle55: 4:03pm On Apr 08
It worked for some while others didn't scale through.. LDR is not meant for those that gets controlled by the flesh easily..
Just have an open communication and be honest at all times and if you're both meant to be together, it would work out.

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Raymondj0: 4:04pm On Apr 08
One thing about long distance relationship is communication and communication, honestly it's not really that easy for me but I have to, I spent nothing less than 2k daily on call.. Just to keep the communication between us going, I call morning and night and I make sure I spent at least 1 hour on phone gisting about everything not to talk about online chatting when we're both free and that's been helping us going forward since we met each other some years back, and also trust. When you're in long distance relationship, you'll lose trust sometimes because you'll keep guessing why is she not picking up her calls and other stuff like that, but as the time goes by I keep trying to forget about such things, I just like her and trying everything possible to make it work out, but honestly it's not been that easy but if you really believe in it, you'll try everything possible to make it work out

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Re: Long Distance Relationship, How Secretive Are You by Inspiration007: 4:07pm On Apr 08
I'm currently in a long distance relationship (2 months now).

Where the train is going I don't even know, it's hard to trust girls these days, It's even harder if it's a long distance relationship.

I like the effort she's putting into it tho. Anything fit happen

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