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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 9:00pm On Feb 23
iRepNaija1:
Agreed with mostly everything until I got to number 14. Just like men don't want to be treated like children by their wives, wives do not want to be treated like children by their husbands. We as a people really need to step away from this fixation with having wives "who look up" to their husbands or husbands needing to "correct" wives when they make mistakes. The language is off-putting and it's weird infantilization.

Thanks Sir but you're saying women should be equal to their husbands in the home?
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 9:01pm On Feb 23
LikeAking:


Nope..

We live in a wicked world, for only the strong hearted.

Na the good dey die.

There is a tin line between been good and been foolish.

When you are good in this world as instructed by the society and religion.

You will surly become a victim.

The good people are always the victims.

This world bad, my guy.

A generation of monsters.


U are correct

I used to be good and use to be good up till now

But sometimes, I deliberately do bad, not evil bad o, or badly bad but minimum amount of bad so as to prove that I'm not stupid, I'm human not an angel

Lastly, why I sometimes do that is because pple that I do help don turn me to mumu

They tend to discuss amongst themselves that 'just go and meet him, he would say yes, he doesn't know how to say no'

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by BadRadio: 9:04pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


Just as I thought, it is pointless wasting my time conversing with you

u have a problem with " Nice one"¿ what's wrong with ur mentality?
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by slyfoxxjoe(m): 9:04pm On Feb 23
Dybala11:

Read through his write up again sir, it wasn't targeted at men in their 30s but rather those below 30
at any age, particularly such a young age as 21, you’re only qualified to give advice to those younger than you because you are yet to experience so much yourself. At 21 no ones opinions and world views are fully formed yet. I am nothing today like I was at 21 and that has a lot to do with my experiences over the years.

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by slyfoxxjoe(m): 9:07pm On Feb 23
Humanoid01:

No one is an island of knowledge. So many "old men" today don't know half of what the young ones know. You don't have to experience something to know it, people learn by personal experiences or others' experiences. So be humble and strive to learn from anyone, both young and old.
a 21 year old is not experienced enough to advice those in their 30’s. At that age your views and opinions are still very fluid because you are still transitioning from childhood to adulthood at that point. This same guy may not hold these same opinions in 5 years. If you doubt me, check back on him in 5 years from now and ask.

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 9:07pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


You've no points, evidence or logic to argue with so you come up with conspiracy theories against me? That is but a poor way to defend yourself.

By the way I didn't apologise.



One word "sarcasm"


Lovely, I wanted to defend u before, but upon seeing that u are a strong man with wisdom

I respect u more.

RESPECT
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by LikeAking: 9:08pm On Feb 23
hstar:

U are correct

I used to be good and use to be good up till now

But sometimes, I deliberately do bad, not evil bad o, or badly bad but minimum amount of bad so as to prove that I'm not stupid, I'm human not an angel

Lastly, why I sometimes do that is because pple that I do help don turn me to mumu

They tend to discuss amongst themselves that 'just go and meet him, he would say yes, he doesn't know how to say no'

some humans are terrible.
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by slyfoxxjoe(m): 9:10pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


Jesus taught the people in the temple at age 12, Samuel was called by God when he was little, Josh was the youngest king in the Bible so under what principle am I forbidden to advise people older than me?

you’re forgetting one small detail; Jesus was not an ordinary human. I think that makes a world of difference don’t you? How can you be comparing this random OP to Jesus Christ? Lmao.
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 9:11pm On Feb 23
theGUDgameR:
Life has no manual, am speaking from experience. I remember how I always advise my elder ones on step to take. When I reached their stage I realised life is unpredictable.
Pls, share ur experience

We wanna learn
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 9:12pm On Feb 23
hstar:

Lovely, I wanted to defend u before, but upon seeing that u are a strong man with wisdom

I respect u more.

RESPECT
Thanks Sir. Glad you see me that way. May you live the days of your life with congratulations
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by assinozick042(m): 9:16pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


I'm sorry if you think I said that post applied to everyone in life but don't worry, the advice will sure be of help to you

thanks man

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 9:27pm On Feb 23
slyfoxxjoe:
you’re forgetting one small detail; Jesus was not an ordinary human. I think that makes a world of difference don’t you? How can you be comparing this random OP to Jesus Christ? Lmao.


Lmao, cheesy.

Guy, I'm laughing at you not laughing with you.
Jesus is God and I'm not comparing myself to his supremacy. I'm only using him as an example - an example of someone young who imparted knowledge in the minds of people. Don't know where you got that your warped theory from.




I'm the OP
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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 9:29pm On Feb 23
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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by chimebuka90(m): 9:30pm On Feb 23
Very insightful, I appreciate your diligence and how thorough you approached every point, Thanks

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 9:44pm On Feb 23
chimebuka90:
Very insightful, I appreciate your diligence and how thorough you approached every point, Thanks

You're welcome, much love (no homo)
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 9:53pm On Feb 23
slyfoxxjoe:
a 21 year old is not experienced enough to advice those in their 30’s. At that age your views and opinions are still very fluid because you are still transitioning from childhood to adulthood at that point. This same guy may not hold these same opinions in 5 years. If you doubt me, check back on him in 5 years from now and ask.

We're all unique bro. I'm not an expert like I stated but I have an advice to give, an advice veritably true backed up with facts.

I'll advise you get rid of that delusion you're maintaining and you might find the sound advice that have always eluded you. Don't look down on anyone in life. No one knows everything but everyone knows something.
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:27pm On Feb 23
simplesearch:
Sincerely this post is not for every guy, but for guys who want to grow the God way and do his will. Guys who want to act right in life at all times, guys who want to recreate the Joseph pattern in this present muddy world of physical and spiritual recklessness, guys who want to stand out. This post is for them.
Truth
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:28pm On Feb 23
Liposure:
Meanwhile, the future is united
Don't let me call sapphire for you o angry
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:36pm On Feb 23
aprilwise:
Nice write up. I made a lot of mistakes in the woman aspect especially when I was in the university till today am still paying the price.
Ah shocked

Please share na

Let's learn from it, abeg
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by OyinO: 10:48pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


Ok sir but permit the question - how many men or women do you know who centred their energy on sex consistently having a successful life and how many men or women do you know that consistently centred their energy on crucial aspects that ended up unsuccessful in life?


There are porn stars in America who have made millions to become successful by being paid to act porn movies.
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 10:50pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


Very true. The sun is somewhere shining even when it rains. Failure is the key to success; each mistake teaches us something.

Bobo yi

Recommend me a book please

Confirm life changing book ni o

Bia, my life is not bad o

I just love learning new stuffs

because I'm a chronic reader

Oya, recommend one for me please
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 10:57pm On Feb 23
OyinO:


There are porn stars in America who have made millions to become successful by being paid to act porn movies.

Hmm, and how many pornstars are successful and aren't successful in your learned opinion? What is the presumed ratio round the world?

Or alternatively

Who have more unhealthy marriages - Virgins or Non - virgins?

- Can you term them successful?
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 10:58pm On Feb 23
hstar:
Bobo yi
Recommend me a book please
Confirm life changing book ni o
Bia, my life is not bad o
I just love learning new stuffs
because I'm a chronic reader
Oya, recommend one for me please
The Holy Bible
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by hstar: 11:47pm On Feb 23
Mikester:


The Holy Bible

Before nko?
I no dey read am, I'm not talking about divine or heavenly book


I'm talking about self development book
Plus motivational books
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by OyinO: 3:27am On Feb 24
Mikester:


Hmm, and how many pornstars are successful and aren't successful in your learned opinion? What is the presumed ratio round the world?

Or alternatively

Who have more unhealthy marriages - Virgins or Non - virgins?

- Can you term them successful?


marriage is not a success. In advanced societies, marriage is an option. And it seems you don't know what it means to be successful.
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by eagleonearth(m): 4:17am On Feb 24
Mikester:
Very funny

A man bought a house in 2013, next to his ex-wife just to install a giant middle finger statue so that she would see it everyday.



most of your points up there are real but don't say that "sex has no profits". It will be an insult to the originator. Simply say that premarital sex is dangerous. Sex has been medically established to be curative if done moderately and in marriage it's benefits make a long list.

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by iRepNaija1: 4:33am On Feb 24
Mikester:


Thanks Sir but you're saying women should be equal to their husbands in the home?


You and I may have different definitions of what equal means. Regardless, a couple should do what works for them and their marriage, whether it be a more traditional marriage or a more modern one. Traditional marriage or modern marriage, it's weird and condescending to be looking at or treating your wife, who is an adult, as a child.

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Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 5:35am On Feb 24
iRepNaija1:


You and I may have different definitions of what equal means. Regardless, a couple should do what works for them and their marriage, whether it be a more traditional marriage or a more modern one. Traditional marriage or modern marriage, it's weird and condescending to be looking at or treating your wife, who is an adult, as a child.

I never said "child".
Nevertheless, what is your own definition of equality in the home? Mind sharing?
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 5:45am On Feb 24
hstar:

Before nko?
I no dey read am, I'm not talking about divine or heavenly book


I'm talking about self development book
Plus motivational books

I don’t know any Sir nor any writer
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 5:47am On Feb 24
eagleonearth:
most of your points up there are real but don't say that "sex has no profits". It will be an insult to the originator. Simply say that premarital sex is dangerous. Sex has been medically established to be curative if done moderately and in marriage it's benefits make a long list.

Agreed, thanks for the correction
Re: Things Every Guy Should Know Before 30 by Mikester(m): 5:57am On Feb 24
OyinO:

marriage is not a success. In advanced societies, marriage is an option. And it seems you don't know what it means to be successful.

Success isn't strictly about being wealthy. Success is the achievement of one's life goals. If I have the goal of getting married and I eventually did with a good wife and wonderful children, I'm veritably successful. So I know what it means to be successful. Do you?

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