Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

She's obviously in control; which is abnormal since you are supposed to be the man. You seem like you are not mature enough to be in a lasting relationship; and even if she agrees (highly unlikely) and you end up marrying this one, your marriage will not be a happy one because you've already debased yourself in her view as a weak, easily manipulated floor mat; easily pulled around by the nose. No self respecting woman would be proud of dating such a man.

Find another girl.

Sleep dey my eye I go answer you later

Stop showing interest in her.

Just move on with your life. even if she later agrees she will be in control of the relationship

You are tooooo boring for her.

Wat u said about sleeping over, is not a joke to her. And truely is not a joke. U mean it. maybe bcox She didn't accept dax Y you changed it to a joke.

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

OP.. please refer here. Read this thread to the end.

https://www.nairaland.com/6423473/teach-how-get-girl-want

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

Also never appear weak/simple before any girl. You'll loose her.

Polynek:
Wat u said about sleeping over, is not a joke to her. And truely is not a joke. U mean it. maybe bcox She didn't accept dax Y you changed it to a joke.

I Somehow meant it. But not for sex sha

EASYGURU:



OP.. please refer here. Read this thread to the end.

https://www.nairaland.com/6423473/teach-how-get-girl-want

Ok

She doesn't like you. She only agreed for you because you were forcing her against her will. Relationship is a mutual thing meaning both of you must express feeling for one another before delving into it

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

she's not interested MOVE ON

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

so that you can have sex.

Explorerx:

I Somehow meant it. But not for sex sha

Exactly, now u said d Truth. But 4get U won nack dat girl asap. And she noticed it. U wud hv calmed down 1st

you have loose your seat of power. and it will never come to you again if you continue like this. you ask how to run are back. if only you can do it. just delete her contact abs never call her again. the table might turn but if it doesn't. just move on and find another.

you might thought you love someone not until you find someone else.

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

First things first, you need to learn the rudiments of passing off jokes. there are things you just don't joke about. now, you say you really love her, love isn't in a haste. it takes its time. I'm guessing that would be your first visit to her residence and you want to spend the night jokingly? and if she jokingly said yes, you would have jokingly spent the night and other things will jokingly ensue abi some guys sha... i like it when a girl's got principles and stick to them. You just gave yourself away jokingly.

Explorerx:

I Somehow meant it. But not for sex sha

lol! Dont mind her my brother,she didnt know dat u were coming to study d holy book with her and den serious night vigil.she has a negative mind.

KefeeBRIGHT91:



First things first, you need to learn the rudiments of passing off jokes. there are things you just don't joke about. now, you say you really love her, love isn't in a haste. it takes its time. I'm guessing that would be your first visit to her residence and you want to spend the night jokingly? and if she jokingly said yes, you would have jokingly spent the night and other things will jokingly ensue abi some guys sha... i like it when a girl's got principles and stick to them. You just gave yourself away jokingly.

Jokingly,op might be a virgin

RisenPhoenix1:


She's obviously in control; which is abnormal since you are supposed to be the man. You seem like you are not mature enough to be in a lasting relationship; and even if she agrees (highly unlikely) and you end up marrying this one, your marriage will not be a happy one because you've already debased yourself in her view as a weak, easily manipulated floor mat; easily pulled around by the nose. No self respecting woman would be proud of dating such a man.

Find another girl.

Lies!

She isn’t in any control...he’s only acting this way cos he never knack am.

We’d know who’s really in control after the first sex.

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

final year student, see your english

you say make we no mind your english, na yoruba you dey study ne?

SonOfAfonja:


Lies!

She isn’t in any control...he’s only acting this way cos he never knack am.

We’d know who’s really in control after the first sex.

And what gives you the impression that she's ever going to let him? The next step is to give him conditions like "no going near sex", "we can be like church brother and sister only"; while she'll keep him around to run errands for her. The only way he's ever going to smell her pant is if she pities him or he spends heavily. And he still will have to crawl on his knees begging for another episode once in six months. Forget it, he's never going to regain control over this one.

Newoldme:
Jokingly,op might be a virgin

It's not a crime na.

Op, be real to her. Don't do what you don't wanna do because of your crush (That's not you). This shit happened to me and I ended up in a girl's permanent friend zone. I promised myself that I won't join a certain society in my church but this girl invited me( just one time o) then Boom! I became a full member. If not that the girl na good person and I broke like bottle she for suck me dry.
Note I don't regret being her friend but I regret not considering my happiness before hers.

Be yourself so as not to confuse thunder wey wan strike you
No offence intended sha

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

You are giving him your balls already. Try and be a real nigga. Don't ask her out ,start acting like a bf already. But don't go and giver her your school fees o.. Hmm

This is the reason why I say nigerian men are stupid and useless �

Just 2weeks oo he is asking her if he can come over and stay the night
If he now come over he will start initiating sex..op is a mad man ,foolish bamboon.love at first sight indeed.

This guy just wanna have sex and nothing more

Kyase:



final year student, see your english

you say make we no mind your english, na yoruba you dey study ne?

The bottom line is that op successfully communicated

The fvck
Niggarr!!

Nawaooooo

You see why niggers are always poor? Instead of this mumu to focus and make money, he's searching for girl number on yearbook. X chromosome is absent!

Explorerx:
Good morning nairalanders, please I need your advice on this matter.
I am final year student in a south western university. There was a girl that recently move into our compound, she is the indoor and church type. To cut things short I got her number from our yearbook and messaged her anonymously till I revealed myself and messaged her that we should go on a date because I like her, and I wanted us to start something.
She agreed and we became somehow close though we were at different states due to an holiday.
After like about two weeks she messaged me that she don’t want to go out again, that she don’t like going out . She convinced me to start going to church(I was a non practicing muslim).
We resumed school for our clearance and we continue talking, went to her place twice and talked about many things. Then on this unfaithful day around 7pm I ask her if she was busy and she replied that she was somehow busy but I can come. I told her I can tomorrow but she said if I wanted to come I can come anytime. I then made a stupid joke if I can stay overnight. I clarified and apologized that it was a joke but ever since then she doesn’t reply my message like before and always ignore my call.
I later tried to bring the topic about the date but she said she never agreed that we should go on a date and she is not interested in me.
Please how can I get the girl back. I really love her, It is just killing me inside.
Don’t mind my English

I don't know how some guys reason
.. The girl is no longer feeling you ,you bleeped yourself up .
The red flag is already there but mba you want to tell us na you love pass.
Nonsense..
If the girl was really into you,that statement should have been regarded as being silly and taken on a light mode



What if she finally agrees and chop you run ,cheats on you and bleeps with your mental health ,you will still come here and join the retards on nairaland to abuse women.

Pegi23:
This is the reason why I say nigerian men are stupid and useless �

Just 2weeks oo he is asking her if he can come over and stay the night
If he now come over he will start initiating sex..op is a mad man ,foolish bamboon.love at first sight indeed.

they're dog's. later people like him will be painting the other gender black.