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My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by dre11(m): 10:15am On Feb 23
Police Shielding My Fiancé Who Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count ─ Lady

A young woman, Mary Sunday, has alleged that she was assaulted by Isaac Gbanwuan, her fiancé, who is also a policeman after discovering that he had a low sperm count a few weeks to our marriage.

Mary told SaharaReporters that her fiancé, Gbanwuan, was diagnosed with low sperm count a few weeks to their wedding, and thinking she would leave him, he beat her up and poured hot stew on her alongside a lit stove in the process.



She stated that though he had been placed on medications, Gbanwuan suspected every phone call she had was from an imaginary lover and accused her of having an affair with men around her, including her pastor.

She said, “He was diagnosed with zero sperm count and was placed on medication. He started suspecting every call that I had on my phone. He accused me of trying to run away because of his predicament. Everyone around me then, as long as you are a man, you must be going out with me. He called everyone, including my pastors, and accused them of having an affair with me.
“We already had our introduction, we were about to do our traditional marriage when I discovered he had the challenges.

“I threatened to leave him if he didn't adhere to the doctor's advice but I didn't mean it though. I just wanted him to take his prescription seriously.”


Narrating the incident that led to her deformation, Sunday said she had followed Gbanwuan to the hospital for his treatment and while coming back, she got a call from her aunt who was on her way to Lagos from Akwa Ibom State.

She said the language barrier between them and the long conversation she had with her aunt made Gbanwuan paranoid.

“Gbanwuan suspected that I was calling another man and had probably disclosed his medical condition to the person, that I couldn't talk to a fellow woman for such a lengthy period. Immediately we got home, he started beating me. He's from Benue State while I am from Akwa Ibom State, so he doesn't understand my language. I tried to convince him but he kept on beating me.

“When I couldn't bear the beating anymore, I decided to force myself out of his room and ran to his neighbour who was also his very good friend at Pedro Police Barracks, Shomolu. I went to her to seek refuge but Gbanwuan chased after me. She was in her kitchen cooking stew. I shouted for help and she quickly responded. She tried to stop Gbanwuan while I was hiding behind her; all the kicks and punches Gbanwuan threw at me landed on her body.”


Sunday said the neighbour got tired at a certain point and decided to leave the duo, especially as Gbanwuan continued warning the woman not to interfere in his family matters.

“I escaped into the kitchen when I saw she had left me to face Gbanwuan. Apparently, he overpowered me and had access to the kitchen. I shot the door. I tried to lock it from inside but couldn't as Gbanwuan was pushing it from outside. He came in, the lit stove with the stew that was on it, he dumped everything on my body. The stove exploded and I was on fire. I ran out of the kitchen in search of water. People downstairs saw me covered in flames and ran to my rescue. They poured water on me and rush me to the hospital.”

According to her, she was taken to Christiana Hospital, a private hospital I. Shomolu.

She said Gbanwuan only visited her to mock her. She said she spent about four months at Christiana Hospital and that her medical bills were paid by her family.

“Later, they dragged Gbanwuan to Pedro Police Barracks where the bill was split into two for my family and Gbanwuan. He signed an undertaking to pay in instalments. The doctor at the hospital paid part of the bill. Gbanwuan paid N90, 000, my family paid N140, 000 and the rest was paid by the doctor. The bill was around N300, 000.”

Mary said she was later transferred to the National Orthopaedic Hospital, Igbobi, Lagos, where she spent 6 months. She said Gbanwuan never visited her at the hospital nor paid the medical bill.

“Three stages of surgeries were done; I was later referred to India for reconstructive surgeries. My family paid the bills that were almost N2 million. I was discharged and referred to India for corrective surgeries.”

The survivor also alleged that while on admission at the orthopedic hospital, Gbanwuan sent a text message to her sister, telling her that Sunday could move on.

She said a few weeks later, her sister received videos and pictures of Gbanwuan's traditional marriage on her phone.

“He got married while I was still struggling in the hospital. My sister wanted to react but people advised her not to do so to avoid two people going down. In 2016, four years later, I lost my sister, my breadwinner. When I lost her, my world shut down, I didn't know where I was, I saw objects in twos. I was frustrated and started looking for ways to survive. I don't have parents. I have no one anymore. I called my lawyer, she offered me accommodation in Abeokuta so I relocated to Abeokuta in Ogun State.”

The distraught lady said she had consequently approached the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team at Alausa to get justice.

She said a letter was written to the Attorney General and former Lagos State Governor, Akinwunmi Ambode, and got an immediate response after which she was sent to India for surgeries.

“I did two stages out of three before coronavirus shut down the whole world. I still need to do more surgeries,” she said.

She, however, alleged that the police had refused to arrest Gbanwuan, whom she said had also failed to appear in court.

She said the police force has been shielding Gbanwuan since 2012 and that though he is on the list of officers to be prosecuted over police brutality following the #EndSARS protest, Gbanwuan is still serving and has not been arrested.

“The case is already in court but the police refused to produce him. Please, I want him to appear in court. They have been shielding him since 2012. He is number 3 on the list of officers to be prosecuted during #EndSARS protest. He is still serving. He has not been arrested,” she said.

According to her, the Director of Public Prosecutions in Lagos sent messages to the state police command twice, but no positive response followed them. She said petitions were also sent to the Inspector-General of Police by Lagos State, without a response.


A list of officers awaiting prosecution posted by the Lagos State governor

She also said the Lagos Police Command once sent a lawyer to court, who "promised to bring him to court on the next adjournment date, but both the lawyer and the policeman have failed to come till date"
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She said, "My way to get justice has been tough and narrow. My sister tried to get justice for me but couldn't as the police failed to produce him; lies upon lies were all we got from the police. So, my lawyer dragged the Federal Government to the ECOWAS court for failing to prosecute him. Till now, Nigeria Police Force still doesn’t want to bring him out.”

The verdict given by the judge at the ECOWAS court says, “IHRDA (The Institute for Human Rights and Development in Africa) and WARDC (Women Advocates Research and Documentation Centre) today, 17 May, 2018 have obtained a favourable judgment against Nigeria in the 'Mary Sunday' domestic violence case. Mary in 2012 was severely abused by her fiancé, a Nigerian Police Officer, which resulted in the deformation and incapacitation of the victim, as her fiancé, Corporal Gbanwuan Isaac beat her up and poured a pot of boiling stew on her, causing severe burns on her head and body. The complainants alleged the state’s failure to effectively investigate the incident, prosecute and punish the perpetrator of the violations. The Court found Nigeria in violation of Mary’s right to access to justice and right to have her cause heard; and has ordered Nigeria to pay Mary reparation of N50 million – about $138,000.” At

Mary said Gbanwuan was conspicuously absent eight consecutive times the court sat for a hearing and the next hearing date is March 1st.

The lady, who is a graduate of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka in Enugu State said she was gainfully employed before the incident but had opted to join the Nigeria Police Force before the incident.

She said had obtained the application form and started the process before the incident.

She said her dreams were cut short.

She lamented how she lost her fingerprint and a sweat gland which has made it difficult for her to take up a job.

She added: "I was still in the process of becoming a senior police officer when the calamity struck. The journey took me to meet with Afe Babalola, Mr. Caleb, former Minister of Police Affairs, and Mr. Pius, the Chairman, Police Service Commission, then. My dreams were cut short. I wrote the final exam in Abuja. I started in my state, from my state to Cross River State and finally to Abuja where final selections were made.

“I have lost my two pinnae (the external part of the ear), and fingerprint. My right ear can't hear sounds anymore. I also lost my sweat glance, I can't sweat anymore. Doctors said nothing can be done to restore it. It was completely damaged by the flame. I don't go to work. Even if I get a job, it will be difficult because of the heat. Eating a square meal a day remains a miracle. if I expose myself to the sun, I can collapse. I don't put on clothes for a long time. It has no remedy. It will remain like that till my last day on earth except a miracle happens.”

http://saharareporters.com/2021/02/22/police-shielding-my-fianc%C3%A9-who-poured-hot-stew-me-after-discovering-he-had-low-sperm

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Fahdiga(m): 10:20am On Feb 23
If this news is true then the policeman must be brought to justice but I hardly believe a one sided story more especially coming from a woman

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Eminimore: 10:43am On Feb 23
Those who read everything should please explain to me

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by 100trillion: 11:00am On Feb 23
Spoiler alert!!
Fake story!!

Btw, believe those gender that bend to piss at your peril.

most dangerous things (both living nd non living) on earth are the female species.

Nigeria girls are useless, all of them!

But 1 of them still thinks that the future is female.....but olorun maje!

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by NwaAmaikpe: 12:11pm On Feb 23
shocked


It breaks my heart each time I read tales of gloom caused by low sperm count.

Sometimes you don't blame these women for bringing in bastards because the pressure to produce kids is mostly on the woman.
And to think that most of the men at the forefront of the DNA campaign have low sperm counts too.

I turned down an offer to help an influential impotent friend impregnate his wife because she had acute Strabismus (crossed eyes or "anya 4-30" as my people will call it.)
The thought of shagging a woman and one of her eyes is looking into your face while the other one is looking at the door scared the erection from my preek.

People in that category can use the herbal therapy below that was given to my friend by my then native doctor.

Drink 4 shots Kolaqalagbo bitters mixed with Tigernut and Uziza leave juice every morning just before you wee.
Eat Ogbono soup and amala made from Irish potato skin peels in the afternoon.
Then soak your preek in a cup of raw oats for 40 minutes before you go to bed.

Finally, while having sex...try to hold back your semen when ejaculating so that it can build up but if you fail and it shoots out, collect every drop of it, add it to raw akamu and drink it.
Do this for 3 months and you'd notice your scrotum will get bigger.

I don't know if it really works because my friend found out his wife was 4 months' pregnant two months after he began this herbal therapy.

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Queenlovely(f): 12:19pm On Feb 23
Damm

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by futurerex: 12:19pm On Feb 23
Too long abeg

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by GOFRONT(m): 12:32pm On Feb 23
Drop it as it hot!!!
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Liposure: 12:39pm On Feb 23
But why? Why does these things continue to happen even after the dawn of civilisation? May god help us. Meanwhile, the future is united.

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by leo047: 12:41pm On Feb 23
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


It breaks my heart each time I read tales of gloom caused by low sperm count.

Sometimes you don't blame these women for bringing in bastards because the pressure to produce kids is mostly on the woman.
And to think that most of the men at the forefront of the DNA campaign have low sperm counts too.

I turned down an offer to help an influential impotent friend impregnate his wife because she had acute Strabismus (crossed eyes or "anya 4-30" as my people will call it.)
The thought of shagging a woman and one of her eyes is looking into your face while the other one is looking at the door scared the erection from my preek.

My then native doctor suggested the herbal therapy below.

Drink 4 shots Kolaqalagbo bitters mixed with Tigernut and Uziza leave juice every morning just before you wee.
Eat Ogbono soup and amala made from Irish potato skin peels in the afternoon.
Then soak your preek in a cup of raw oats for 40 minutes before you go to bed.

Finally, while having sex...try to hold back your semen when ejaculating so that it can build up.
Do this for 3 months and you'd notice your scrotum will get bigger.

I don't know if it really works because my friend found out his wife was 4 months pregnant two months after he began this herbal therapy.
clown

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by slawormiir: 12:52pm On Feb 23
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright.....
Just because of low sperm count......something that can easily be rectified

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Primusinterpares(m): 12:53pm On Feb 23
Too bad ...
Nor be her fault naaaaaa
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Lanre4uonly(m): 12:53pm On Feb 23
This is serious.
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by TalkTalkTwins(m): 12:53pm On Feb 23
Everyday bad news.
If someone is not cheating, another is maltreating her maid.
The other one is not wanting to see her mother inlaw, and yet another is traveling to UK with his children.

Be like marriage don cast embarassed
I pity the next generation shaa

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by AmazingELixir: 12:53pm On Feb 23
undecided

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by alizma: 12:54pm On Feb 23
Who tell am say e no get solution?

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by merits(m): 12:54pm On Feb 23
grin

Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by naijadrivablog: 12:54pm On Feb 23
Wahala.

You get big gbola wey de tear her puzzay and shift womb, they complain.

You get small PIPI, they complain,

You be one Minute man, they complain,

You be HORSE for bed, dem complain.

This women gender sha

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Yobii(m): 12:55pm On Feb 23
Booked
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Jestin: 12:55pm On Feb 23
Hot stew for that matter . Abeg the man na rice ?
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by ecomalchemist(m): 12:56pm On Feb 23
For all the men going through this kind of problem, here's a 1k recipe to kickstart your sperm cells back to life.


Thank me later, stay blessed.


Put 1/4 teaspoon of the following:

1. Garlic powder
2. Ginger powder
3. Turmeric powder
4. Black pepper
5. Cayenne pepper

6. 1 teaspoon of Ceylon Cinnamon powder
7. I tablespoon of Apple Cider Vinegar

Mix them in a cup with boiling hot water and leave it to simmer for 10 - 15 minutes

Once it has cooled down

8. Squeeze half lemon in it
9. Add a tablespoon of natural honey

Stir and drink up

It helps not just for your health but also for lasting long and reproductive health.

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by smartval(m): 12:56pm On Feb 23
embarassed
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Commonguy: 12:56pm On Feb 23
nawaooh e no pour better thing for him body sef
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by emmanuelbrown26: 12:56pm On Feb 23
Still selling both cracked and Uncracked Palm Kernel
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by BruncleZuma: 12:57pm On Feb 23
grin grin grin grin

He's not your fiancé

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Dexterfire: 12:57pm On Feb 23
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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by joseph1832(m): 12:58pm On Feb 23
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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by englishmart(m): 12:58pm On Feb 23
Too bad. Women are becoming too aggressive these days.

Nairaland-legend.

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Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by Funkybabee(f): 12:58pm On Feb 23
o ma ga ooooo
Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by tiswell(m): 12:58pm On Feb 23
Nothing we no go hear

Re: My Fiancé Poured Hot Stew On Me After Discovering He Had Low Sperm Count: Lady by emmanuel596(m): 12:58pm On Feb 23
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