I want to understand or have a deeper understanding of this, how can you give a lady what she needs on your own terms and not what she wants on her own terms

A wife or a lady?


It's only a wife you give her needs.

There's a big difference between wants and needs.

Wants are temporary things or issues that we need solved at that moment.

While needs are the permanent and those major things we require to live.


Let's use food here
Eating(food) is a need, because it is something continuous.


When you give your someone food,you're solving one of their needs.
When you get a lady artificial nails,you solving her wants in her own terms.




What am I typing?

Or,am I the only one who don't seem to understand op's question??

Very simple... If u don't want to follow her terms cos u think following her terms will make u look like a simp... What u will do is if she ask u for something let say money split it to 1/4or 1/2. For example she ask for 100k you give her 25 or 50, that's ur terms but if u give her all then that's her terms and she go mugulise u... The problem is that majority of them only know how to collect collect like offering bag. If she no want ur terms make she Waka pass... Dem plenty for town

Make I comment my reserve

chatinent:
A wife or a lady?


It's only a wife you give her needs.

A lady needs or wants
Which is better in your terms to accommodate

Dreadlock69:


A lady needs or wants
Which is better in your terms to accommodate

A little assistance to her needs.


No entitlement.

the question you should ask yourself is if you are born to serve a woman

chatinent:



A little assistance to her needs.


No entitlement.

Thanks bro that one point I need

HotPoundedYam:
the question you should ask yourself is if you are born to serve a woman

No

No one is an island we came here to learn from others views and mistake ,your advice may not be useful to me but could be to someone

[quote author=habsydiamond post=99479876]Very simple... If u don't want to follow her terms cos u think follow her terms will make u look like a simp...

Yes it always makes one look like a simp, sometimes you do it out of abundance or generosity then boom all they see is a zombie walking ATM

[quote author=Dreadlock69 post=99480834][/quote]very true.. Their brains na like clock... Na same thinking majority of them get... E come dey make me think say shey these people get association where dem dey do meetings.

Truthabulabula:


There's a big difference between wants and needs.

Wants are temporary things or issues that we need solved at that moment.

While needs are the permanent and those major things we require to live.


Let's use food here
Eating(food) is a need, because it is something continuous.


When you give your someone food,you're solving one of their needs.
When you get a lady artificial nails,you solving her wants in her own terms.




What am I typing?

Or,am I the only one who don't seem to understand op's question??

What if you assist her on her needs out of abundance and she makes it look like your a maga/mumu ,it will infuriate you not because of the money but how she views you

chatinent:



A little assistance to her needs.


No entitlement.

It's the foolish ladies that depend on you guys for their needs I blame.

Dreadlock69:
I want to understand or have a deeper understanding of this, how can you give a lady what she needs on your own terms and not what she wants on her own terms

Just Face Your Front