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Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by TheCongo2: 10:24pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
Mcslize: Ever since I realized you were not in the US nor Canada, I stop reading your posts on this thread 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by Mcslize: 11:31pm On Mar 14, 2021 |
TheCongo2: You don't need to read my posts before you realize most of the things you guys said in the other threads regarding people not having other people times in abroad are all lies. I hope you saw the thread I quoted all the list of those including you when someone who lives in Canada gave his experience. You were among those claiming people don't have others time. But what did you discover in the guy's experience? |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by IYANGBALI: 9:28pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
Abeg where person fit carry Olosho for Canada. Konji wan kee me for here o |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by neurosci: 9:49pm On Mar 16, 2021 |
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Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by morgang(m): 12:06am On Mar 17, 2021 |
I’ve been in the U.S for a couple of months now and I’ll tell you, if you don’t have a “thick” skin, you’ll be depressed. Forget how much you make! To make it worst, being a student with little or no stipends and tons of academic expectations! Well, I am an extrovert by nature- so I craved a niche for myself. Every weekend, I go to bars or clubs for a bottle of beer or shots. Sometimes I get lucky to meet folks offering to buy me drinks/shots and interested to know more about my culture- sometimes, I get loads of compliments on my dressings. Girls usually are just a bonus! I talk to some with little or no expectations. Well, I might want to improve my online dating profile and see how lucky I could be. A friend got two girls who casually asked him out on different occasions! Life here is really complex. Just do your thing and put your happiness first, the rest may come naturally. In essence, I see this place as a land of hustle, make the best out of it and go back home! You can frequent your visits here for vacations. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by neurosci: 12:39am On Mar 17, 2021 |
morgang: You are full of wisdom. What part of the US do you reside in? 2 Likes |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by 79733139(m): 10:26am On Mar 17, 2021 |
This is exactly in line with what I had written in all my comments. You are putting the effort to go out and meet people while paying attention to your appearance... nice!!! If you were going to more places (like sport clubs, beaches, etc) you would be meeting more people. Most of these guys and ladies lamenting are not really doing anything, yet they complain about chronic loneliness, oyinbo people and the culture over there. morgang: |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by haryomikun(m): 1:16pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Dybala11:You even have time to be replying the novice lol |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by jaxxy(m): 7:02pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
neurosci: Lol bt not every frown here is real o especially from the females most are fake frowns just like the fake smiles u get up there. It’s human behavior and sense of courtesy and decency I think. Or u think the gals who don’t know u Bt already frowning hate ur ass? Speak her love language which sadly is money for most and see her put on the fake smile too bro. It’s worse here. Atleast there u know it’s the culture until u know its false or neutral or real. |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by jaxxy(m): 8:06pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
otipoju: I think it’s more about mentality and how good u are with adapting quickly to new environments and social systems. Not everyone in Nigeria has the Nigerian mentality some have a more universal mentality and some adapt quite quickly also. Some have not just better people skills bt psychological skills. This coupled with other factors like personality, social intelligence and many social skills makes it easy for some than others even when it’s generally difficult and even unfriendly. |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by otipoju(m): 8:26pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
jaxxy: This is deeper than that. You can adapt when people are open minded...but when they are not,its a different story altogether. Its stereotypes bro. Once you have a foreign looking name or accent, its double work for you. You can be giving brilliant ideas and it will be as if you are speaking to a wall. Even African kids that were born here face the same thing. And the discrimination is extremely common among african Americans |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by jaxxy(m): 8:37pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
otipoju: I know about the racism which there is little or nothing one can do about it especially in certain parts or environment where it still thrives bt as regards to social culture and patterns things can vary depending on many Factors available. |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by otipoju(m): 9:23pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
jaxxy: No wahala. Thank God sey i no fall from heaven. I know my roots and i am proud of them. Friendship no be by force. |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by NoLotty7(m): 1:03am On Nov 27, 2021 |
I wrote a topic about this loneliness after gotten out of Nigeria before but couldn't got much views. |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by NewDelhi(m): 5:02pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Cocao: |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by RodgersAkpafu: 5:15pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
flokii:Well... If we did not have hordes of people cheering on certified failures like Buhari as our leaders Maybe Nigeria would have been a better place |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by RodgersAkpafu: 5:49pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
79733139:Interesting |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by RodgersAkpafu: 6:06pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
Childofthelord:Damn Imagine this This must be very painful 1 Like |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by Bifwoli: 6:39pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
flokii:All lies and toxic trash. What about all the high stress of Lagos,the filthy streets,the poor housing ,the lack of jobs,insecurity ,the agberos and no 24/7 light? And besides,there's very cold places in Africa too. |
Re: How Nigerians Abroad Complain About Loneliness Amazes Me by RodgersAkpafu: 2:39am On Feb 19 |
neurosci: Depends on WHERE you meet them |
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