Klass99:


Cheers to you too. Please tell me you are not an unbeliever!

OBelz:
I stayed in Europe for 10yrs and it changed my Nigeria mentality.

Liposure:
No wonder. Westernisation really shaped you.

Klass99:


You just described me and I love dogs too, but do not have one yet. I am also certain we are not neighbours.

Believe it or not, there are women like me and her, who do not have that maternal desire at all, it's not pretence, it's not spiritual, it's not feminism and it's not medical or health related either. We just do not desire children.

To answer your question/topic of the thread - marriage and children are life choices, not goals or achievements we all have to meet in order to unlock happiness or the adult phase of our lives. I saw this on NL some time ago and I absolutely agreed with it then and still do.

Klass99:


You just described me and I love dogs too, but do not have one yet. I am also certain we are not neighbours.

Believe it or not, there are women like me and her, who do not have that maternal desire at all, it's not pretence, it's not spiritual, it's not feminism and it's not medical or health related either. We just do not desire children
To answer your question/topic of the thread - marriage and children are life choices, not goals or achievements we all have to meet in order to unlock happiness or the adult phase of our lives. I saw this on NL some time ago and I absolutely agreed with it then and still do.

cococandy:
which word in that sentence means marriage?

larryjonze:




thou shall not fornicate
thou shall not commit adultery
somewhere in the bible it says if you can't hold body go n marry (not d actual words)
a child out of wedlock was even referred to as a bastard

If all these put together does not compel people to marry or enforce marriage then what else can it mean.

kodix:
Marriage is nothing, is not even awesome or good as thought, the most important things is to have children xo that you see who will help you when you're old.

LauraClasikVibe:
Somewhere in the bible?! You are a church goer

Klass99:


Poco I am making the primary list. From the way you're sounding you will neither be on the primary nor supplementary list. Yeye girl

Klass99:


Thanks sweetheart I am flattered and this is the only thing in your post I'm interested in. Mwah

larryjonze:




Don't mind me its bin awhile ... you sha have an idea of what am saying understanding confirmed

Klass99:


Lol your yeye dey boom. Pls tag along with Christ Jesus and not me.

It's too early in the day to be drinking nah and I don't do alcohol. My sweet tooth can't stand the taste of it. Buy me ice cream instead

Posts:
Yes it's compulsory if you want to have a peaceful and reasonable life

edoairways:

It isn't. Most persons are not happy with their marriages. Some regretted getting married

milann:
but you meet them they tell you they re happily married

edoairways:

Na cover up

Victoria938:
No but it's necessary

milann:
well, if i ever married, its going to be becos of old age like they say. Sebi na to born pikin

cococandy:
I would argue that it’s feminist to live the life you (as a woman) want on your own terms.

Before feminism, dads collectively decided for you when and to whom you could get married to. Your mom usually has little say in the matter. And you definitely had no say.

Daughters were for father’s economic gain.
You couldn’t decide if you wanted to pause marriage and obtain a degree first.
If your marriage would expand your father’s empire today, then you’re getting married today. No if’s and buts.

So love, the right to not get married if you don’t want to, is feminist AF. And we all love it . That ability to make that choice for yourself.

Liposure:
No wonder. Westernisation really shaped you.

PeaceIlya:
So,has Nigeria shaped you?

Liposure:
i'm already shaped

PeaceIlya:

PeaceIlya:
There’s a woman in my COMPOUND, she’s 33 and insists she doesn’t want children because she has “no maternal desires.”

She got a puppy, has birthday parties for the dog, claims the dog experiences child phases, and cooks meals for the dog every day.

Gonna be sad when the dog dies.

OBelz:
What they call believers in Nigeria are bunch of hypocrites