So women most times initiate a breakup, from a friendship or relationship.

The Basic truth is she had broken up with you wordlessly (emotionally) before actually saying anything. You were O.Y.O abi you are O.Y.O!

You didn't see it coming and so you're SHOCKED and that SHOCK will make it hard for you to move on months or years later. Another thing is your ego which concludes that it failed to satisfy her and thus you seek to fill whatever gaps you ignored. You could also be angry at the fact that replacements are waiting in line or that you're losing an asset you invested in or...

Now, how to start moving on...
1. OPEN YOUR emotional EYES to see when she's pulling away or when she pulled away. Start preparing for the breakaway or initiate it yourself.

2. Women are from Venus and men from Mars. She's going to her planet for a while, don't pursue her. Go LAUGH AT YOUR RELATIONSHIP with your other Marsians and boast of your next conquest. Yes, seek to become a more mature Marsian to the next Venusian. There are millions of them and they are quite similar, if you would agree.

3. FANTASIZE about a prettier, more playful and understanding Venusian whom you would want to be with. Here, you trick your mind to lessening the feeling of loss and seeing a new possibility.

4. Humans belong to Kingdom Animalia, phyllum Chordata. Scientists who STUDY animals understand and influence their behaviour. We share the same universe but these are aliens from another planet so you have to READ, ask to know what they do and who they are.

5. Play the games of PREDICTION and EXPERIMENT in your next relationship. Predict her present and future behaviour, guess her past and have her confirm if you are right. Be playful here and not serious.

Lastly, say the words "I LOVE YOU" LESS or never (I don't say it anymore) but show it MORE. She'll say it more and she will try to mirror your actions.

Cheers to making happier relationships, happier people and a happy society.

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