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Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Aonkuuse(m): 6:56pm On Mar 19
On the 15th of March 2021, I found out about the most disturbing news; a close friend of mine took her life. It was the unbelievable because she was literally fine the night before, posting about the Grammys only to find out she was dead some hours later.

She killed herself. This is the most vibrant person I’ve ever known. What happened?

Almost no one could answer the question at the time and most of us just seemed to assume it was depression and she was just masking it with a smile. I have known her for a long time and even with personal issues, it never got so bad that she’d actually take her own life.

I found it too hard to believe. So I did some digging to the best of my abilities. I discovered it wasn’t entirely depression. It was family issues and ultimately emotional abuse that pushed her off the edge. I was able to get some chats before the family seized her phone. Chats between her and her mother. Apparently, her and her grandma accused her of taking a large amount of money which she had nothing to do with.She pleaded with them of her innocence and it seemed it had been happening for a while but no one believed her.

I will attach the chats below. She was reaching her breaking point due to the constant emotional abuse from her family. They threatened to arrest her for a crime she didn’t commit. She reached her limit and reached out to them one last time but all they did was more threats and emotional and mental abuse. She bought sniper, snapped it and told them of what was coming, they didn’t seem to care. She took her life over something that could’ve have been avoided.

I am posting this because I have been seeing strange comments regarding her death. Stop your speculations. I also want to raise awareness on the affects of words of family members, especially parents and guardians. My friend died because she was bullied by her own family so much that she felt alienated.

If you can’t be kind, don’t have kids. Stop bring children to this world to suffer. Parents should learn how to show their children love and affection, most times parents care only about physical health and not mental health.

https://twitter.com/JustMuhyba/status/1372814431944593408?s=19

I didn’t add,the money wasn’t physical, it was transactional(bank transfers), owner of money is abroad and my friend was in Nigeria so how!!!
https://twitter.com/JustMuhyba/status/1372823497743994880?s=19

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by OlayemiAshraf(m): 7:01pm On Mar 19
Hmmmm..... What a perfect mother

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by sinaj(f): 7:02pm On Mar 19
Instead of taking your lives and wasting those healthy organs over trivial issues, why not donate it to those that need it and die a fulfilled person

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by heendrix(m): 7:02pm On Mar 19
All I see here is an Illiterate mother and a senseless girl

If Home no show u love and it's affecting ur sanity, Kindly leave and go stay on ur own n try to recover undecided now you've gone to a Life beyond wey Demons of torment no dey hear Abeg. Such a pity

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by i926(m): 7:03pm On Mar 19
Has she stolen money at home before? But who hasn't while growing up?

Was she a tomboy who is into lesbianism? undecided

Why use rainbow sign on her mother's saved contact?

Maybe she felt rejected or out of place in the society. And this was her only way of escaping the good homophobic world.

But why take her own precious life?

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by soberdrunk(m): 7:04pm On Mar 19
angry
Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Raysleek: 7:05pm On Mar 19
Sorry, one question, the girl that killed herself, did she give her phone and password to her friend after she died?

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Bornsinner7: 7:09pm On Mar 19
Na for heaven them go conclude the matter.. whether she carry am or not..

This is not reasonable enough for her to take her life..

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Aonkuuse(m): 7:11pm On Mar 19
Some people don't lock their phones jare,
Raysleek:
Sorry, one question, the girl that killed herself, did she give her phone and password to her friend after she died?

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by harmargedon: 7:11pm On Mar 19
Doesn't look real to me.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by i926(m): 7:19pm On Mar 19
heendrix:
All I see here is an Illiterate mother and a senseless girl

If Home no show u love and it's affecting ur sanity, Kindly leave and go stay on ur own n try to recover undecided now you've gone to a Life beyond wey Demons of torment no dey hear Abeg. Such a pity
I don't think that's her real mother that she chatting with.

Check the rainbow sign, and also a message from from third screenshot that says "Send to her not me"


Edited: You are right. The mother is an illiterate

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Aonkuuse(m): 7:21pm On Mar 19
The thing is involving her mum and grandmother, maybe she was referring to her grandmother
i926:

I don't think that's her real mother that she chatting with.

Check the rainbow sign, and also a message from from third screenshot that says "Send to her not me"

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by i926(m): 7:22pm On Mar 19
Aonkuuse:
The thing is involving her mum and grandmother, maybe she was referring to her grandmother

Okay thanks. I was kind of confused.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Jdaughter(f): 7:23pm On Mar 19
cool

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by dangotesmummy: 7:36pm On Mar 19
The mother killed her with emotional abuse which is more deadly than Physical abuse

Physical abuse can be seen physically but emotional abuse kills from the inside

Imagine a woman you love accusing you of theft and telling her several times you're innocent and then emotional abuse and assault enters

It's more painful than physical assault.thats what Nigerians don't know

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Righteousness2(m): 7:36pm On Mar 19
No Matter the Matter, it is not a reason or excuse to commit suicide. There are great consequences for doing so.
Even if everyone turns their backs on you, The LORD JESUS will not. Look to Him.

There is no situation here on Earth that can be compared to Eternal Destruction in Hell.
Eternity is Real Folks,
Heaven and Hell are Real!!

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by OlayemiAshraf(m): 8:01pm On Mar 19
i926:
Was she a tomboy who is into lesbianism? undecided

Why use rainbow sign on her mother's saved contact?

Maybe she felt rejected or out of place in the society. And this was her only way of escaping the good homophobic world.

But why take her own precious life?

Bruh you're thinking too deep ..chill

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by chukslawrence(m): 8:13pm On Mar 19
One thing I like about myself, trust me or not I’d live/enjoy my life. You see this life, I cherish am gan ooo.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Kayberg(m): 9:37pm On Mar 19
I used to lash out at whoever I heard committed suicide until I found myself in that evil shoes, then my view about them changed from disgust to pity and sadness whenever I read someone committed suicide.
I wish she got the help she needed on time.
I wish she got the strength she needed to keep fighting on.
I wish there was someone who could have stopped her and just say, "You'll be fine."
I wish there was just one person to always cheer her up whenever she felt depressed again, because not everyone has the strength to overcome depression.
Every depressed person appears cool, fine and healthy, but believe me, they're dying slowly from within. I know these, because I'm there, but I'll overcome mine….
Though going to 15 years now….
But I will overcome it.
I believe I'll overcome it.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Danhoys: 11:50pm On Mar 19
Never pray to be born in a messed-up home where you feel unloved. Well, sorry, you are already born.

I hope you don't make your unborn kids feel unloved like this girl child.

Whatever happens, suicide is never an answer!!!

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by gambia(m): 4:13am On Mar 20
Life is full of challenges, but why destroy what you can't create.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Karlovych: 4:23am On Mar 20
embarassed embarassed Too bad, if only Jubrin had fulfilled his campaign promises regarding the economy, RIP to the young lady.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by fiyinfoluwa29093: 5:22am On Mar 20
Hmmmm..... What a perfect mother

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Randy100: 6:24am On Mar 20
It is not easy to kill oneself. I salute her courage.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by indodon(m): 7:26am On Mar 20
Wasted puna

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by columbus007(m): 7:26am On Mar 20
For all what she talked about,i think its the best decision to take,let her just go and find peace for herself.bad mothers everywhere like shit.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by Kondomatic(m): 7:55am On Mar 20
sinaj:
Instead of taking your lives and wasting those healthy organs over trivial issues, why not donate it to those that need it and die a fulfilled person
Trivial issues? Haba Sinaj, this isn't trivial.


The lady was messed up emotionally.

You don't understand and I pray it stays that way because the only way to understand is to find yourself in a situation where everyone is against you and uses your only mistake against you in everything you do. No matter how hard you try to please them.


Take a look at the chat, see how conscienceless the woman is? That's what she has been dealing with the whole time.

See, physical abuse leaves bruises behind most times but emotional abuse leaves corpses.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by DropsMic(m): 8:20am On Mar 20
She did not take her life because her mom accused her of taking her money. She don dey contemplate am tey tey. The accusation was just the perfect excuse she needed

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by SWORD419(m): 8:21am On Mar 20
THE FUTURE IS FEMALE
An average southern mom is merciless

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by iampeterben(m): 8:21am On Mar 20
Saw this on twitter felt for the poor soul.
Don't know if I should say RIP but this kinda issue now, who we go say kill her, devil or her family?

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by onoms4luv(m): 8:21am On Mar 20
The mum killed that girl,

nothing much to say,

As Nigeria hard reach so? You still they accused person say she steal your money?


Now she dun take her life to prove her innocency.


Shebi your mind dun rest.

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Re: Lady Commits Suicide After Her Mum Accused Her Of Taking Her Money (Photos) by ikllbrokehoes(m): 8:21am On Mar 20
Nawa oh, this is just so terrible.

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