To cut the story short:

1. I met her when she was 18:
At this stage, I was 24 and wasn’t really ready to settle down, so I didn’t take her serious but we usually get to see from time to time because she was a boarding student (SS1)

2. She is now 20 (SS3) and I am now 26:

At this point we get to see more often unlike before, and am ready to find the right woman to love and settle down with at least in the next 2yrs time. And yes this girls fits my specs, she is smart, brilliant, beautiful, respectful, good cook and very neat. We have been dating for 2yrs now.

3. The Confusion:

Recently I got to understand her more better which has kept me confused of late, whether to continue or quit. Below are the reasons why I am confused about her even though I love her so much and i need your advice:

1. Big blow on me, she is now a lesbian, she joined lesbianism just a year and few months after she changed from her previous skul to a girls skul where she got into this awful act, this became easier because we don’t live together or see more often due to her still living with parent.

I have refuse to let her know that I have notice she is now a lesbian and also have a lesbian girl friend she loves and get to talk and chat with even though she still comes to my house, spend days and have sex with me.


The reason why I have refuse to confront her about being involved with lesbians and has a lesbian girlfriend, is because I love her and I am worried I may loose her as she is still immature to reason properly due to her age. She is still filled with the urge to enjoy life, have fun without knowing the danger of lesbianism when she eventually gets to 24yrs and above.

I had a lesbian bestie friend who complained bitterly about her lesbian life, she has this much desire to change, a desire to love a man from her heart, and get married and have a responsible family. But this is very difficult for her at her age of 25 because most men who approach her do not find her p*ussy very juicy enough, because these lesbians do not wet properly for good a sex life my brother ( talking from experience).

My thoughts: Foolish or Wise??

I said to myself, this girl is a young girl that I love, if you break up with her because of her lesbian act, it will make things worst for her, she will get more addicted to lesbianism and honestly speaking I love her and wish she can change and love me 100% without sharing my love with her lesbian partner, a perfect relationship does not work like that, you have to be committed to each other, especially a relationship I want to lead to marriage.

I wanted to confront her, but I believe discussing about this her lesbian act when we don’t live together, would definitely end our relationship due to her immaturity as a result of her age, it may be difficult for her to have regrets, to have the urge to change, at this teenage age, she wants to enjoy life and have fun, which she will definitely regret later especially when she get to 24 and above. But in the other hand, if I don’t confront her, she will get more addicted to this lesbian which worries me too.

I really love her, I want her to change because I want to get married to he, support her dreams, finance her and keep her to the standard I want as my wife not just girlfriend.

What can I do? I love her so much, I feel I should never confront her else i loose her and the opportunity to change her over time because at her teenage age (SS3), it would not be an easy task to get her out of her lesbians friends and classmates, make her understand life and the danger of being addicted to lesbianism because, right now this lesbian act is all fun to these young girls without knowing the danger ahead and by then it becomes too late and any man who makes love with their likes, won’t be satisfied with the rate of dry p*ussy complains during sex.

Sometimes I tell myself, forget this nonsense get, and move on, you will get a good normal girl, but this is hard because I knew she was not like this, bad friends introduced her to this lesbian act, i love her so much and she is my perfect spec to settle down and get married, the only problem is this lesbianism she had involved herself.

Pls advice me!!!! I’m in love, 26yrs guy, hustling and financial okay but needs more funds to settle down and focus on the future.

all this stress for a minor? my God, you should be arrested and jailed. how 18 years old girl in ss1 take move you to the point you are having sex with her. instead of being a guardian to help her become a good person instead you were busy depleting her ozone layer. I pray God forgives you.

Geraroffhere my friend, another SIMP sighted. So what do you want us to do, to help her stop lesbianism, are we her parents, are her parents us? they need to get you arrested for defyling a minor.

Oga this your story no sweet.... I have no advise to give

lmao....which kind dirty love ... my friend be serious with ur life ....

Lori ro.
I smell cooked up story.

She belongs to the street, you are only going to stagnate your life if you continue with that girl.

I wrote waec at the age of 15 years ago, but in 2021 a girl whom you claim is smart is just in SS3, are you even smart yourself?

Just continue to fvck her and look for another girl better than her.

I won't say more than these to a SIMP!

I don't know what to say again. Some of these stories on Nairaland can leave somebody in a state of bewilderment.

All these weekend tales by moonlight una no dey tire ni

All i could see is 'i love her ,i love so much' lolz na u sabi

OP work on your dick game and stop writing a complaining book, try some pre-intimacy for a start with her and make sure you give it to her harder! harder!! and more harder!!! So she can know the difference and she might never go back

oga leave the girl alone


with this your narrative she doesnt give a damn about you


move on with your life

get a goal, set a dream for yoursrlf AND WORK towards achieving it

pxssy is not the end of life, you can still get another lady or woman better than her

LET GO

Made619:
all this stress for a minor? my God, you should be arrested and jailed. how 18 years old girl in ss1 take move you to the point you are having sex with her. instead of being a guardian to help her become a good person instead you were busy depleting her ozone layer. I pray God forgives you.

Leave am, he thinks 18 means definition of adult.

Markbrowny:
To cut the story short:

1. I met her when she was 18:
At this stage, I was 24 and wasn’t really ready to settle down, so I didn’t take her serious but we usually get to see from time to time because she was a boarding student (SS1)

2. She is now 20 (SS3) and I am now 26:

At this point we get to see more often unlike before, and am ready to find the right woman to love and settle down with at least in the next 2yrs time. And yes this girls fits my specs, she is smart, brilliant, beautiful, respectful, good cook and very neat. We have been dating for 2yrs now.

3. The Confusion:

Recently I got to understand her more better which has kept me confused of late, whether to continue or quit. Below are the reasons why I am confused about her even though I love her so much and i need your advice:

1. Big blow on me, she is now a lesbian, she joined lesbianism just a year and few months after she changed from her previous skul to a girls skul where she got into this awful act, this became easier because we don’t live together or see more often due to her still living with parent.

I have refuse to let her know that I have notice she is now a lesbian and also have a lesbian girl friend she loves and get to talk and chat with even though she still comes to my house, spend days and have sex with me.


The reason why I have refuse to confront her about being involved with lesbians and has a lesbian girlfriend, is because I love her and I am worried I may loose her as she is still immature to reason properly due to her age. She is still filled with the urge to enjoy life, have fun without knowing the danger of lesbianism when she eventually gets to 24yrs and above.

I had a lesbian bestie friend who complained bitterly about her lesbian life, she has this much desire to change, a desire to love a man from her heart, and get married and have a responsible family. But this is very difficult for her at her age of 25 because most men who approach her do not find her p*ussy very juicy enough, because these lesbians do not wet properly for good a sex life my brother ( talking from experience).

My thoughts: Foolish or Wise??

I said to myself, this girl is a young girl that I love, if you break up with her because of her lesbian act, it will make things worst for her, she will get more addicted to lesbianism and honestly speaking I love her and wish she can change and love me 100% without sharing my love with her lesbian partner, a perfect relationship does not work like that, you have to be committed to each other, especially a relationship I want to lead to marriage.

I wanted to confront her, but I believe discussing about this her lesbian act when we don’t live together, would definitely end our relationship due to her immaturity as a result of her age, it may be difficult for her to have regrets, to have the urge to change, at this teenage age, she wants to enjoy life and have fun, which she will definitely regret later especially when she get to 24 and above. But in the other hand, if I don’t confront her, she will get more addicted to this lesbian which worries me too.

I really love her, I want her to change because I want to get married to he, support her dreams, finance her and keep her to the standard I want as my wife not just girlfriend.

What can I do? I love her so much, I feel I should never confront her else i loose her and the opportunity to change her over time because at her teenage age (SS3), it would not be an easy task to get her out of her lesbians friends and classmates, make her understand life and the danger of being addicted to lesbianism because, right now this lesbian act is all fun to these young girls without knowing the danger ahead and by then it becomes too late and any man who makes love with their likes, won’t be satisfied with the rate of dry p*ussy complains during sex.

Sometimes I tell myself, forget this nonsense get, and move on, you will get a good normal girl, but this is hard because I knew she was not like this, bad friends introduced her to this lesbian act, i love her so much and she is my perfect spec to settle down and get married, the only problem is this lesbianism she had involved herself.

Pls advice me!!!! I’m in love, 26yrs guy, hustling and financial okay but needs more funds to settle down and focus on the future.

I SUPPORT HER LESBIANISM

she made the better decision.

Some people sef. Is she the only girl in world? Better move on to the next one. When she's done managing you, she will dump you like stale bread. It seems you have little idea of lesbians.

bloddy paedophile

you are a 26yo he goat.
u r financially OK but need small cu DS to settle down....be deceiving urself

I don't have time to read your epistle but know this, no girl is worth anything except your sisters, and your daughters. If you like, keep wasting your time, your eye will soon clear and pray that you won't already blind by that time.

26 years old having sex with 20 years old
Even started asking her out when she's just 18 and still in secondary school
You are mad bro

You don't love her, because if you do, you'll work hard to change the narration.

Discuss with her, seek solution to this problem.

Simple matter wey no be anything, na him you dey bring come public domain.

Follow your heart...


You can invite her friend tooo

lmao....which kind dirty love ...
my friend be serious with ur life ....

Invite her over and talk to her heart-to-heart, leaving her seems no to be the solution here, she's naive just talk to her to let her know how disgusting lesbianism is. If you discover this after your marriage nkor will you send her packing without discussing it..... talk to her and watch her, I know she will change but if she doesn't, then you can now seek another replacement. chikena!

Bros, I think it'll be okay to focus on your life and leave her lesbian nature. You are not her father!

Even if she leaves lesbianism and change for the better, the stigma of her being one before will still be there. Anything she's with her female friends alone what will be coming to your mind is "Hope those girls are not doing the do"

Dating and having sex with an S. S. 3 student? What folly!

Have you no shame at all? Anyway, I will leave your fellow randy men to come advise you. I pray you find what you are looking for.

merieam16:
All these weekend tales by moonlight una no dey tire ni


All i could see is 'i love her ,i love so much' lolz na u sabi

The thing tired me o.

Stephenmoka4:
Leave am, he thinks 18 means definition of adult.

my brother I tire oh

I know u lied about her age, she is definitely not up to 18...she is in SS3 so she is around 15 - 17 years...You said she is smart, how can she be smart and be 20 in Ss3...even village girls dont finish secondary school at 20.....You are just looking for a way to escape being tag the paedophile that u are.....its even disgusting u are having premarital sex and on top of that it is with a teenager (as u repeatedly said so in ur write up- evidence), to make it worse, the teenage girl is even still in secondary school...honestly you are mad...it will never be well with you....FOOL...you are not only a simp but a compound simp...so u are getting worked up because a girl chose to be a lesbian, even if she is ur age mate, should what a girl does with her body bothers you

I will advice u 2 confront her nd sit her down so she can understand d gravity of lesbianism nd if she refuse,bros walk away 4rm her. Dnt think of losing her bt think bout d happiness and love.

Made619:
all this stress for a minor? my God, you should be arrested and jailed. how 18 years old girl in ss1 take move you to the point you are having sex with her. instead of being a guardian to help her become a good person instead you were busy depleting her ozone layer. I pray God forgives you.

20yrs na minor?

merieam16:
All these weekend tales by moonlight una no dey tire ni


All i could see is 'i love her ,i love so much' lolz na u sabi

The matter tire me o