Twitter influencer narrates how her Igbo boyfriend's mother crashed their plan of getting married.


A Twitter influencer took to the platform to narrate how the mother of her Igbo boyfriend of 2 years, crashed their plan of getting married.
According to @dearolaa, her prospective mother-in-law's attitude changed when she realized she is a Yoruba girl and she reportedly told her to her face that she can't marry her son because she doesn't like Yoruba people.

@dearolaa further revealed that her boyfriend's mother recently called her parents and warned that she should stay off her son. She also shared anguish of not knowing where she stands as her boyfriend has been in the village for a week.
She tweeted;

My name is Adeolar and I've been in a very serious relationship with an Igbo guy. He's nice, handsome and we've been dating for 2 years. He talked about me meeting his family and I was very excited little did I know that it would turn out to be my worse nightmare.
I met his mum and she seemed really nice, but her attitude changed when she realized I'm a Yoruba girl. She immediately told me to my face that I can't marry her son. Her reasons weren't clearly stated but she said she doesn't like the Yoruba people. My heart melted, hot tears rolled down from my eyes; I'm Yoruba and I'm in love with an Igbo "mummy's boy".
I spoke with him about it and he keeps assuring me that it would be fine. It's been almost 2 years now and the family are still not in support of our union. Every time I try to move on he comes begging that everything would be fine and that we will get married. I really love this guy, why I love him I don't know because clearly he hasn't done anything to deserve my heart but... He doesn't have a good paying job yet, so I carter for most of his financial needs and even send some food to his village during festivity.
Just recently his mother called my parents to tell them that I can't get married to her son and asked that I should be warned to stay off her son. He has travelled to his village for a week now and honestly I don't know where I stand... I really love him but what do I do?
Good morning lovers. This is my story.

Pls my sister if you're not welcome into any home be it Igbo, Yoruba,efik etc don't force yourself there, we are Africans we are not in Western country else I would have ask you to continue but given the fact we are Africans it will be hard for you.just but an end to that relationship. My 1cent

Hmmm..... Those dog eater too are raising shoulder ... Tueh tueh

Mums know best.

OlayemiAshraf:
Hmmm..... Those dog eater too are raising shoulder ... Tueh tueh

Why insulting other tribe bro?. You can actually comment without insulting.

Wise mum

Not easy but time to move on. Stop wasting time. Marriage should bring happiness amidst the usual couple quarrels. Marrying this man without his mother's support will only bring unhappiness from hostilities. It is avoidable. A stitch in time saves nine. A 'move on' you do now will save you future heartache.

MufasaLion:


Why insulting other tribe bro?. You can actually comment without insulting.

Welcome to nairaland bruh

Nothing like love.They will eventually use the lady for money ritual and later marry igbo girl for him later

OlayemiAshraf:
Hmmm..... Those dog eater too are raising shoulder ... Tueh tueh

Who wants algae soup eating bride

Such happens more with Yorubas but watch how they will turn hypocritical and sanctimonous in this thread.

OlayemiAshraf:


Welcome to nairaland bruh

Lol. I'm no novice but your insult will surely bring fight. It's not that good bruv!

She has a point

Noccerino:
Her reason in very intact, you lots are flirts even in marriage. I personally will not support such marriage.

Her tribe or women generally?

She does not deserve you as daughter in law and if she is unjust to you, she just ended up setting her son back.
It is not really an Igbo versus Yoruba thing if you consider how generally humans are prejudiced against anyone not from their class or status.For latest free stuff, www.freestuffsng.com

OlayemiAshraf:
Hmmm..... Those dog eater too are raising shoulder ... Tueh tueh

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

Vaughanlanrewaj:
She does not deserve you as daughter in law and if she is unjust to you, she just ended up setting her son back.
It is not really an Igbo versus Yoruba thing if you consider how generally humans are prejudiced against anyone not from their class or status.

Seems you really get the point!.

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DaddyRochie1642:





Oga to slap you dey hungry me

What's wrong with you.... If you have problem with me .... pick a location .. let's meet ...me and you ...one on one

OlayemiAshraf:


What's wrong with you.... If you have problem with me .... pick a location .. let's meet ...me and you ...one on one

FFK FOR THE SAME TRIBAL REASON IS KEEPING HIS EXWIFE AWAY FROM THEIR 3 BOYZ.


TRIBALISM NO GO KILL SOUTHERNERS.

I won't recommend any marriage between our sisters and Ibos, until our sisters explain why we Yoruba guys can't marry them.

Juliusmalema:
Are there no men in Yorubaland again?

Are they all now bobrisky and chef Ayomide that u are looking for an Igbo man to marry.

Inter tribal marriage is a menace to culture and tradition and must be resisted.

The woman knows her reasons and I fully stand with her because what an elder sees while sitting even if that child climbs the tallest Iroko tree, he won't see it.

Which mother will allow flirts , wayward ladies into her home?

bla, bla, bla

No mother wants a "Lola" for her son, not even queen Elizabeth!

Vaughanlanrewaj:
She does not deserve you as daughter in law and if she is unjust to you, she just ended up setting her son back.
It is not really an Igbo versus Yoruba thing if you consider how generally humans are prejudiced against anyone not from their class or status.For latest free stuff, www.freestuffsng.com

She set her son back huh? Why don't she go and marry a Yoruba guy and move him forward?

Does she want to marry her son ?

Igbo mother in-laws.

She is young and naive.. if they don't like you then move the fvck on, better than getting poisoned or subjected to unnecessary hate later in marriage.

Igbos hate Yorubas.. a typical example is Lola and the Okoyes.

MufasaLion:


Why insulting other tribe bro?. You can actually comment without insulting.

Waiting for when you will codemn the poster I quoted below

Juliusmalema:
Are there no men in Yorubaland again?

Are they all now bobrisky and chef Ayomide that u are looking for an Igbo man to marry.

Inter tribal marriage is a menace to culture and tradition and must be resisted.

The woman knows her reasons and I fully stand with her because what an elder sees while sitting even if that child climbs the tallest Iroko tree, he won't see it.

Which mother will allow flirts , wayward ladies into her home?

OlayemiAshraf:


What's wrong with you.... If you have problem with me .... pick a location .. let's meet ...me and you ...one on one

Fire on

flokii:
She is young and naive.. if they don't like you then move the fvck on, better than getting poisoned or subjected to unnecessary hate later in marriage.

Igbos hate Yorubas.. a typical example is Lola and the Okoyes.

She sha wan drink Omi oku

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Juliusmalema:
Are there no men in Yorubaland again?

Are they all now bobrisky and chef Ayomide that u are looking for an Igbo man to marry.

Inter tribal marriage is a menace to culture and tradition and must be resisted.

[b]The woman knows her reasons and I fully stand with her because what an elder sees while sitting even if that child climbs the tallest Iroko tree, he won't see it.

Which mother will allow flirts , wayward ladies into her home?[/b]

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Mr ancient of days.

Spits!

haffaze777:


Waiting for when you will codemn the poster I quoted below

That nigga is just a daft sperm!