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My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by funkmrflexx(m): 11:36pm On Mar 27, 2021
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Nobody: 11:46pm On Mar 27, 2021
Tell her to go so that we can find you another girlfriend that will drain you with sex. I have one badt birch for you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Nobody: 11:47pm On Mar 27, 2021
we should help you do what oga? beg her to start giving you doggy? lmao niqqas sha..

simply get you a side chic to be giving you adventural s*x then keep her *ss if she's a well mannered and homely girl wink
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Spending123: 11:47pm On Mar 27, 2021
So what should we do, we should make her like sex or What?

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Nobody: 12:14am On Mar 28, 2021
Fornication is now a thing of pride smh cry

GOD IN YOUR HANDS I COMMIT MY FUTURE GENERATION

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Supreme01: 12:15am On Mar 28, 2021
This guy, you want to use that girl perform what you've being witching on xvideo. Go find a wh*re an display your Satan given talent.

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Raindrop0442(m): 1:29am On Mar 28, 2021
issues ���
some people no just get problem for life...
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by MufasaLion: 3:24am On Mar 28, 2021
LMAO... Each man to his own
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by mamaafrik(m): 4:37am On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.
Dig deeper,there is more to it,no talk say i no warn you
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by MVLOX(m): 6:16am On Mar 28, 2021
Baba no smoke without fire ooo.... na now you go settle the matter oooo.... marriage no dey change person oooo.....

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by smogia: 6:33am On Mar 28, 2021
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Baba so what shud we now do??
Idiot
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Fergal: 6:50am On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.

Everyone isn't wired thesame way. That's how she is, if you can't live with it. Talk to her and let the break up be mutual. She'll surely find a guy like her and you'll find a lady like you.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by RealAlubarika(m): 6:58am On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.

I will advise you discuss with her on the need for both of you to go your separate ways, you both are not sexually compatible. Cause people hardly change, if you marry eher it will be worse when the kids starts arriving


We rise by lifting others

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by GodWrites: 7:47am On Mar 28, 2021
Hmmm
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by wumi2017(f): 7:52am On Mar 28, 2021
sad
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by SeekerofTruth1: 7:55am On Mar 28, 2021
Another Dude probably gives her Anal Elsewhere,so she Finds you Repulsive

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by paulolee(m): 8:07am On Mar 28, 2021
na wah oo...jus dump her n move on bcoz t seems u both aint made for each Oda....girls plenty na
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by dedons: 8:27am On Mar 28, 2021
Carchoice:
Tell her to go so that we can find you another girlfriend that will drain you with sex. I have one badt birch for you.
Abeg pass the b*tch to me. OP no need am.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Jeon(f): 8:53am On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.


so what do you want we to do?

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Jazzman01: 8:54am On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.

She has been circumcised and there's nothing you can do about it. The aim of circumcising women is to reduce their sexual desire and avoid promiscuity but unfortunately the husband won't enjoy her either. It is a common practice in Nigeria and Africa as a whole

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by P1PrinceKT(m): 9:11am On Mar 28, 2021
you're marraying a sex doll

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by candygist: 10:03am On Mar 28, 2021
Another guy might be fucking her for you
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Emyzoloye5(m): 10:06am On Mar 28, 2021
make her a sex addict then ....

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Nobody: 10:15am On Mar 28, 2021
Jazzman01:


She has been circumcised and there's nothing you can do about it. The aim of circumcising women is to reduce their sexual desire and avoid promiscuity but unfortunately the husband won't enjoy her either. It is a common practice in Nigeria and Africa as a whole
I think so too, some may be shy to talk about it
FGM makes ladies uninterested in sex, most of the times it's a painful activity for them
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by bigcee(m): 11:03am On Mar 28, 2021
Nothing wey person no go read on Nairaland grin grin grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by BigYash: 11:04am On Mar 28, 2021
She doesn't want you to widen the puccy. She is keeping it for the main guy who went to hustle oversea. You na side boo and you will soon be used and d.......
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 11:31am On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.

From what I know, her behaviour may be down to -

1) She's actually not sexually attracted to you. Yes someone might love you or click immensely with you, you guys gel madly etc, but no sexual chemistry. Not good at all because this usually leads to cheating down the line. Females are like that. Because mostly they are not natural providers, it's possible for a female to have one man that PROVIDES money/security, another man that PROVIDES love/emotion, another man that PROVIDES mind blowing sex and another that PROVIDES intelligent conversation/ideas/practical help. She can be genuinely attracted to you for one reason. However when the need arises for something else, and you are not able to PROVIDE it, she may reach out to somebody else that can.

2)She's had a traumatic experience or procedure in the past (physically or psychologically) that has affected her sexually - rape/sexual abuse (this is usually the number 1 issue in Nigeria), female genital mutilation, massive love heartbreak/disappointment etc. In that case you have to try and reach out to her emotionally. She has to make a deep emotional connection with you before she can relax and open up properly for you. Lots of hardwork here and you have to ask yourself if she's worth it.

3) She might still be in love with an ex and can't just bring herself to be with someone else fully. Just move on brah, life is too short.

4) Or it simply might be that she is just inexperienced and has been brainwashed by parents or church etc that sex is bad and leads to hell. Again, depends on how serious you are with her, you have hard work to do here. Again, life is to short to be fighting unnecessary battle.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by CheedyJ(m): 12:45pm On Mar 28, 2021
Na romance be your problem ba, you no get problems b that .. congrats �

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Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Oturatetuala(m): 1:09pm On Mar 28, 2021
Dis life! I dey think of how I go take pay bills and one man dey think of sex adventure... Chineke!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Duplexxx: 1:35pm On Mar 28, 2021
My guy that girl have some one fuckin her very hard she kept it secret
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Quality20(m): 1:39pm On Mar 28, 2021
Enrol her in Sex school so she can learn.
Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Romance by Stevyne: 1:41pm On Mar 28, 2021
funkmrflexx:
My girlfriend doesn't like romance or sex. It's making our relationship boring. She's a very good girl. But when it comes to the sex part she's very boring. She doesn't like kissing or romancing and anytime we have sex she just likes us to go straight to the point. No pre-intimacy or anything. I can count how many times we have kissed since we started dating. I'm a guy who loves adventures in the bedroom and who likes to try new things but she's stiffling me. When we manage to have sex in like 5 minutes she'll said she's tired. She doesn't even want to try new positions or anything. I even have to resort to handjob sometimes just to satisfy myself because I don't enjoy sex with her.
Check well maybe she was circumcized.

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