Jashub:
I see the last comment of this poster as one of the greatest forms of stupidity walking the face of the earth. God forbid something should happen to the couple and the children become orphans, will their survival not depend on members of the extended family? Will the extended family not chase the children away since the couples foolishly decided they wanted to enjoy their marriage in "peace? It is things like these that happen one should always look out for and not be myopic all in the name of wanting to enjoy a marriage in peace.

Mercisharelove:



This guy is so backwards, background backup.


What's is wrong with your comprehension, are you sure you actually went to school and passed your exams, I doubted.


Wonderful family members are specially welcomed and treated with greatest respect and honour.

You didn't need to comment, you could as well read it again and again. Before you comment

Mercisharelove:



Please be advised, marriage is for two and the children which will be produced by the two and any other person or group of people allowed to mingle with. It's not by force of labour to satisfy the ignorance of the wicked"

What's wrong with this


This guy is so backwards, background backup.


What's is wrong with your comprehension, are you sure you actually went to school and passed your exams, I doubted.


Wonderful family members are specially welcomed and treated with greatest respect and honour.

You didn't need to comment, you could as well read it again and again. Before you comment

Jashub:
I'm referring to the last paragraph where you said this rubbish : " It went on and on until I couldn't bear it, I had to threaten my husband, that we need to get another apartment for his mother and siblings, it was a big war, but in the end, one of their sister's came and shouted at everyone including the Mum that she herself will never be able to bear this kind of treatments, I mean horrible experiences, that fact they never respected the wedding gifts was an indication they were all out to destroy the marriage, that she has to take the choice of moving to the other apartment, that was how I became little relief, but once in a while a visit could turn to 6 months disturbances.


Use your head and reason this : something happens to you and your husband, and your kids are now left orphans, how would you now expect your children to be accepted and taken care of when you've directly chase their extended family away all in a bid to satisfy your myopic thoughts of enjoying a marriage alone

Kondomatic:
Dude, are you saying that the coupled should continue living with the "siblums"(ie siblings that are hoodlums) and the mother inlaw so that their children will have someone to take care of them if they die untimely?



Like which kain thinking be this?

Jashub:
[s][/s]Oga you're misinterpreting what I'm saying.

The issue I'm grumbling about has to do with the fact that the OP here is in support of throwing inlaws out without being diplomatic about it. The instance I made mention is a case of any eventuality that should happen.

Kondomatic:
Inlaws that gave out her wedding presents without her consent?

Abeg leave matter, the husband's family has a problem

Jashub:
Yes they have a problem ; but family is family. And they're still the ones who you'll turn to when things go bad. The way you treat them now will determine how they'll treat you and your offspring in future

Mercisharelove:



Your brain is upside down

Jashub:
And so is yours. Which is why you didn't see things from that perspective. All you see is the self-greed of marital bliss that won't last more than a year!