Righteousness2:
Brother, the Truth of your Matter is that you are CONFUSED!
You Don't know what u want! You are Neither here nor there, which is Confusion!

The Relationship you need now is a Genuie relationship with JESUS. You need to release yourself to JESUS so He will work on you and repair you to be the Man you are meant to be.

After that is Done , you will Understand and see Clearly what is for you.

Righteousness2:
Brother, the Truth of your Matter is that you are CONFUSED!
You Don't know what u want! You are Neither here nor there, which is Confusion!

The Relationship you need now is a Genuie relationship with JESUS. You need to release yourself to JESUS so He will work on you and repair you to be the Man you are meant to be.

After that is Done , you will Understand and see Clearly what is for you.

Lostchild:



The Lord Jesus
Created me the way I am. I just cannot change who I am.

I just cannot find a better half of me

Pmedia7787:
Some of the issues you discussed are very personal and there are many people out there who are Nigerians that have what you look for

But one thing...you are still more of a baby than a grown man...just read up yourself allover..again

There is more to live than your raving thoughts

Lostchild:


Mr grown up man
I see that your brain is inside your eyes.

Lostchild:
My married and single brothers of Nairaland.

I was wondering if I should share this on romance or family section.
What I am about to write here may look weird but I just want to see your opinion over my insanity. Even my own mother marvell at me sometimes and she keep wondering what type of person she gave birth to.

About me
I am a chronic introvert and everyday I need alone time to stay healthy.

I am lover of peace and I can only dwell in a place where there is peace and quietness. I just can't underatand why people quarrel and fight. I prefare dialogue and to do what is right and just.

I am financially OK

I am thirty something years. I am old enough to get married but I have too many problem with my personality that is preventing me from falling in love with any woman to get married.

I have dated pretty and hot ladies, but I always got the feeling that Nigeria women cannot handle me.

I feel so depressed as I strongly feel that I am a white man in a black man body, and I feel so alone and completely LOST

MY PROBLEM No (1)
I need a woman with a complete western mindset.
I need a woman who will watch foreign movies with me.
I need a woman who love foreign music, rock and pop songs.
I love nature - and I like to expand my horizon but most Nigeria women dont even know what nature Is.


PROBLEM No (2)
All the beautiful ladies and girls I see all around me, they are just too Nigerian/traditional

I cannot stand a woman that listen and dance over Nigeria music because Nigeria music are crazy, the music irritate me and always makes me feel so depressed.

I cannot stand a woman that watch Nigeria movies because I feel very depressed over Nigeria movies.

I cannot stand a woman that watches zee world as India culture is more crazy with idolatry than Nigeria.

I cannot stand a woman that speak her native tongue. Anytime I see and find a lady/girl attractive, immediately I noticed she can speak her native language apart from English. I will instantly back off from her because I see Nigeria language as the number one evil in Nigeria soil and I dont want this evil language in the life of my unborn children.


MY PROBLEM No (3)
I cannot trust today's women that has fvck too many dick

I see marriage/wedding ceremoney as fake

I have seen too many people divorce in marriage

I have seen genuine men of God even divorce and their wives became the devil in their life.

Me and all my childhood friends, our parent all went through bitter divorce.

MY PLAN.
I am planning to do baby mama plus. I mean, no wedding/marriage ceremony, no marriage certificate

I am planning baby mama plus because I just can't trust a woman and marriage.

I have this mindset that if I do baby mama plus, if she troubles me I can easily flee and left the house for her just to save my peace as I cannot stand arrogance in a woman.

If she start cheating, I can easily move out of the conjugal relationship despite our children.

My personality is really tommenting me with depression.

Guys; Am I insane?
Brothers; Am I being selfish?

What do you think?

Your opinion is highly welcome

Pmedia7787:


When fools speaks

We know

Everyone here knows the thoughts of a kid

Exibit them the more

Bornsinner7:
Damn Brah

I understand how difficult it is dealing with a typical bush Nigerian babe but at some point I thought you got more than your share of life problems..

I was thinking you need a skin surgery so you can change your skin to white and find the country that best suits you to reside..

I'm not here to advice you to marry or not but in as much as there are a lot of used girls.. there are still very very few brand new tear leather babes..

Truth is.. No love in the city just make money and pray not to die young

Anigreat:







Brother introvert you can create any woman you want by yourself.

woleabayo:
You are getting insane brother, you are selfish and self centred,.......not all the alegation are right thats if the story is true.........and sorry you are basterd of your tribe for being ashame of speaking your native language and see that as irritating thing ......why not die and reborn in the USA so you can get all your western life............lastly please visit a therapist of phychologist for more

lilvicky68:
Oga your own case na special case..for your own deliverance cane or belt must be involved..

daddytime:
Tell mummy to carry you go back where she carry you from.

Righteousness2:

That's the Greatest lie and Deceit the devil has used to Deceive you. Let no one Deceive you, You are Fully Responsible for your choices and Decisions you take.

"I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live"

Lostchild:
My married and single brothers of Nairaland.

I was wondering if I should share this on romance or family section.
What I am about to write here may look weird but I just want to see your opinion over my insanity. Even my own mother marvell at me sometimes and she keep wondering what type of person she gave birth to.

About me
I am a chronic introvert and everyday I need alone time to stay healthy.

I am lover of peace and I can only dwell in a place where there is peace and harmony. I just can't underatand why people quarrel and fight. I prefare dialogue and to do what is right and just.

I am financially OK

I am old enough to get married but I have too many problem with my personality that is preventing me from falling in love with any woman to get married.

I have dated pretty and hot ladies, but I always see that Nigeria women cannot handle me.

I feel so depressed as I strongly feel that I have a caucasian soul in a black man body, and I feel so alone and completely LOST.

MY PROBLEM No (1)
I need a woman with a complete western mindset.
I need a woman who will watch foreign movies with me.
I need a woman who love western music, rock, acoustic, country music and pop songs.
I love nature - and I like to expand my horizon but most Nigeria women dont even know what nature Is.

PROBLEM No (2)
All the beautiful ladies and girls I see all around me, they are just too Nigerian/traditional

I cannot stand a woman that listen and dance over Nigeria music because Nigeria music are crazy, the music irritate me and always makes me feel so depressed.

I cannot stand a woman that watch Nigeria movies because I feel very depressed over Nigeria movies.

I cannot stand a woman that watches zee world as India culture is more crazy with idolatry than Nigeria.

I cannot stand a woman that always speak her native tongue. Anytime I see and find a lady/girl attractive, immediately I noticed she always speak her native language apart from English. I will instantly loss interest in her because I see Nigeria language as the number one evil in Nigeria soil and I dont want this evil language to be transfer into the life of my unborn children.

MY PROBLEM No (3)
I cannot trust today's women that has fvck too many dick

I see marriage/wedding ceremoney as useless.

I see that the love a women confess to a men are fake. They have confess love to their previous boyfriend in the past yet they cheat

I have seen too many people divorce in marriage

I have seen genuine men of God even divorce and their wives became the devil in their life.

Me and all my childhood friends, our parent all went through bitter divorce.

MY PLAN.
I am planning to do baby mama plus. I mean, no wedding/marriage ceremony, no marriage certificate

I am planning baby mama plus because I just can't trust a woman and marriage.

I have this mindset that if I do baby mama plus, if she troubles me so much I can easily flee and left the house for her just to save my peace as I cannot stand conflict and arrogance in a woman.

If she start cheating, I can easily move out of the conjugal relationship and still take care of our children.

My western personality is really tomenting me with depression.

Guys; Am I insane?
Brothers; Am I being selfish?

What do you think?

Your opinion is highly welcome.

EDIT.
I was born in warri and I cannot speak any native language apart from english. I even hate all the Nigeria languages

It is not a sin for a person like me to desire to find someone like myself, a compatible lover, a friend. For me a long lasting relationship is all about mutual compatibility.

If i can even find a lady with half of my personality in her, I will even thank God, but I have not not met any for years.

There is more harmony when birds of the same feather fly together. And I must say that all the comment I received here are just making me laugh and I keep laughing

Pmedia7787:


When fools speaks

We know

Everyone here knows the thoughts of a kid

Exibit them the more

Ishilove:

Yes, stark, raving insane.

iRepNaija1:


OP, you're not insane but you definitely hate yourself. How can you not stand women, Nigerian women who are just as Nigerian as you are, when they speak their native tongue, when they want Nigerian movies, when they act too "traditional," whatever that means. Moreover, you tie a woman's value as a person to how many people she has slept with. That's another problem. Why does it matter? What is the benefit of you knowing how many people she has been with? OP, you need to work on yourself. If you are this distrustful of women--and have an apparent aversion to Nigerian culture--then you don't need to be in a relationship or be seeking someone who is compatible with you.