Nazgul:
You're broke and currently can't afford to maintain a relationship yet you somehow get yourself entangled with a fellow broke girl like you...is it that some guys are addicted to suffering or what?

At least look for a financially stable girl who wouldn't bug you with unnecessary needs while you work towards putting yourself together financially.

How long do you think you can continue borrowing to please her, my brother help yourself and use your brains before she forces you to relocate permanently to your village.

GatewayP:
[s]Please I need your help on this matter, it has been giving me sleepless nights and I want to know how to deal with it.
Ny problem be say the girl that I'm dating now is disturbing me with some issues.
We started dating around this time last month and we have be okay since then, but she suddenly changed and started demanding money from me, like for subscriptions, food, bills and others. I tried to explain to her that I'm broke and need some time to hustle and work hard for me enough money to give her, but she doesn't want to reason with me and it has been annoying.
So she started to deny me my rights like sex, kissing and other stuffs, I asked her why, and she said she's not in the mood. It has been hard for me to keep my mind away from other girls but I managed to. So I recently borrowed some money from my friends and paid for her subscription— data, gotv and also paid her bills. And gave her some cash. So I spent around 50k on her around that period.
She has been happy and cool with me since then, and we have been having fun, calling each other and stuffs, I mean she really changed for me after everything, unlike before.
But my problem now is that I'm now owning my friends and she has been calling me to sub for her and pay her Bills again and that the last one expired. I wanted to broke up with her but I still love her so much and would like to marry her when I get money, because I'm still Hustling.
She has been avoiding me for now and it's giving me concern. She said that I don't love her because I don't give her stuffs or take her out or buy her things. But the thing is that I love this girl so much and I would like to make her my wife, but she's been disturbing me and it's a distraction to me now.
Even now I've been avoiding some of my friends because I dey own them, please how can I make her reason with me, I mean how can I make things right for her. She changed because I didn't have her what she wanted. [/s]

johnnobles:
I would have love to ask you some questions like "how old you, how experience are you in the dating game, and etc it is not in my character to name people as 'simp"but you see it is what it is. It is very clear even to the blind that she loves your money and not you. It pains me so much to see guys suffers in the hands of ladies emotionally and still claim they love her. What is wrong with our men, it's disgust me so much, to the extend of losing sleep and focus and even seeking advice in social media when you clearly know what to do. As long as you continue to pay her bills you will remain her maga and I tell you she doesn't intend stop using you as an office for the now. I advise you to advice yourself...

healthbing:
First of all sex,kiss is not your right because you're not married.
Secondly sub,bill,data etc are not your responsibility because she's not yet your wife..All these things are meant to be done out of love..
And as it stands now your relationship is one sided..
Any girl that will make you be in debt and still be asking for more is not worth it..she's supposed to be supporting you to achieve your dream instead of trying to milk you dry..
My only advise for you is use your head not your heart.
She's just exploiting you because she has your mumu button..
Dear run!! And focus on building yourself first..
True Love will come in due time without stress..
She clearly needs money and not love I won't judge her for that anyways.
Use your head bro