My very good friend Tunde couldn't make it to his bosses' funeral so his wife "Vivian" represented him but here is the twist. Vivian's parents are distant cousins with whom is lying in-state. A "thank you for coming" envelope was given to Vivian (usually in big men funeral in amambra and as VIP) but she gave it to her parents. She informed Tunde though but she had already called her dad to inform him an envelop was given.
Note: The envelope had no name written on it.

Tunde is like who should she have given the envelop to? Her husband or father..