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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by carlcar2012(f): 6:14am On Apr 08
Future is female
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by zedman1(m): 6:18am On Apr 08
zed7:
Women are more emotional. Women take relationships with their loved ones and family more seriously. That's the way they are wired. Everything isn't about gold digging.
And I thought this was me. There should be just one and only one zed in the universe.
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by zexy2030(m): 6:21am On Apr 08
so if u want to marry, marry a virgin.
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by bluefilm: 6:28am On Apr 08
McSquishi:


Just because you call your opinions “truth” doesn’t make it so, sir...

What’s your field of expertise because mine is biological sciences... post the scientific studies that say men naturally look younger than their age mates. You won’t find any...

Did you just call me ugly? shocked Lmao, here come the petty insults as usual.

You guys always get low and dirty when you can’t make logical & intellectual retorts...

I’ll be old and ugly and whatever else you say. Ok?

But the fact is you’re still agreeing with my initial statement. You’re actually performing my initial statement, which is a bit hilarious grin grin grin

What exactly do you mean by men looking younger than their age mates?

Which age mates, if I may ask?

If you are comparing men with their fellow men in terms of age, then you are making no point at all.

But if you are trying to compare men with their female age mates, then obviously your DELUSION has blinded you from the reality that women mature faster and earlier than men in most cases.

You don't need any nonsense biological scientific expertise to figure that out.

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by daddymummy(m): 6:32am On Apr 08
Yes.

Women value relationship because it pays them better than most jobs.

A man's uncontrollable desire to have sex was given to him so that he would be forced to spent huge sum of money on women in the name of a relationship, just to have sex with the woman.

Women are the beneficiaries of men's unreasonable desire to have sex.

The thing is that the only reason men go into relationship is to have sex.

But I thank God that I knew this thing earlier enough, that was why I didn't start having sex when my mates started.

Now, I am free from such bondage that men are in.

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by EbenezerTriumph: 6:50am On Apr 08
SeekerofTruth1:
Kindly Ignore the First Commenter Please

And yes,you answered yourself in your Post. Marriage is a Big achievement for women because After their Father and Boyfriends are done taking care of them,it is now Their husband's turn,which will hopefully give them male kids who will then Continue the process when the Husband Must have probably been milked dry by the Woman
exactly the institution called marriage favor the ladies

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by ImpactCrater: 6:57am On Apr 08
Sentientmind:
Hi all, it isn't news women celebrate relationships and marriage more, tends to flaunt it, and for them it is obviously a very huge milestone for them; they see it as a very big achievement.
The reverse is the case for the male folks as most are mostly indifferent and many will prefer to hide it; my question is, why do female value and put so much emphasis on relationship/marriage?

Is it because they have more to gain? Or looking for people to fleece?

Your response/opinion is welcomed.

if you are able to catch a mugu who is obligated to provide the basics of life and protect you free of charge while you can afford to nag, disrespect, insult and feel entitled without accepting any responsibility... wont you celebrate such a lopsided arrangement?
Marriage is designed for womens' exclusive benefits and the man is just a diaposable workhorse who is deceived by imaginary gains to provide for her and her children in life and even after his death.
plus the society has been manipulated to use the apparatus of the state to fight men on behalf of women.
A man has no real benefit in the arrangemnt of marriage which I suspect was cleverly imposed on him.
The more I ponder on this issue the more I dont see any sense in it from the view point of a man's benefits.

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by WinterMinter: 6:58am On Apr 08
Women are meant for pleasure
Nothing else




Winter is Coming
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by ringi82(m): 6:59am On Apr 08
NiRfreak:

Women weren't made to be a loner or an island. They were created with relationship in mind even before they were fashioned.
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Remember Eve was formed to come and be joined to Adam. It seems without man in the picture, they would have no lofty purpose, and they wouldn't have been formed. But men were formed without women in the initial plan.
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So when a woman finally get joined to a man in marriage, her divine purpose seems to be fulfilled cos that was the initial plan - to be joined to a man and be his helper.
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But on the other hand, men weren't created to be joined to a woman. Men were created into a purpose without woman in the picture. The primary purpose was to be in charge of the universe, dominate it and fashion out its destiny.

Meanwhile, due to boredom that comes after some deal of hardwork, necessity for leisure now arises, prompting the need to create women, as a companion when bored, an object of pleasure and distraction away from the hard-work inherent in man's purpose.
Women are created for relationship in simple terms. It's their highest goal and ideal that they can't but celebrate with a heart of victory.
In other words, it's a man's world. Feminist no go like this o grin
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by franchasng: 6:59am On Apr 08
Sentientmind:
Hi all, it isn't news women celebrate relationships and marriage more, tends to flaunt it, and for them it is obviously a very huge milestone for them; they see it as a very big achievement.
The reverse is the case for the male folks as most are mostly indifferent and many will prefer to hide it; my question is, why do female value and put so much emphasis on relationship/marriage?

Is it because they have more to gain? Or looking for people to fleece?

Your response/opinion is welcomed.
Both men and women view relationship as achievement depending on who they are dating or got married to. If you marry your dream woman as a man you will be celebrating it lol. Likewise when a woman gets her desired man.


But to be more realistic, women tend to be more fulfilled when they get married than men. So yes women celebrate marriage more than men, but I doubt all ladies celebrate relationship because they are not really sure if the relationship would last and end in marriage or not, so they don't usually celebrate it much except when they are dating a good hearted financially buoyant guy that spend well on them.


And most times men hide their relationship to avoid limiting their chances of bedding other ladies they find desirable, not because they are not happy being married. Having kids seems to be one of the greatest joy most men derive from being married lol.


Conclusively, women celebrate marriage more than relationship because marriage makes them fulfilled and gives them peace of mind. No matter how rich a woman is, she still feel empty if she is not happily married with kids. Good husband and kids make a woman feel more fulfilled and secured than being rich and single. But being financially rich alone can make a man feel fulfilled because with enough steady income he can continue to enjoy constant sex with his desired type of women and even have kids till old age, but same cannot be said about women, their time tic very fast.

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Pweetiedude(m): 7:04am On Apr 08
SimplyFacts:
To males, singleness equals peace of mind.

To females, singleness equals being broke.


Tell me, why won't the latter gender celebrate?
E get as e be
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by ImpactCrater: 7:08am On Apr 08
Peace081:

In one word, your mama n sisters na Animal abi??

yes, just because women are related to me does not exempt them.

fvck off with your emotional blackmail. so if you personalise it to his family then you think you have manipulated him to change the facts abi?

YES, They are all animals and they also benefit feom the game of manipulation like all other women.

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by ruffDiamond: 7:08am On Apr 08
yes na.they believe them don finally catch one MAGA,(.ATM)
awon werey olosho lot
all of them dey useless

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by MrNipplesLover(m): 7:08am On Apr 08
Abeg where are the women on Nairaland?

I'm not seeing them comments.

Abi dem changed their (F) to (M) before commenting?

What's up with you, ladies? cool



I no like as dem guys dey tell una stories here oooh.
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Rodwave: 7:10am On Apr 08
bluefilm:


Well, like I said to you earlier, you can continue living in your DELUSION.

But...

It won't make anywhere younger.

It won't make you less uglier.

It won't even wipe away the hardship you may be going through.

You may have all the wonderful careers in the world and all the wonderful certificates in the world but that will not stop a man from taking just one look at you and conclude that this old cargo here is just way too old for me.

It is the hard truth... the hard PAINFUL truth.

Haha. You be wicked somebody grin
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by tutudesz: 7:15am On Apr 08
jeff1607:



Imagine a man at 55 and his first child is 2 years old
No minister of 72 marry 18 year old
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by NiRfreak(m): 7:21am On Apr 08
PoliteActivist:


You forgot this part of the bible, Genesis 5:
In the day that God created man, He made him in His own likeness. Male and female He created them, and He blessed them. And in the day they were created, He called them “man.”

Use your common sense: Do you think it is possible to have man without having woman at same exact time??
It is like saying you can have up without down; or positive without negative, etc
Going by the Bible's logic, it's very safe to say Adam was created long before Eve came into the picture. This is not a point to drag. Adam had been performing his duty until God realise he becomes bored being alone.
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Klass99(f): 7:26am On Apr 08
NiRfreak:

Women weren't made to be a loner or an island. They were created with relationship in mind even before they were fashioned.
.
Remember Eve was formed to come and be joined to Adam. It seems without man in the picture, they would have no lofty purpose, and they wouldn't have been formed. But men were formed without women in the initial plan.
.
So when a woman finally get joined to a man in marriage, her divine purpose seems to be fulfilled cos that was the initial plan - to be joined to a man and be his helper.
.
But on the other hand, men weren't created to be joined to a woman. Men were created into a purpose without woman in the picture. The primary purpose was to be in charge of the universe, dominate it and fashion out its destiny.

Meanwhile, due to boredom that comes after some deal of hardwork, necessity for leisure now arises, prompting the need to create women, as a companion when bored, an object of pleasure and distraction away from the hard-work inherent in man's purpose.
Women are created for relationship in simple terms. It's their highest goal and ideal that they can't but celebrate with a heart of victory.

I think and feel differently about this, the woman Eve was created because of the man Adam.

God saw his loneliness and dissatisfaction with having to relate with just animals and The Lord alone, so he created him a companion.

The woman met the man on ground already so she never experienced the same feelings of loneliness and dissatisfaction Adam did.

I smiled at a few comments, men are mostly the ones who have a problem being alone and by themselves, they tend to crave companionship the same way Adam did.

A senior colleague (divorced male) was trying to date and get into an exclusive relationship again, every few months I would hear about a different woman he was spending time with and I asked him one day why was he trying so hard to be in a relationship and he said men weren't designed to be alone or by themselves, they don't do well on their own and he was caught up in that situation.

My colleague said so not me and coming from a man who was in his 40s at the time I didn't doubt him, the story of Adam & Eve's creation validates what that colleague said.

Caveat: I usually drop my thoughts and move, no time for arguments or nastiness. Nairaland users who engage like Tinubu's roadside touts without decorum or good manners will always be ignored. I get a real kick from ignoring mentions by such fools cheesy NiRfreak this is not directed at you, them fools know themselves.

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Adaptsnews(m): 7:49am On Apr 08
Lol cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
Well, men are the ones spending heavily. In most marriages, women don't spend a dim so they have nothing to worry about. Maybe the man is thinking about how to pay the debt after the wedding ceremony. grin grin grin grin


Always visit https://www.adaptsnews.com

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by engrchykae(m): 7:52am On Apr 08
Dozzywest:
Women are a mystery, they get their completion and full satisfaction in life when a man is around. Be it boyfriend, husband, brother or son. They are always desperate for male attention and this explains why they use artificial beauty and enhancements with strange items like kayamata to hold men down continuously. Their entire being revolves around the validation from men. WO-MAN. "From man".
the woman is a vessel (womb)to be filled by the man
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by phazotron(m): 7:55am On Apr 08
zed7:
Women are more emotional. Women take relationships with their loved ones and family more seriously. That's the way they are wired. Everything isn't about gold digging.


See this lie
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Sterope(f): 7:56am On Apr 08
Probably biology and/or society
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by Omoluabiii: 8:06am On Apr 08
If you look at it critically,
the man has little tn gain in marriage...
But that the burden that nature tied to our necks.
A man take care of a girl, who will get married to a man again who will continue the struggle, then she gave birth to sons who will finish the struggle after the man has left.
The strategy is marriage...
Nature dealings with men is too harsh
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 8:28am On Apr 08
NiRfreak:

Going by the Bible's logic, it's very safe to say Adam was created long before Eve came into the picture. This is not a point to drag. Adam had been performing his duty until God realise he becomes bored being alone.

My friend Adam couldn't have been created a second before Eve. He was given a penis; where was that supposed to go?? Look throughout nature - a positive can't exis without concurrent existence of a negative. And see your non sequitur - God who knows everything suddenly REALISED he made a mistake - and the type of mistake that even a child won't make!
Read your Bible, there are two different stories of creation in the bible. The second one (which starts at Genesis 5:2) says man and woman were created at same time, and that makes more sense.
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 8:31am On Apr 08
Women are sexual objects

Men are success objects
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 8:32am On Apr 08
Omoluabiii:
If you look at it critically,
the man has little tn gain in marriage...
But that the burden that nature tied to our necks.
A man take care of a girl, who will get married to a man again who will continue the struggle, then she gave birth to sons who will finish the struggle after the man has left.
The strategy is marriage...
Nature dealings with men is too harsh

Man gains authority, dominance and responsibility in marriage

Men are judged by their burden of performance, that's why men must earn respect and are not given respect because of their genitals unlike women who just are ND have inherent value
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 8:35am On Apr 08
jeff1607:



Imagine a man at 55 and his first child is 2 years old

And so

Marriage is an achievement but it's an achievement for women and not men
Marriage to men is just another business venture

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Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 8:36am On Apr 08
Happy2020:
For some reason, marriage is the goal for most Nigerian females. For many reasons, one of which is they’re just lazy and they think a pussy can carry them through a marriage and is the trade off for being taken care of.

That's women's game, women's game is to lockdown a high value man post sex ie what can she add to her man asides from sex
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 8:37am On Apr 08
daddymummy:
Yes.

Women value relationship because it pays them better than most jobs.

A man's uncontrollable desire to have sex was given to him so that he would be forced to spent huge sum of money on women in the name of a relationship, just to have sex with the woman.

Women are the beneficiaries of men's unreasonable desire to have sex.

The thing is that the only reason men go into relationship is to have sex.

But I thank God that I knew this thing earlier enough, that was why I didn't start having sex when my mates started.

Now, I am free from such bondage that men are in.

U have testerones dude
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by BLOODYSPERM: 8:39am On Apr 08
McSquishi:


Culture convinces women they are more valuable upon getting married or “winning” a man’s heart.

It’s funny because if a woman isn’t married it is usually men who will ridicule her for it. Men push women to get married early, telling us we aren’t getting any younger. Men spread the lie that even a rich woman has no value or hasn’t fulfilled her purpose if she has no husband.

Men take time to make all these write ups and get women to sign up for courses on attracting men for marriage. Men warn women not to be too obsessed with career and education that they end up missing out on a husband

So it’s not just that women celebrate it most, women are pressured into it most. Nigerian culture teaches girls from very early on that their main purpose, their main value, is to please a man. while boys are raised to know they have value just standing alone.

However if a man is not excited to be in a relationship/marriage and even hides it then it’s because he’s immature and not ready to settle down. That’s not a sign of manhood but childishness..



Mordern women and the blaming game
Always blaming men, society, culture, religion, Patriachy in any field they feel insecured and inferior including marriage
Ignoring evolutionary scientific realities of the clear and distinct Biological , psychological and physical differences between men and women
Men are abstractive that why they are generally drawn to things such as building civilization that's why we choose STEM(science, Technology Engineering and Mathematics),women are solipsistic and they are generally drawn to people and relationships such as marriage that why they choose arts and humanities

Women menstruous Hypergamous realities makes them desire to settle down for a long term provisioning mate , don't fight or question nature
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by PoliteActivist: 8:40am On Apr 08
luminouz:

What nonsense is this? undecided

The bolded talked of animals. He made them male and female. Adam was made alone and Eve was made from his ribs,much later, to complement him and be his companion. I'm not into some gender Bullshiit but I need to set your record straight. Genesis 2:20-23
N.B: I have heard reports of a certain woman called Lilith who was made at the same time with Adam but if true, why the need to make Eve?

The guy you quoted nailed the subject so hard,I couldn't even add any damn thing to it. He is so right.

My friend use your common sense sometimes. Stop lying in the name of faith. The bolded is clearly talking of MAN not animals, and clearly states so. Let me just repost this:

My friend Adam couldn't have been created a second before Eve. He was given a penis; where was that supposed to go?? Look throughout nature - a positive can't exis without concurrent existence of a negative. And see your non sequitur - God who knows everything suddenly REALISED he made a mistake - and the type of mistake that even a child won't make!
Read your Bible, there are two different stories of creation in the bible. The second one (which starts at Genesis 5:2) says man and woman were created at same time, and that makes more sense.
Re: Why Do Females Celebrate Relationships And Marriage More? Opinion by demmymoney(m): 8:41am On Apr 08
PoliteActivist:


My friend use your common sense sometimes. Stop lying in the name of faith. The bolded is clearly talking of MAN not animals, and clearly states so. Let me just repost this:

My friend Adam couldn't have been created a second before Eve. He was given a penis; where was that supposed to go?? Look throughout nature - a positive can't exis without concurrent existence of a negative. And see your non sequitur - God who knows everything suddenly REALISED he made a mistake - and the type of mistake that even a child won't make!
Read your Bible, there are two different stories of creation in the bible. The second one (which starts at Genesis 5:2) says man and woman were created at same time, and that makes more sense.

Wats ur point exactly

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