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I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Playloaded: 3:13pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Taking to social media to narrate her experience, Jane revealed that the man blatantly declined to pay for what she ate, saying he would only settle his own bill. A Nigerian lady identified as Jane on Twitter has lamented after she went on a date with a man and he told her he can't pay for what she ate. Taking to social media to narrate her experience, Jane revealed that the man blatantly declined to pay for what she ate, saying he would only settle his own bill. She revealed that she only requested for a plate of fish pepper soup, grilled chicken, rice and drinks. The lady shared; ”Went on a date with this guy and he legit told me that he can’t pay for what I ate, who does that?” See Reactions Below; "@OtuStephanie1: An Igbo guy I went on a movie date with…..buh it was fine cause I paid for 2 different movies that day, and he paid for his too………when the date was done, I blocked him everywhere. It’s no crime if he tells me to come with my money, imagine I wasn’t with my card. @EginOfficial: This should have been agreed upon before setting out. What if you don’t have cash on you? @white_wears: Lol. Why invite her on a date if you can’t pay for her food. Except she ate too much tho. Is it not normal? @blaqcrystal_: That’s why you need money and you eat what you can pay for, no be every guy get sense" https://playloaded.com.ng/i-went-on-a-date-with-a-guy-and-he-told-me-he-cant-pay-for-what-i-ate-nigerian-lady/ 2 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by MickzyDonald: 3:17pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
SMA spotted, but the guy is to harsh o |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Pierohandsome: 3:22pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
People will just be cooking up stories just to trend 9 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by donbachi(m): 3:24pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
How him go pay.when u ordered the entire menu. 9 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by WoundedLamb: 3:37pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Please, don't go out of your way to invite someone for a date and then ask them to pay after eating. That's not being smart. That's just outdoing yourself. If you have financial constraints, find a way to say it ahead of the date (or signal when they start ordering beyond what you can afford). This way, the invited party would know to take a bottle of water or come with thier money if they must eat more (or even decide not to come if hunger is their problem). It's a different thing if you guys agreed to meet somewhere for a chat and then they start eating like they haven't seen food in a long time. But if you asked them to join you for lunch/dinner, then you've assumed the positon of the host (similar to inviting someone to your place). Don't invite them where they wouldn't normally go to eat and then ask them to pay afterwards. This isn’t a matter of entitlement, it's just courtesy. Now, as the invited party, do NOT ever go out with someone empty handed, always go with your card. And again, do not order what you can't pay for. If the place is too expensive, look at the person that invited you and try not spend more than they're spending on themselves. 22 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Fantasticcc: 3:41pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
The guy is a king, it will keep getting worse for you clowns claiming feminist and equality... 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Nobody: 4:07pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Poor guy is managing pomo and you are ordering for chicken and pepper soup, the guy go just dey look like ...hmmm OYO 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by BigYash: 5:33pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
African China once said: Omo Na Fake story. |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by JohnnyPalmer: 5:41pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Probably a case of what I ordered versus what I got He was so disappointed in what he got he refused to pay to maintain his sanity 3 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 5:47pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Playloaded: It's only in Africa where a grown woman (not a child o) will go on a date without holding her own money. Even worse she wouldn't even check to see if she can afford the place they are going to. Poverty na bastard! Ladies, it's in your own interest to ask who's paying before shifting your flabby ass. Either that or you just bill him from the beginning so that it is clear that you are hoeing instead of trying to finesse the whole thing. If it is right for you to automatically assume that the man will pay, then it is also right for the man to automatically assume that he will fvck you if he pays! 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by 2buffagain(m): 5:49pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Is she a child? Why will she leave her house without having cash on her? These are the idiots that end up stranded and picked up for rituals. Just no fucking brain. 2 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Nobody: 5:59pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
2buffagain:What Do U Expect? She Don See Father Christmas. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by tonyson010(m): 6:03pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
She wanted to take advantage of the guy. The guy being a sharp guy acted immediately. Some ladies only use crayfish to cook, but once U ACCEPT to take them out, she starts ordering every menu. 6 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Khd95(m): 6:04pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
this man should be on a hall of fame for STINGY MEN ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA he deserve 'THE ORDER OF THE MEMBER OF NIGER' 1 Like |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Duplexxx: 6:29pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Oboy this kind thing can pain o Chai this guy you wicked o She go still punish you bed time go reach na My guy you will beg ehm and start crying like 2 years old baby all those bomo will go out from your stomach |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by TalkTalkTwins(m): 6:36pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Some people will come here to remind you of how the guy invited her for the date and bla bla bla The way some ladies complain when they pay for their bills is nauseating 3 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by seunak2016: 6:47pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
guy should just understand blowing 3k or 4k on a girl for the first time won't kill . what if he invite her come aos ,won't he entertain her? 1 Like |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Nobody: 7:33pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Nobody: 9:34pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
That guy is a mungo-park. In his mind now he's smart That's why it's better to let him order for the food himself. I'll know if it's me they'll come and ask for the bill. I've never gone on a date and placed the order. I'll sit and you'll go to the counter or beckon on the waiter yourself to serve us. Next time, go prepared with enough cash or your debit card and try not to eat more than you can afford. Most importantly, let him place the order. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by DaInferno(m): 10:01pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
the country has lost all form of solidarity...thought most of yall agreed the future is female? 1 Like |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by habsydiamond(m): 10:47pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Rice, grilled chicken, pepper soup, water, drinks, ah ah!! Na how many compartment of stomach u get She no even get shame, she dey mention Wetin she chop yeye goat.. In case u no know na 4 compartment stomach u get just like my mama goat.... 4 Likes
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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by omaclarry(m): 10:49pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
So when it comes to billing no more patriarchy, feminism takes back seat, future is female jump window, gender equality travel... I dont even knw wat nigeria females want. You no wan serve juju but u wan chop sacrifice 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by ibkonekt(m): 10:52pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Duplexxx:that's why men know that women only have a pre-used vagina to offer. he probably sensed that she would not offer him the vagina either way and decided to cut his loss. 6 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by IamRandy: 11:06pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
In Mosdii Voice...All Nigerian girls are USELESS 4 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by minasu190: 11:11pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
The guy is a member of stringy men association of Nigeria, |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by minasu190: 11:12pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
The guy is a member of stingy men association of Nigeria, |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by jamiudarex(m): 12:20am On Apr 07, 2021 |
Truvel:
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Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by TheEnygma(m): 7:46am On Apr 07, 2021 |
AsherAmari:So far... This is the smartest comment I have heard from a naija lady concerning this kind of situation. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Ghostrye: 7:50am On Apr 07, 2021 |
They ask you to go on date, you con order food wey nobody ask you to order, dey expect make the maga pay for am. That is why you should double ask 'should I order' before you place any order on a gee's bill |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Ghostrye: 7:53am On Apr 07, 2021 |
AsherAmari:he was actually smart, I'm sure he never asked her to order. Dude was prolly looking @ her ordering like hollup 3 Likes |
Re: I Went On A Date With A Guy And He Told Me He Can’t Pay For What I Ate - Lady by Nobody: 7:58am On Apr 07, 2021 |
Ghostrye: No matter what, he shouldn't have dodged the bill. It wasn't nice of him. 2 Likes |
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