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@op was he always like this? If yes y do you now want him to change or have you changed?
Well you should know your husband better than anyone, talk to him and know where he is coming from i.e his childhood life then you just might know why he's acting the way he is today.
Since you said he might read the comments I'll say this to oga, when we are at the beach and we scoop the beautiful sand with our hands, we have more sand with our hands open and gradually reduce the sand unknowingly while squeezing. Let's be free and open with what we love and want so we can get more.
Moreover it doesn't look supportive when we don't encourage and listen to our partners in such circumstances as narrated by the op.
Take care and good luck

yemmit90:
I could see alot of home breakers here. @op, please dont listen to anyone telling you to confront or disobey this arrangement with him, alot of them cant do what they say on internet.

Be patience with him, he will soon get tired of his rules. Maybe your marriage is still young, a time will come that he wont even get time for these rules as responsibilities keep pilling up.

A lot brother. Look at all the derogatory adjectives used on the man! 'Awon da bi mo se da'

Hian. You go fear comments na

Domestic violence.. loading loading din din din.......

Each home has its own uniqueness. One question though, do you contribute to the finances in the home? If yes, the business benefits the family so you may want to explain why sometimes you may have to be late provided it isn't happening all the time. I pray God grant you the wisdom to discuss it without being perceived wrongly.

How does a husband give his adult wife curfew at 4pm for that matter? OP you saw these signs before and probably thought it was love. I pray he changes. This makes no sense whatsoever to me.

Gently tell him before the time that you will be missing the curfew,find out why he isn't trusting you enough and make amends if possible,also involve him in the business,let him come around once in awhile.


On a lighter note....I hope the pet name you call him isn't "Daddy" because he's daddying you

When you aren't in prison. It is well with you oh.

any day you know you won't return home before 4pm, call him before 3:30pm and tell him.

letting him call you before he's informed will give him the feeling that you wouldn't tell him if he didn't call/ask