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| What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 7:32am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Hello guys please I will make this very short. There’s this girl I met recently and I’m really in love with her but the issue is that she has a boyfriend and I have asked her to me my girlfriend but she refused saying she don’t want heartbreak. What I’m trying to say is that if she doesn’t want to me my girlfriend why is she always giving me attention? Like whenever I ask her to come around she will always be there and if she couldn’t make it she always apologize. She’s caring but I’m just confused as to why she doesn’t want to be my girlfriend. I’m thinking about distancing myself from her. Please I need advise. Update: so I have decided to just keep her as a friend. I don’t call her anymore and I hardly reply her messages on WhatsApp. She’s the one always coming close to me, I do flirt with her sometimes though. But the issue now is that she complains that I hardly reply her message on social media and whenever I talk about her boyfriend she always frown. Please note: I no longer talk to her about being my girlfriend. My plan is whenever I have the opportunity nha to just chop and clean mouth. My problem is why does she frown whenever I jokingly talk about her boyfriend? |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 7:33am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Insult is allowed. I just need an advice. Abi make I just chop her clean mouth? But I don’t just find her in such category of girls that I will use and dump. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Duplexxx: 7:41am On Apr 11, 2021 |
What do you really want from my niggarr Let------------ me------------- know--------------oh |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by inumidun2010(m): 7:44am On Apr 11, 2021 |
When first service don almost finish in LFC... Ask the Girl, why is she still with her boyfriend and still giving you attention  ? |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Toluwashe778: 7:49am On Apr 11, 2021 |
She might just need a casual friend. It doesn't mean she is trying to pull any stunt If u want to distance urself, pls do. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by kalu61(m): 8:01am On Apr 11, 2021 |
You are her back up plan or bestie. More just like a second option. Some ladies spread their cards. Man up and start ignoring her if her attention is causing you emotional friction. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 8:05am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Duplexxx: |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 8:08am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Toluwashe778: I just weak for some girls sha. She always buy me things mostly edibles. Sometimes she will cook and ask if she should bring some for me? I don’t really get. 1 Like |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by donbachi(m): 8:17am On Apr 11, 2021 |
No be every chicken dem dey catch quick.just dey drop corns everywhere.she go chop enter inside.give her time. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by mosdii(m): 8:34am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 6 Likes |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by chatinent: 8:36am On Apr 11, 2021 |
She has a bf. You want her because you now battle with bf to the trophy getter. She turns you down. She's fly now. You feel she's giving you attention. She might be just human and normal. You inquired of what to do. My advice: are you ready to settle down? If no, focus on your life. If yes, focus on your life and choose sb else. I no know why girlfriend matter dey sweet una esp when dem tell una say they are dating. Stop seeing girls as trophies! Stop forcing yourself on people. A time will come when people will want you to themselves, and you'll only have to select the best alternative. If she's with sb, and still rejects you, that's your bad...it's not luck trying, it's not respecting one's self. Have a nice century. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by SeunOSEWApenis(f): 8:42am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Pound her slimy puss*y 1st and watch her beg for your love. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by nappy760(m): 8:50am On Apr 11, 2021 |
Everyone knows women enjoy attention, whether married or single. It's only fools don't giveaway their time freely to someone else's girlfriend. She has told you she has a boyfriend yet you still persist on dating .Best be sure another guy will come and take her the same way you are trying to do. Don't come back then and start crying wolf. Karma is real. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by djevino(m): 5:50pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Wahala be like waytin again? |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by NiRfreak(m): 5:57pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Jimmy2211:The best way to behave well is to assume or approach her like you just want to chop clean mouth. If you think she's too perfect for that...you will lose the battle, cos u will get clingy, simpy and turn her off... especially now that she has a guy. Just play around her, don't push her..chop her clean mouth..if she like u then, she may stay. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Someone caring about you doesn't mean she wants to br your girlfriend. If she says she is in a relationship, then leave her alone and maybe hang around, waiting. Maybe one day. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by anthonyuncle(m): 7:37pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
them don open door for you, you still dey ask whether make you come in |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by frozen70(f): 7:51pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Jimmy2211: Some one that obeys your calls, what other things do you want her to show to you before you will understand that she is your girl friend Well probably she wants to have you incase the other guy wants to break her heart, she already have a shoulder to rest on I also think she doesn't know how stable the other relationship will be Hence she is staying by your side 1 Like |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 11, 2021 |
Jimmy2211:Jimmy2211. Take It Easy, She Has Interest In U But She Don't Want To Show U D Feelings Immediately, So Dat U Think U Won't Think She Is Cheap Or See Her As A LovePeddler. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 8:16am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Truvel: Thanks bro |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 8:17am On Apr 12, 2021 |
frozen70:Well I will keep observing. Thanks by the way |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 8:17am On Apr 12, 2021 |
anthonyuncle: Lol open door keh. You so some girls are confuse |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Yippeedaniel(m): 8:19am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Shift the pants. And be a man |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Sluvist(m): 11:28am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Giving you attention at any time you wanted it is enough for you to understand that she values you. You can capitalize on that to do whatever is in your mind. She don't have to tell you verbally, but through action. You are the most confused Nairaland i heard from in this year. 1 Like |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by tunize(m): 11:59am On Apr 12, 2021 |
Bros she already told you she has a guy in her life stop putting pressure on her. |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by anthonyuncle(m): 5:33pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
Jimmy2211:you are the one that is confused |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 6:30pm On Apr 12, 2021 |
anthonyuncle: Throw more light bro |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 6:43am On May 01, 2021 |
Jimmy2211: |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by Jimmy2211: 4:19pm On May 01, 2021 |
I need replies please |
| Re: What Does She Really Want? by iRepNaija1: 5:08pm On May 01, 2021 |
OP, first things first: you are not in love with her and you never were. Please use that term when you actually mean it because how can you love someone you just recently met? What you're experiencing is lust. Second, leave her alone. She's in a relationship with someone else. Would you appreciate it if a man was flirting continuously with your girlfriend? Don't put that karma in the air. Stop responding to her. Stop engaging with her. Focus on dating single women, your job, and your hobbies and soon enough this girl you're lusting after will be just a memory. Good luck. |
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