PrimadonnaO:
See, first develop friendship with a girl. Give her a reasonable amount of time to get to know you.

Depending on the quality of communications you have, a month or 3 months max should suffice. If she's begun to like you, then trust me she's patiently waiting for you to ask her out.

Then you clearly ask her out.

If she tells you no, and the reason is not because she has a boyfriend already or she just got out of a relationship and needs some time to let wafer flow under the bridge before starting a new relationship, then please quit chasing, because she saw the question coming and has prepared for it.

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You can decide to hang around and strengthen the friendship so you ask again another time, but the chances of her stance changing is quite low, and you may simply end up investing more resources on a wild goose chase.

P.S This only applies to quality babes, not the ones who;

play hard-to-get for a living,

or the ones who think they should give any guy that asks them out a try.

or the ones who say yes because their birthday is close or they want to bill you for a new phone.

Xenry:
Nairaland is a funny forum where everyone has sense but would decide to act dumb and crazy sometimes just to catch some cruise, Lol.

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I appreciate your comment.

seyi360:
Men have varying pursuit capacity, some have a short fuse while some have developed thick skin for insults upon insults from women. It has been said many times that women mean yes when they say no at times. How long shall a man continue to read in between the lines of a woman. What are the red lights a man should watch out for?

Magnoliaa:


I don't give a red or green light, sha. I give the whole colors of a rainbow.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

Magnoliaa:


I don't give a red or green light, sha. I give the whole colors of a rainbow.

Vulcanheph:

True.... I've had the same experience, i met a girl I liked, got friendly with her and established some sort of connection before telling her how I felt and for 3 consecutive times she kept on telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and Never told me any tangible reason why.... It was annoying because I felt a strong kind of chemistry/connection with her and wouldn't have asked her out if I hadn't.

Bottom line, I simply moved on with my life.... I can't kill myself all because I like a girl.

amrichy:

This is quite an intelligent opinion. But then, how do you know if a girl's response to your proposal is genuine or motivated by ulterior reasons? How do we distinguish "quality babes" from non-quality ones?

Magnoliaa:


Me is three, all three is me, all three is in me, I am in all three, lmaoo. Kai.

Xenry:
When I realized that money is what wears the face of true love nowadays, I started chasing money instead.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

Vulcanheph:

True.... I've had the same experience, i met a girl I liked, got friendly with her and established some sort of connection before telling her how I felt and for 3 consecutive times she kept on telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and Never told me any tangible reason why.... It was annoying because I felt a strong kind of chemistry/connection with her and wouldn't have asked her out if I hadn't.

Bottom line, I simply moved on with my life.... I can't kill myself all because I like a girl.

AustinTexas018:


Wise talk fam... Bigger u i pray

Xenry:
When I realized that money is what wears the face of true love nowadays, I started chasing money instead.

bigpicture001:
I stopped chasing my immediate ex to come back. When I saw sh wouldn't pick or reply my calls or even reply my chats..... Pleas lasted a period of a month and half

I just forgot about her!

Vulcanheph:

True.... I've had the same experience, i met a girl I liked, got friendly with her and established some sort of connection before telling her how I felt and for 3 consecutive times she kept on telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and Never told me any tangible reason why.... It was annoying because I felt a strong kind of chemistry/connection with her and wouldn't have asked her out if I hadn't.

Bottom line, I simply moved on with my life.... I can't kill myself all because I like a girl.

lexxwiz:
When she bills me before accepting the relationship.