Yanbaba4u:
Girls in my department really made a mockery of me, I invite people tire from my 200lv, non showed up, ask few out all declined, even my girlfriend then started showing attitude, until she dumped my sorry ass �
Poverty is bad, fast forward to present day, boy don freshen up, come fine like madt, all the girls that turned me down started wondering, because the way I take change ee, the thing sef shock me,
They started seeking my face, even begging for visits, but I had to ignore them and face the one who later accepted me for who I am, I am with her now, and have no intention of cheating.

Yanbaba4u:
Girls in my department really made a mockery of me, I invite people tire from my 200lv, non showed up, ask few out all declined, even my girlfriend then started showing attitude, until she dumped my sorry ass �
Poverty is bad, fast forward to present day, boy don freshen up, come fine like madt, all the girls that turned me down started wondering, because the way I take change ee, the thing sef shock me,
They started seeking my face, even begging for visits, but I had to ignore them and face the one who later accepted me for who I am, I am with her now, and have no intention of cheating.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

Greatfullheart:
mehn when i go bd likf you? Am down, i cant even walk up to a girl an say my feelings. Am tired of me.

alfamale:
Don’t go chasing butterflies; nourish your garden, and butterflies will come.

shawante:
Na unizik yanbaba be this?

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

BinamRex:


Correct guy. Oya, abeg show me he way. Teach me how to fish.

PrimadonnaO:
See, first develop friendship with a girl. Give her a reasonable amount of time to get to know you.

Depending on the quality of communications you have, a month or 3 months max should suffice. If she's begun to like you, then trust me she's patiently waiting for you to ask her out.

Then you clearly ask her out.

If she tells you no, and the reason is not because she has a boyfriend already or she just got out of a relationship and needs some time to let wafer flow under the bridge before starting a new relationship, then please quit chasing, because she saw the question coming and has prepared for it.

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You can decide to hang around and strengthen the friendship so you ask again another time, but the chances of her stance changing is quite low, and you may simply end up investing more resources on a wild goose chase.

P.S This only applies to quality babes, not the ones who;

play hard-to-get for a living,

or the ones who think they should give any guy that asks them out a try.

or the ones who say yes because their birthday is close or they want to bill you for a new phone.

Yanbaba4u:

No reason their matter for now, engage yourself in a skill that can fetch you enough money, or go into entrepreneur, trust me you will see the difference.
Money get e own spirit.

Volkswagen90:
give me ur rainbow then let settle this year.

Settle with a person that's committed multiple abortions?

Did your head nack floor?

obinna58:

My nigga

dannyrhymes600:

xenry I have been observing your comments for sometime now, you are among the few people on nairaland that still have sense. keep it up bruv

mrdharkchild:
Omo!! E nor easy again o.
Na hiding of my fine face I de do now o.
E nor easy at all.
But Sha, God pass them.
Thank God for weed.

I'm sure to date a white girl Sha. Nigerian girls are too worldly n worthless. U can't even spark an intelligent conversation these days with them.

Handsomecole:
Chased during school and five years even after school; one day she came over spent two nights (no sex) we went on am expensive date , we talked about dating she said she was gonna think about it and she left.

I posted photos of her at the date on my insta she saw it got angry and asked me to take it down.

Since then I lock up...

PrimadonnaO:


Well to be honest, I feel everyone should be able to gauge chemistry. You should be able to know when a girl really likes you.

If communication is strained... she's probably not feeling you.

If you always beg to see her... she's not feeling you or there's someone else occupying her time and mind.

If she starts on from the get-go with billing - high chance she dates people primarily for financial gratification.

In the way you're getting to know her, if she's not also deliberately trying to know you - high chance she doesn't put much thought into dating and just says yes to almost anyone who asks her out.

People should be intentional about dating... before the relationship starts, and during the relationship.

Hmmmmmmmmmm. No telltale, specific, fine-tuned signs? How about chameleonic girls? Yunno ladies are inherently deceptive. You can hardly 'catch' them? What if a lady is just being extremely extremely friendly, she likes to meet people, is flirty and just being herself by trying to get to know the person in return?

Feelings can misfire oh. And you can misreceive them.

Strained communication? Okay, it's under probability. I can't seem to come up with any other reason for that now...

Begging to see, high billings... hm.

If she's deliberately trying to know, will that not come off as being too willing, free and alladat, that the guy will lose interest? And hey, remember men always say they are the chasers. Something something about it giving them thrills. I don't know, though. Do you believe it? Where do you put that in this case?

So, I'm your student, teach me...

Splitmind:
Try this, just stop initiating conversation with her and wait for her to start it, either calls, text or meeting personally.

If she doesn't say anything just drop her like that, many men make themselves into tools by chasing women who aren't giving back what they get.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

alfamale:
Never chase a lady; let her be if she doesn’t wanna be with you. Find a woman with a common interest. Don’t start a race you can’t finish!

Yanbaba4u:

for this nation now dem no dey teach how to fish oo, just find something that you have passion for, build it and repackage it, motivate yourself, move out of your comfort zone and make a move.

Xenry:
When I realized that money is what wears the face of true love nowadays, I started chasing money instead.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

bigpicture001:
I stopped chasing my immediate ex to come back. When I saw sh wouldn't pick or reply my calls or even reply my chats..... Pleas lasted a period of a month and half

I just forgot about her!

TemmyT002:
The first girl: I told her I like her. She said she will give me answer in a week's time. After one week she said she is dating another guy. I vex delete her number. The guy later impregnated her and dumped her (I am not gloating).

The second girl: I asked her permission to toast her. She said no. I vex delete her number. Na later I realized that she wanted me to try harder.

The third girl said I was too old. She didn't believe I was just four or five years older. Even sent her my ID card. She said no. I ignored her until she later complained about me neglecting her.