PrimadonnaO:
See, first develop friendship with a girl. Give her a reasonable amount of time to get to know you.

Depending on the quality of communications you have, a month or 3 months max should suffice. If she's begun to like you, then trust me she's patiently waiting for you to ask her out.

Then you clearly ask her out.

If she tells you no, and the reason is not because she has a boyfriend already or she just got out of a relationship and needs some time to let wafer flow under the bridge before starting a new relationship, then please quit chasing, because she saw the question coming and has prepared for it.

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You can decide to hang around and strengthen the friendship so you ask again another time, but the chances of her stance changing is quite low, and you may simply end up investing more resources on a wild goose chase.

P.S This only applies to quality babes, not the ones who;

play hard-to-get for a living,

or the ones who think they should give any guy that asks them out a try.

or the ones who say yes because their birthday is close or they want to bill you for a new phone.

Magnoliaa:


Y'all just can't resist. In you trying to teach men to be alfanic, you end up spoiling everything patapata with the need to always punctuate and ceaselessly share tricks you think are effective.

DEMZEE:
Always remember not every lady is fuckable and not every lady will Bleep u

U can't negotiate genuine desire

If she likes u, she won't make rules for u But rather she will break rules for u

Ur intuition will know this

Vulcanheph:
If I open up and tell you 3x and you still say no then I will simply move on and forget about you, I don't care if you're playing "hard to get".....make e no be say because I want eat egg, I go begin worship fowl.

Jesterinjay:
former simp spotted

Magnoliaa:


I don't give a red or green light, sha. I give the whole colors of a rainbow.

Vulcanheph:

True.... I've had the same experience, i met a girl I liked, got friendly with her and established some sort of connection before telling her how I felt and for 3 consecutive times she kept on telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and Never told me any tangible reason why.... It was annoying because I felt a strong kind of chemistry/connection with her and wouldn't have asked her out if I hadn't.

Bottom line, I simply moved on with my life.... I can't kill myself all because I like a girl.

Acecards:
You caught her cheating and you are still the one begging ?

investorMK:
. that guy na big simp....
I mean girl never gree for u ....u don dey post her pix ....
who does that?

Xenry:
When I realized that money is what wears the face of true love nowadays, I started chasing money instead.

Handsomecole:
Chased during school and five years even after school; one day she came over spent two nights (no sex) we went on am expensive date , we talked about dating she said she was gonna think about it and she left.

I posted photos of her at the date on my insta she saw it got angry and asked me to take it down.


Since then I lock up...

Sabpet:


Baba na de oil for deh vessel u jux drop like dah ✌�✌�

Splitmind:
Try this, just stop initiating conversation with her and wait for her to start it, either calls, text or meeting personally.

If she doesn't say anything just drop her like that, many men make themselves into tools by chasing women who aren't giving back what they get.

Tbvxl:





Funny right? I wanted her to admit her mistakes and I was even ready to give her another chance. But the bastard didn't know I was doing her a favor. Funny enough the guy she was seeing the has his own main GF ,so my babe was like a side chick to the guy. I saw this coming and I did everything possible to let her know but she thought I was depriving her happiness.

Tbvxl:
I give up easily bruvs!
The last time I had myself stressed over a lady was my ex. After she broke up with me because I caught her cheating,but still I wanted her back like mad. In a nutshell I pleaded with her from Feb till April,and everything got worse this month. But if it were to be other ladies,I'd give up easily. I hate to be taken outta my comfort zone

Acidosis:
+ Stop chasing women. Make her see reasons to like/date you and if she can't relate, quit trying. You're not the only man doing the chasing so unless you really love competition in this life, you should quit.

+ Don't spend your life trying to convince anyone you're the best human being out there (truth is you're not), so quit lying to yourself and simply find a common ground to love and stay true to each other.

+ Some men will always chase so your chasing is useless if she can't make up her mind to be with you without you incessantly chasing like a loosed cow.

Genesiis:
I chase after Jesus, and he has given me everything I need. Love, peace, joy, health, a good Job, safety, just name it. And he will help me find the right partner when the time comes. I will not give room for the devil through chasing after the flesh(women)

euwalaka:
I STOPPED AFTER BEING EXHAUSTED. NO MORE GAS TO CONTINUE

chronian:
Lies lies everywhere.

amrichy:

Every point you have made is very sensible and I'm beginning to think you might be a relationship expert (are you?). If you don't mind, I want to seek your wise counsel on this matter:
If after "gauging chemistry" (to use your words), a guy realizes that a girl he loves so much doesn't like him, is he supposed to give up on her just like that (and look for some other girl that would like him) or is it wise for the guy to try different approaches to get the girl to like him (or at least, agree to be with him)?

PataAlhajaKeji:


Simp extrordinaire ... babe cheat on you, na you still dey beg her to stay.

You no get sense at at all.

Amukunmẹkọ oshi ni ẹ!

Tbvxl:







Agreed I was a simp. But you know that saying that you can never advice one who is in love .

I loved this bitch like madt!
Sha I was a simp in a nutshell

Enyimbafc:
I stoped chasing girls,after collecting phone numbers of about 12 girls in two months but whenever i called them most did not pick their calls,even those that give me green,red,blue and black lights.The don't even care to call back,i don't have any other option rather than to delete the phone numbers of all the females in my phone except my mother.

How about chameleonic girls? Yunno ladies are inherently deceptive

You can hardly 'catch' them?

What if a lady is just being extremely extremely friendly, she likes to meet people, is flirty and just being herself by trying to get to know the person in return?

Feelings can misfire oh. And you can misreceive them.

Strained communication? Okay, it's under probability. I can't seem to come up with any other reason for that now...

If she's deliberately trying to know, will that not come off as being too willing, free and alladat, that the guy will lose interest? And hey, remember men always say they are the chasers. Something something about it giving them thrills.I don't know, though. Do you believe it? Where do you put that in this case?