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|Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 3:01pm On Apr 12, 2021|
I read a post by lovethaa regarding him been disgusted by his girlfriend's past and how lots of peeps were bashing him about not been "emotionally matured" because he wouldn't accept trash and stood on his own levels. Oh well, well I'll use the medium to say that I've also decided to break up with my girlfriend ever since she fell into my hole and admitted that she would leave me if a test result came out and certified me as SS. now firstly, I take good care of this lady,give her good sex, do what I can financially and she's all emotionally invested in the relationship. Always even telling me that if I broke up with her ,it would tell on her blah blah blah,but I observed her and realized that reverse would be the case if she did the breaking up. She's just after who dumps who,not because she cares. Now I told her I didn't know my genotype and certainly I can't be SS because the type of hustling I use my brain do,AA go envy. Dick power in her life nko? SS na story. But I went ahead to ask her if she would still remain with me if I came out as SS, babe was all coyish and non straight forward, told me the break up would be mutual as she can't marry an SS as it would have effect on the children. That's totally understandable from my side but I instantly saw that suggesting adoption to this babe would be a waste of time as she's obviously one of the type of women who sees marriage as an achievement and trophy talkless of suggesting adoption and never giving birth through the womb. I learnt that everyone will always be out for their own interests. My advice to lovethaa, fuvxk everybody who describes u as judgmental. Would your ex remain with u if she learns u have 2-3 children with different babymamas?
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by squash47(m): 3:41pm On Apr 12, 2021|
so, you expected her to marry you even if u are SS and she is AS ?
don't you know the implications it will have on the children ?
it is now clear to me, that your babe is smarter than you.
you as a man ought to have known that As and SS is a bad combination for marriage.
Also, you are expecting her to opt for adoption and prevent herself from conceiving and giving birth like every Normal woman does. so that she will make you happy ?
Guy, you are selfish.
if u are AS, look for an AA lady to settle down with.
your babe is a smart lady.
even smarter than you from my assessment.
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by Lovethaa: 4:03pm On Apr 12, 2021|
Bro .. thanks . I owe you
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 4:15pm On Apr 12, 2021|
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by SavageResponse(m): 4:16pm On Apr 12, 2021|
My friend go and sit your ass down...the lady told you the truth and you can't handle it.
No tell me - Can you marry a lady who is wombless and cannot give you a child if you know you are physically health and can father a child?
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 4:21pm On Apr 12, 2021|
to yourself you have made sense like this?
Ignoring the fact that u didn't read and comprehend. I dont argue it wouldn't have an implication on d child. And if I was hell bent on having a child still,I wouldnt have expected her to suggest adoption despite all her love hyping and expectations from me but it's alright.obviously u can't read and comprehend. Second ! The bittch is always hell bent she expects me to marry her since I make her happy but it's alright if she chooses to leave me because I'm an SS and there's an option of adoption? Double standard Ewu like u will still castigate me for leaving her if she had no womb .And for u to open ur dirty smelly mouth to tell me I'm not wise and generous as if you know all the sacrifices I have made for her selflessly and how genuine I've been to her shows how mediocre you socially and environmentally are!
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 4:24pm On Apr 12, 2021|
sorry to embarrass you again since it's obvious u can't reason properly. I've shown myself to be a person who believes in adoption and u think I can leave this girlfriend because she's wombless??! I really shame for the pussyy whipped men of today who can't reason
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by SavageResponse(m): 4:33pm On Apr 12, 2021|
This is social media, an anonymous one at that. People write all sorts of things just to be politically correct...when faced with that situation in real life you will realise that talk and action are two very different things!
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 4:50pm On Apr 12, 2021|
sic. If you can't comprehend an explanation u just shut it and sit. E no hard.
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:04pm On Apr 12, 2021|
Calm down, are you AS or SS though?
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by Magnoliaa(f): 12:42am On Apr 13, 2021|
Your sense is not straight forward. I don't even get what you're on about? How does yours relate to that guy's post?
Talking about people only looking out for their self-interest... the similar people I can see here are the lovethaaa guy and your babe. Are YOU the judgemental and selfish one, ni? Your 'babe' is looking out for herself, the same way lovethaaa is looking out for himself. So why are you even advising him to fk anybody that calls him judgemental? Wo.
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by Magnoliaa(f): 12:50am On Apr 13, 2021|
Lol.... no. It is actually a simpy act to stay with a woman who is 'wombless' for whatever reason. Stop trying to be too hard. There are differences in you guys' stories (and even some similarities). But I am not for anyone who's going to leave another because of things like that. Abortion, genotype, past. Your babe and lovethaaa are one and the same to me (it doesn't mean you and the abortion lady are without your flaws).
Wait, sef. It's a test. And she was going to leave you. See. Your babe is judging you the way lovethaaa was judging her, and the girl could be testing him, too.
There are results to the decisions we make sha, whether you marry a person living with sickle cell anemia, a lady that's aborted 15 times, a disabled person (or any other person at all). While I think it is myopic to not want to date such people, you're free to walk away if it's not your tea and can't deal.
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 7:30am On Apr 13, 2021|
It's simpy to stay with a woman whose flaw is no womb despite she happens to be the best woman I've ever dated do far?? And I choose to leave her because her love is shammy and self motivated. Do you even calculate thoroughly before dropping these things? Even if she was testing lovethaa he has the rightful choice of leaving her because what kind of a person would make a choice of aborting 4 good times! And if I turn out to be SS, why should I be judge and stigmatized??;is it my doing?! When people make wrong choices with bad reasons,u chastise them not play the holy holy hypocrite card anyhow.
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by BlueAir: 7:34am On Apr 13, 2021|
I don't know my genotype. I hate needles on me and don't let it touch me until dying moments. And I certainly know I can't be SS. I even doubt AS
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by PrimadonnaO(f): 11:11am On Apr 13, 2021|
That's odd. Please go find out your genotype. You don't want to invest time in a relationship, only to discover at the point of wanting to get married that y'all are incompatible.
And you should take the test in at least two to three different labs. Lots of personal experience have shown that many Nigerian labs make mistakes with genotype testing.
|Re: Everybody's Out For Themselves Regardless Of All The Fake Love by Magnoliaa(f): 1:47pm On Apr 13, 2021|
You simply just want to argue and are not even concerned about understanding others' view points to hold meaningful discussions.
Very convenient for you to single and cancel out a line I made of all the rest of my comment.
Na you know.
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