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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Olofin2(m): 11:21pm On Apr 14
Ishilove:

Years back there was a guy who was chyking me and his breath funked like terribly. When I couldn't bear it anymore, especially when he attempted to steal kisses from me, I chose a day when he was relaxed and doing laundry. I stood a safe distance away from his nasty breath, gave him my most charming smile and tactfully told him "I have been noticing for sometime that you may need to change your toothpaste. It is not giving your mouth a fresh breath".

I sha blamed everything on the toothpaste, but he got the message. He thanked me profusely and although later the breath did not exactly improve, it didn't funk as badly as before.


Wetin you gain if a writer like you can't concoct some phrasings diplomatic enough to create some skin veneer for bad news aimed at exposing such tranquil stupidity or ineffable self-complacency which is the ignorance of their foul breaths?
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Twoclans(f): 11:23pm On Apr 14
luminouz:

Lol.

I heard you don't have big ass that's why I left you alone na. grin

If you have ehn, I go don move to kaduna sharply tongue

You heard wrong my darlyn,park your bags and relocate,let Kaduna experience that your famous ***** tongue

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by whymyheart: 11:24pm On Apr 14
Perfumes or roll on will not solve body odour one just have to take note of soaps and notice kind of foods one eating e.g red meats ,eggs and better to take probiotic every morning before meals cos I had similar problem as man mine was so strong I found it difficult staying around people all I had to do was to stop eating late and I drink hot water and cucumber avoid acidic foods and spicy foods also diary foods that could irritate your bowel but am still studying myself also I loose weight cos I avoid some foods okro and egusi and garri but now I don’t smell much and I always change my towels and use roll on I don’t use one pants twice

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by luminouz(m): 11:26pm On Apr 14
Twoclans:


You heard wrong my darlyn,park your bags and relocate. Let Kaduna experience that your famous ***** tongue

grin grin

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by pally212(m): 11:32pm On Apr 14
Text her
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Tedpgrass: 11:33pm On Apr 14
luminouz:
Lol...are guys the only ones with body and mouth odour ni?

Except OP case, all the testifiers are about men o. grin

Till date, I haven't met any woman with bad breath. I have met one with some damn strong body odour though. It got worse when she sweated, the funk is a mudafucking dunk on me. I just told her to bath more often, and try to relax her mind and not get scared or afraid cuz that's when the funk gets worse.


She has the biggest ass I've had till date. Thick everywhere.

She possibly had IBS..

People mistake the 2. Intermittent flatulence and body odour.

It's likely IBS, if despite maintaining good hygiene and in times of increased stress or anxiety, a gentle whiff comes across... Quite common in those with a bit of junk/ backside?


. For the trimethylaminuria... Below is an excerpt on treatment....
"Treatment for trimethylaminuria is focused on removing and preventing the bad odor. Options for treatment include diet modification, vitamin B12 (riboflavin) supplements, antibiotic treatment, and probiotics. Other supplements such as activated charcoal can help remove extra trimethylamine from the body"..... .Sissons for Medical News Today,. April. 2020
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Apr 14
AfonjaConehead:


No wonder all fishes died when you opened ya mouth. grin
Say no to halitosis,thanks grin


Says the kola chewing flatin0 ape.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by luminouz(m): 11:35pm On Apr 14
Tedpgrass:


She possibly had IBS..

People mistake the 2. Intermittent flatulence and body odour.

It's likely IBS, if despite maintaining good hygiene and in times of increased stress or anxiety, a gentle whiff comes across... Quite common in those with a bit of junk/ backside?


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Irritable bowel syndrome? Don't think that's the case here. She doesnt rush to the toilet to shiit or fart when afraid or stressed na. When she sweats more, She becomes more pungent. There is no gentle whiff anything.The natural funk gets increased to several degrees. I know IBS. She doesn't have that.

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by tunize(m): 11:45pm On Apr 14
BedroomSecret:
Buy her good exfoliating soap, deodorants and perfume, when those ones you bought finishes, she will be used to them and start buying them herself and no one will notice it anymore.

Please, check my signature
o.p said her tears was premium due to the challenges she is facing or u nor sure sey money join the challenge? How can she meet up with buying all this stuff if money is part of her problem?
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by 99thEnemy(m): 11:48pm On Apr 14
Ugaboy:


Zero String SmellySperm.

But does your Sperm truely smell?

grin grin grin
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Busayomipearl(m): 11:48pm On Apr 14
How did you tell us here?
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Deydontknow(m): 11:49pm On Apr 14
Tedpgrass:


She possibly had IBS..

People mistake the 2. Intermittent flatulence and body odour.

It's likely IBS, if despite maintaining good hygiene and in times of increased stress or anxiety, a gentle whiff comes across... Quite common in those with a bit of junk/ backside?


. For the trimethylaminuria... Below is an excerpt on treatment....
"Treatment for trimethylaminuria is focused on removing and preventing the bad odor. Options for treatment include diet modification, vitamin B12 (riboflavin) supplements, antibiotic treatment, and probiotics. Other supplements such as activated charcoal can help remove extra trimethylamine from the body"..... .





Bro you're wise infact one of the wisest I have seen here nl, I wonder why niggas think with deodorant and self higeen you can stop body odor, that's just to an extent. Some you just have to seek medical attention. Because even if they soak you inside detol for ten years if you come out you go still smell... No offense.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Henryosita: 11:56pm On Apr 14
The bible says that my people perish for lack of knowledge. If you believe that fowl odor is due to lack of hygiene then I put it to you that poverty is due to laziness and that examination is the true test of knowledge. My brothers and sisters, I do understand that we try to condemn situations that don't affect us. I will like to see a post where people are been condemned for being poor by the rich. While I agree that unhygienic practices can make someone to stink but let's not forget that alot of people we come across might have known or unknown medical conditions that comtribute to this. Take for instance, trimethylaminuria for instance affects mostly African descendants and the only sign of this disease is odor from every part of the body which is due to a deficiency in a particular liver enzyme. Conditions like diabetes, ketoacidosis, hyperhidrosis, chronic liver disease and intake of certain medications can all lead to development of certain odors and due to the fact that our sense of smell are not used to these odors regularly, it is highlighted and gets our attention fast ( just like when you hear a music for the first time). Someone asked, don't their partner or family notice such odor, but the truth is this, our body is extremely advanced. In medicine, we have a process called downgrade pathways, what it means is that when you are exposed to a particular stimulus constantly, after a while, the body stop responding to it. Also genetic plays a role. Family members tends to have a particular type of body odor and hence can't pick up one another's scent. Again, some people have anosmia which means that they can't smell any thing and other people's sense of smell are selective or doesn't make a big deal out of odor and hence no flight response. So please, next time you come across someone who is not smelling nice, do not immediately conclude that hygiene is the problem rather be open minded. It is a stereotype that still needs to be eradicated from our world. It is very multifactorial. Let try to keep an open mind. If I am to approach someone in this situation, I will wait for a quiet, relaxed and jovial period, when only both of you are present and start by reaffirming my friendship and best interest. Ask the person if he/she is sick or have a chronic illness like irritable bowel syndrome, inflammatory bowel disease or small intestinal bacteria overgrowth as these three things can cause leaky gut syndrome ( which allows gases and toxic from the colon to get to the skin). If the answer is no, ask the about their food habit and daily liquid intake, if it's all well balanced, the person him or her self will be curious and might ask why all the questions. If they ask, you can now tell the person that you have been noticing a change in his or her odor for a duration of time and its very important to mention when yoh first noticed it as it will help jog the person memory incase a change happened within that time. Now, you can both start working towards the healing process. If you come out from no where with useless jabs or jokes or gifts, it makes you look stupid. Will you want a doctor to announce the death of your loved one by giving you a funeral home brochure, no. When you follow the process I outlined, it makes the person feel comfortable first, relaxed, and willing to open up and not ashamed, jumpy and anxious. I believe that we still have alot to learn. Nothing moves me anymore but I have learn to analyse issues all round before making a conclusion.

Please if you are reading this and you have a case of mild or strong odor that can't be healed or dealt with by any means possible, please don't beat up your self because it's understandable the amount of social stigma that goes along with it. Please go to rareconnect.org and search for trimethylaminuria community, you will learn everything you need to learn. For some people, Tom Ford of 100k, is not the answer but eliminating 80% of the normal food everyone eats because choline and it's derivatives has to be eliminated at all cost and even at that hundreds of dollars has to be spent on supplements like B2, active charcoal and copper chlorophyll. And in all of this, it will only be reduced by 80% max. Please next time you come across someone, think, analyse, show empathy and then speak.

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Tedpgrass: 11:57pm On Apr 14
luminouz:


Irritable bowel syndrome? Don't think that's the case here. She doesnt rush to the toilet to shiit or fart when afraid or stressed na. When she sweats more, She becomes more pungent. There is no gentle whiff anything.The natural funk gets increased to several degrees. I know IBS. She doesn't have that.

There are different varieties of IBS.. It fluctuates as well depending on age, food diary modulation and use of treatment regimes...
3 recognised types.. Constipation, diarrhoea, flatulence or a combination of the above.

If she has associated cramps, abdominal distension which is often camouflaged as a coping mechanism, that's more likely IBS than FMO3 gene depletion or mutation.


.


There are overlaps with trimethylaminuria
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by erai30(m): 11:59pm On Apr 14
Get her NIVEA DEODORANT, and politely/joking tell her that you will like for her to smell NIV.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by luminouz(m): 12:01am On Apr 15
Tedpgrass:


There are different varieties of IBS.. It fluctuates as well depending on age, food diary modulation and use of treatment regimes...
3 recognised types.. Constipation, diarrhoea, flatulence or a combination of the above.

If she has associated cramps, abdominal distension which is often camouflaged as a coping mechanism, that's more likely IBS than FMO3 gene depletion or mutation.


.


There are overlaps with trimethylaminuria

Bro,I know all these technical stuffs you posted there. No one on Earth would tell me that girl's issue is IBS, except you. She doesn't fart or shiit when she is scared or afraid or sweats too much. Her funk (normally noticeable but bearable) gets unbearably funky. How is it IBS when nothing is wrong with her bowels na? Her sweat glands pour out such funk,not her bowels.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Tedpgrass: 12:01am On Apr 15
Henryosita:
The bible says that my people perish for lack of knowledge. If you believe that fowl odor is due to lack of hygiene then I put it to you that poverty is due to laziness and that examination is the true test of knowledge. My brothers and sisters, I do understand that we try to condemn situations that don't affect us. I will like to see a post where people are been condemned for being poor by the rich. While I agree that unhygienic practices can make someone to stink but let's not forget that alot of people we come across might have known or unknown medical conditions that comtribute to this. Take for instance, trimethylaminuria for instance affects mostly African descendants and the only sign of this disease is odor from every part of the body which is due to a deficiency in a particular liver enzyme. Conditions like diabetes, ketoacidosis, hyperhidrosis, chronic liver disease and intake of certain medications can all lead to development of certain odors and due to the fact that our sense of smell are not used to these odors regularly, it is highlighted and gets our attention fast ( just like when you hear a music for the first time). Someone asked, don't their partner or family notice such odor, but the truth is this, our body is extremely advanced. In medicine, we have a process called downgrade pathways, what it means is that when you are exposed to a particular stimulus constantly, after a while, the body stop responding to it. Also genetic plays a role. Family members tends to have a particular type of body odor and hence can't pick up one another's scent. Again, some people have anosmia which means that they can't smell any thing and other people's sense of smell are selective or doesn't make a big deal out of odor and hence no flight response. So please, next time you come across someone who is not smelling nice, do not immediately conclude that hygiene is the problem rather be open minded. It is a stereotype that still needs to be eradicated from our world. It is very multifactorial. Let try to keep an open mind. If I am to approach someone in this situation, I will wait for a quiet, relaxed and jovial period, when only both of you are present and start by reaffirming my friendship and best interest. Ask the person if he/she is sick or have a chronic illness like irritable bowel syndrome, inflammatory bowel disease or small intestinal bacteria overgrowth as these three things can cause leaky gut syndrome ( which allows gases and toxic from the colon to get to the skin). If the answer is no, ask the about their food habit and daily liquid intake, if it's all well balanced, the person him or her self will be curious and might ask why all the questions. If they ask, you can now tell the person that you have been noticing a change in his or her odor for a duration of time and its very important to mention when yoh first noticed it as it will help jog the person memory incase a change happened within that time. Now, you can both start working towards the healing process. If you come out from no where with useless jabs or jokes or gifts, it makes you look stupid. Will you want a doctor to announce the death of your loved one by giving you a funeral home brochure, no. When you follow the process I outlined, it makes the person feel comfortable first, relaxed, and willing to open up and not ashamed, jumpy and anxious. I believe that we still have alot to learn. Nothing moves me anymore but I have learn to analyse issues all round before making a conclusion.

Please if you are reading this and you have a case of mild or strong odor that can't be healed or dealt with by any means possible, please don't beat up your self because it's understandable the amount of social stigma that goes along with it. Please go to rareconnect.org and search for trimethylaminuria community, you will learn everything you need to learn. For some people, Tom Ford of 100k, is not the answer but eliminating 80% of the normal food everyone eats because choline and it's derivatives has to be eliminated at all cost and even at that hundreds of dollars has to be spent on supplements like B2, active charcoal and copper chlorophyll. And in all of this, it will only be reduced by 80% max. Please next time you come across someone, think, analyse, show empathy and then speak.


Said it all...
Thanks bro!!

What's the prevalence rate though in African stock/ race please


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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Tedpgrass: 12:02am On Apr 15
luminouz:


Bro,I know all these technical stuffs you posted there. No one on Earth would tell me that girl's issue is IBS, except you. She doesn't fart or shiit when she is scared or afraid or sweats too much. Her funk (noticeable but bearable) gets unbearably funky. How is it IBS when nothing is wrong with her bowels na? Her sweat glands pour out such funk,not her bowels.

Read the dissertation above... Particularly leaky guts syndrome.

Thanks

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by richard69(m): 12:05am On Apr 15
SmellySperm:
just get her some nice deodorant bro..

how old is she? I just hope you've got no strings attached. just help her with an open mind. Bless up
Great words from smelly sperm, but your moniker is gross sha
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by InvertedHammer: 12:06am On Apr 15
Ugaboy:
I met a girl recently, though the state in which I met her wasn't pleasing at all.

I was passing by with friends, when we saw a girl sitting alone crying profusely.
I had to tell others to leave us.

that was the first time I saw Premium tears, as in it was pouring like spring from her eyes, she finally told me the challenges she is going through.

as a young man, I can't start making promises, I had to encouraged her to fix her pieces and not with tears.

fast forward, we starts meeting at same spot, just to always check on her and her progress.

I don't have any intention towards her, just want to see her always happy.

but I'm having issues that is making me unconformable around her.

Her body odor is so strong, that I'm always tempted to tell her.
though our friendship is still weak, cus it not up to a month we met.

I don't know if it's right time or right, if I open up to her?

How can I tell her without making her feel embarrassing?
and some self medication to help out.
/
Just tell her.

What's the worst thing that can happen?

/
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by luminouz(m): 12:08am On Apr 15
Tedpgrass:


Read the dissertation above... Particularly leaky guts syndrome.

Thanks

.

I did bro. The leaky guts sounds interesting but this girl was born this way. If she had issues with her guts, she would display bowel irregularities and such stuffs. At least, I would know. That's why I have reservations.


Thanks
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Deydontknow(m): 12:09am On Apr 15
Tedpgrass:


There are different varieties of IBS.. It fluctuates as well depending on age, food diary modulation and use of treatment regimes...
3 recognised types.. Constipation, diarrhoea, flatulence or a combination of the above.

If she has associated cramps, abdominal distension which is often camouflaged as a coping mechanism, that's more likely IBS than FMO3 gene depletion or mutation.


.


There are overlaps with trimethylaminuria





The sexually transmitted infection (STI) trichomoniasis also causes odor. Other STIs, like chlamydia and gonorrhea, don't usually have odors. Although less common, cervical or vaginal cancer can also change your vagina's smell.27 Jan 2021

You see the truth if they tell them make they use condoms they no de gree... Nah so one man enter one hotel bar where I dey this morning the flex my life everywhere change sotey barman run go outside everybody the ask wetin de smell this thing wetin de smell this thing... The thing just the smell like misture of aloe vera and pit toilet bro I no go like my belly turn I leave my � jakpa make I no go die for wetin I no no.

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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Kopite63119: 12:10am On Apr 15
She may not have money to buy some personal effects. Get her a basic deodorant, cream, soap, and some little money. If after a week, she still has body odor, then it may be something else.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by koolaid87: 12:11am On Apr 15
Use play play tell am.

Tell am what spray are you using...its so strong that it smells like body odour. He'll get the msg if smart.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by gr8child(m): 12:12am On Apr 15
grin
thorpido:
Is the challenge she's having that is making her cry the body odour?
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by kingthreat(m): 12:12am On Apr 15
If you want to help her, tell her. She probably uses a deodorant already. Tell her plain up. Else no changing for her.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Dehindepgenius(m): 12:28am On Apr 15
I had an experience years ago that gave me a different perspective on this issue. This young lady started working in the accounts department of my office and I fancied her and befriended her. She was beautiful, smart and good natured, but I noticed she had bad breath everyday. I finally worked up the courage to tell her during lunch one day and she opened up and told me it was a chronic problem she had endured since she was a teenager. According to her she had tried every remedy under the sun including doctors but nothing worked. She said she had lived like a hermit for a long time, avoiding social gatherings because of it. But the part of it that broke my heart was when she said she lived in mortal fear of the embarrassment of someone telling her. She was crying so much that she told me she would just go home from the lunch break. That was the last I saw her. She stopped coming to work without officially resigning and she wouldn't pick anyone's calls either. I sent her a WhatsApp message to ask if our conversation had anything to do with her abandoning her job and she said she couldn't face me again. She politely asked me not to contact her again. I felt so bad about this for months. I actually kept checking her Facebook page discreetly to be sure she was OK because she mentioned having suicidal thoughts sometimes because of the bad breath.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by BruncleZuma: 12:29am On Apr 15
Then she's not your friend.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Tedpgrass: 12:33am On Apr 15
Deydontknow:






The sexually transmitted infection (STI) trichomoniasis also causes odor. Other STIs, like chlamydia and gonorrhea, don't usually have odors. Although less common, cervical or vaginal cancer can also change your vagina's smell.27 Jan 2021

You see the truth if they tell them make they use condoms they no de gree... Nah so one man enter one hotel bar where I dey this morning the flex my life everywhere change sotey barman run go outside everybody the ask wetin de smell this thing wetin de smell this thing... The thing just the smell like misture of aloe vera and pit toilet bro I no go like my belly turn I leave my � jakpa make I no go die for wetin I no no.

Agree with you to a degree sir..


With Odours, a distinction has to be made with place of origin.

Broadly speaking..
1. Body odour - permanent, variable.. Discussed most causes in above mentions
2. Mouth odour - halitosis - local (gingivitis-periodontal disease) or
--systemic (liver failure, diabetes,some chronic lung dx and renal conditions etc) , FMO3 gene.
3. Vaginal odour - - infections are varied but bacterial vaginosis is commonest culprit, overwhelming candidiasis as seen in HIV patients, fibroids?: particularly necrotic polypoid types, infection post-abortion, infection after use of vaginal douches, late stage cervical cancers

4. Nether regions B. O
Tends to be with certain posture, during se..x and related to uterine fibroids - particularly cervical and perineal hernias largely post childbirth.... Found largely in thick women.

As anal se x with routine bowel preparation and care become more acceptable, 3 and 4 reasons may be on the decline..

Ps. I'm NOT advocating anal se x by the way.


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Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by alizma: 12:38am On Apr 15
Ugaboy:
I met a girl recently, though the state in which I met her wasn't pleasing at all.

I was passing by with friends, when we saw a girl sitting alone crying profusely.
I had to tell others to leave us.

that was the first time I saw Premium tears, as in it was pouring like spring from her eyes, she finally told me the challenges she is going through.

as a young man, I can't start making promises, I had to encouraged her to fix her pieces and not with tears.

fast forward, we starts meeting at same spot, just to always check on her and her progress.

I don't have any intention towards her, just want to see her always happy.

but I'm having issues that is making me unconformable around her.

Her body odor is so strong, that I'm always tempted to tell her.
though our friendship is still weak, cus it not up to a month we met.

I don't know if it's right time or right, if I open up to her?

How can I tell her without making her feel embarrassing?
and some self medication to help out.
Buy her a nice perfume, tell her you think she needs that, moreso you like the perfume and want her to smell like it. Her reaction to that will reveal to you whether she know of her condition and looking forward to meeting anyone who understands her and desire to help her.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Boyooosa(m): 12:47am On Apr 15
Buy perf/rollon and dettoll for her and advise her how to apply the two. You don't need too much story if she has common sense.
Re: How Can I Tell A Friend That She Has Strong Body Odor? by Sniper101(m): 12:47am On Apr 15
as it seems to be very cool to be honest and truthful to people, since we're on the subject matter of advising the OP on how best to tell a friend she's got a strong body odor, y'all should also tell us how best to tell a friend that she's got a smelly pussy.....without hurting her feelings of course

Thanks!

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